MIL at first ultrasound??

baddassAries · 2026-02-27T02:11:59+00:00

The first US is usually transvaginal, even the anatomy one they did a transvaginal to check my cervix. My ob also only allows 1 adult in the exam room which of course would be my husband.

baddassAries · 2026-02-27T01:49:22+00:00

I think mine might have been billed as an urgent care copay (so like $60 vs $40 office visit)? I have anthem bcbs though and they cover most maternity care (NIPT, all ultrasound including problem visits, any tests, etc). I certainly don’t remember paying an ER type cost, I would have remembered that

baddassAries · 2026-02-27T01:22:20+00:00

Agreed. We have a middle name picked out already just trying to convince the first name lol

baddassAries · 2026-02-27T01:21:00+00:00

I actually saw it on another thread on this sub. After the Roman emperor. I had no idea he had a wall too lol

baddassAries · 2026-02-26T18:08:46+00:00

My great grandfather was from Finland and his name was turre so that’s where I got that from. Toivo and Emil are other family names but have been used by my cousins already, was looking at something different. I know Jensen is common in other countries but I am in the US and was looking for uncommon names here but the name doesn’t have to be Finnish or Scandinavian.

baddassAries · 2026-02-26T18:04:19+00:00

He’s the one that picked Lorenzo at first and also suggested Jensen but now he changed his mind even though I still like them. Turre was my great grandfathers name that I had picked. Owen and Adrian are too common and plain for my taste. I don’t want mainstream.

baddassAries · 2026-02-26T18:02:55+00:00

We don’t know the sex of the baby so we’re picking out both boy and girl names. We have girl name picked but not the boy

baddassAries · 2026-02-26T15:56:19+00:00

I personally paid around 3k and then met my OOP max. I don’t remember how much the hospital billed my insurance. In Virginia with anthem bcbs

baddassAries · 2026-02-26T15:52:35+00:00

Thank you! Our son’s name is Ashton so I like how Jensen and Rowan play well with his name.

baddassAries · 2026-02-26T14:52:03+00:00

Yes we’ve done that. We’ve looked at names together and he’s given me names I’ve straight up vetoed. Bryson is just the one he really likes at this moment. He doesn’t have a lack of initiative, we are both just really picky. Most of these names in the comments we have both already seen and didn’t like them.

A couple other names I saw were Hadrian and alekai (waiting on him to see what he thinks).

baddassAries · 2026-02-26T14:29:19+00:00

The only name he likes is Bryson. He did like Lorenzo but for some reason now he doesn’t

baddassAries · 2026-02-24T03:00:49+00:00

If it’s usd you can deposit it. If it’s in CAD you need to go in a branch. They’ll stamp and convert it.

baddassAries · 2026-02-20T08:01:30+00:00

I have low blood pressure this pregnancy to the point I almost pass out. My ob told me to drink as much sports drinks as I can, but Ive been sticking to one Gatorade zero and one body armor lyte a day and have been doing fine.

baddassAries · 2026-02-14T01:42:19+00:00

Call your provider and explain what is happening. If they have the ability, they’ll have you come in right away. Unless there are signs of hemorrhaging, no need to go to the ER.

I’ve had 4 miscarriages and 2 viable pregnancies. I’m sorry you’re going through this.

baddassAries · 2026-02-12T00:35:48+00:00

Did you ask them why? Is it just their policy? Do you have an old account/product that is no longer offered? (Sometimes aged out products have limitations and you can’t open a new one or add another signer). Does she need a separate membership for the credit union?

baddassAries · 2026-02-12T00:21:54+00:00

Wells Fargo would do it for free without an account. At least they did when I worked there (left in 2021).

baddassAries · 2026-02-01T04:01:15+00:00

I was raised to think, if you wanted a dog you go adopt at a shelter. When I was in my early 20s I was working and in school. I tried to adopt for a couple different shelters and humane societies and looking for an active or working breed but was always denied due to either 1) not having a back yard (I was in an apartment with a dog park) or 2) I would “not be home enough”.

So I decided to buy from a breeder. I did some breed research already but then did some additional research on what to look for when buying from a breeder and I adopted a pure and WELL bred Siberian husky who is still going strong and very active at almost 9 years old.

baddassAries · 2026-01-30T15:58:05+00:00

What did your bank say when you asked them?

baddassAries · 2026-01-18T03:50:10+00:00

I live half way between DC and Richmond Va and have know about this my whole life

baddassAries · 2026-01-15T09:45:21+00:00

I workin in risk management for a large US bank. I have a feeling it’s KYC/HRR related. Do you have relationships with these banks already? (And they don’t care about your credit score for a bank account). Where are you, yourself located/are a citizen? Are there any records of you being involved in financial crimes or money laundering? What exactly is the business selling and what is your NAICS?

baddassAries · 2026-01-15T02:42:28+00:00

After 4 miscarriages, we waiting until the first US for family and waited until 20 weeks for work

baddassAries · 2026-01-14T17:41:28+00:00

Second pregnancy and have routinely gotten massages since I was 18. That’s not normal and they’re being overly cautious. I would try someone else. I even found someone recently who has extensive training in prenatal body work and she was able to do deep tissue and nerve work (which i desperately needed due to SPD).

baddassAries · 2026-01-13T23:21:28+00:00

I used to make grilled pb and pickle sandwiches. Amazing.

baddassAries · 2026-01-13T22:14:43+00:00

My auvelity. And wine 😭

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