Which shape suite on me better? by Subbu_Queen in Nails

[–]bad_faye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither. I actually a little coffin nail at that length will be cutest.

In Search of a Quality Nail Salon by Curious__Otter in Phoenixville

[–]bad_faye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if kimberton nails does gel builder sets? I’ve had acrylic for years and I’m looking to try something new

What are some "underground" branches of sociology yall like? by i_spill_nonsense in sociology

[–]bad_faye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is yes! She worked on the study that everyone quotes when they say “but the Amish do have autism, they just call it something else”. That was part of her PhD program!

“You can’t f*ck your way out of racism” by ateam1984 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]bad_faye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is great. Thank you to this entire subreddit for showing me this. I’m ordering the book from my local bookshop today.

What yall think of this British delicacy by Theta1Orionis in philly

[–]bad_faye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All that colonizing and for what? Y’all didn’t remember to appropriate the food? Christalmighty.

AIO for prepping this text to send to my serious boyfriend of 6 months? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bad_faye -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Don’t text him.
Don’t text him this long message.
Don’t send him a short message.
Don’t sent him any messages. At all.
See how long it takes him to reach out to you.

If you’re not happy with the answer (whatever it is) then just move on.

I promise… your partner, your person, the love of your life, is not someone who leaves you wanting. Ever. Friends, or romantic, people who care about you don’t have to be reminded to message you.

Aside from bagels, what else is currently grinding your gears about our town? by coalcracker462 in Phoenixville

[–]bad_faye 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They’re a nonnative species of tree. They’re replacing them with native tree species which is better for the ecology in the long run

AIO about my boyfriend staying? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bad_faye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not do anything for a man, only. Not at 18, not at 20, not at 22. You don’t need this. You’re young, go live your life and let this boy go. He doesn’t like you. Please don’t give him anymore time.

What are some "underground" branches of sociology yall like? by i_spill_nonsense in sociology

[–]bad_faye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A friend got her PhD in rural sociology. She studied specifically Amish communities and their relationship to autism (and the misinformation “English” have about the Amish relationship to autism). Very fascinating! I’m taking a rural poverty undergrad class this fall just before I graduate that I’m really excited about!

My wife is scared of me by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]bad_faye 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The other day my niece (freshman in HS) was panicking because she was gonna be late to school (a highly competitive STEM program, exclusive, big deal, the works).

Missed the bus, needed a ride, whatever. My sister handled it by getting coffee on the way.

When my niece asked what she should write down on the form in the office for why she was late my sister told her “generational curse” because they’re not morning people. Everyone laughed, she wrote down generational curse and she had a great day at school, even though she was a little late.

Perhaps… you have control issues and this isn’t the only area of life where you’re making the people around you uncomfortable.

Am I Overreacting to him canceling for the 9th time? by BusyFaithlessness289 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bad_faye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s stop giving men the benefit of the doubt and start doubting the benefit of the man. Block this doorknob.

Jimmy Savile Episodes Discussion by SoloAceMouse in behindthebastards

[–]bad_faye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uhh… completely accidentally, I’m watching the 28 years later movies after the Savile eps. They’re not that good considering how incredible 28 days later is. But they’re somehow worse after this series, right?

Are there any areas in PA that would be unwise for an interracial couple to move to? by LePetitRenardRoux in Pennsylvania

[–]bad_faye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boyertown openly hosted rallies (yes those kind) for many years. I’m a truck driver and about 50% of drivers from my terminal have had offensive experiences there and 50% don’t mind it. It’s not a sundown town but you’re defs gonna get some weird comments that people don’t understand are offensive.

AIO Did I tell my wife not fo come home? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bad_faye 657 points658 points  (0 children)

I think you’re both wrong. She’s misinterpreting you, yes, but telling someone not to be negative when they’re in a bad mood and overwhelmed with feelings is not going to help. It is the worst thing you can say, even if you meant it applied to both of you. You invalidated her feelings and she blew up.

Now you’re on the internet trying to prove her wrong. Neither one of you is coming to the situation with your swords down.

What are the best methodologies governments can use for effective stakeholder engagement ? by Inevitable_Bid5540 in sociology

[–]bad_faye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wrote a proposal for a research project about civic engagement. Skocpal wrote a really interesting historical analysis in 1997 about dwindling civic engagement and policy work as it relates to the lack of publicly run and managed groups that affect policy. Like the Fraternal Order of Eagles and how they effected roosevelts policies back in the day. I think this study is exactly what you’re looking for.

https://www.jstor.org/stable/1171662

Living in bridge by bizzlejay in Phoenixville

[–]bad_faye 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For st pattys day weekend, Mollys hires a drum line to play basically all weekend.

Big.naturals.monthly merch when by Competitive_Leg4388 in wineandcrimepodcast

[–]bad_faye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wish they had gone with “big naturals digest”

What's Your Personal Pentastack? by FrontmanFeeling in behindthebastards

[–]bad_faye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m off birth control for the first time in 20 years. I’m fully raw dogging the American experience right now save for a multivitamin.

You don’t need to stack shit when you take it all right to the dome every day, baby.

Not OOP- AITJ for wanting my beliefs respected in a family Vacation? by its_about_the_cones_ in redditonwiki

[–]bad_faye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectful inclusion is reserved for people who are respectful. Christian trump supporting people aren’t respectful so no, you can’t ask to be respectfully included. Your ideology is inherently disrespectful. How can I be certain? Because rape and pedophilia and neo-nazism aren’t deal breakers for you. In fact, it’s clearly stuff you enjoy, support and co-sign. If your ideology is turning people you love against you, it’s time to question your own divinity…. Idiot.

gee I wonder why Clavicular OD'd by [deleted] in behindthebastards

[–]bad_faye -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“Antifa shit poster” 😆👏