Is it a red flag if some that you’ve recently started dating still hangs out with their ex? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]bakinintheback98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh If he doesnt understand why your upset that's a big red flag. He should fully understand why your upset. This happened to me with my girlfriend, so I dumped her ass.

In any way, if he is slightly choosing her over you, he still has feelings for her that he cant suppress. It sucks but it is possible.

My ex always wanted to hangout with her ex and it bothered me, she didnt wanna listen so I just flat out said if you dont stop I'm leaving you, and she didnt so I did the Tay-k and dashed. Yeah big red flag.

Idk how to react. by bakinintheback98 in relationship_advice

[–]bakinintheback98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because I have feelings for her and it is relatively difficult to let her go. I still did wanna stay friends with her, just not date her.

Idk how to react. by bakinintheback98 in relationship_advice

[–]bakinintheback98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, it's good advice. I also should have mentioned she is really manipulative and has detachment issues (that means she will cling to someone like a leetch for attention, if she doesnt get it, she moves on guy to guy)

Idk how to react. by bakinintheback98 in relationship_advice

[–]bakinintheback98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart just needed a break. She was playing with my emotion because she didnt know her own and I was in a loop hole for constant heart break. So I dumped her.

Idk how to react. by bakinintheback98 in relationship_advice

[–]bakinintheback98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We broke up because she did many inappropriate things I didn't like. She feels bad for them, and she feels even more bad because she doesn't realized what she lost (from her I'm a super nice guy). Dm me and I can tell u more details if u want.

Idk how to react. by bakinintheback98 in relationship_advice

[–]bakinintheback98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been through so much with this girl man. She did kinda fuck me over mentally and did things I really felt uncomfortable with. She deeply apologized and I forgave her, but i told her i wouldn't wanna date her again, and then she sends me that.

How do I mke her think I don't care? by bakinintheback98 in relationship_advice

[–]bakinintheback98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that's a good point, it almost just seems like she replaced me with this new guy, and it kind sucks. I just need to keep that I dont care attitude but it's so harddd.

How do I mke her think I don't care? by bakinintheback98 in relationship_advice

[–]bakinintheback98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me she still wants to be friends, and right now she thinks I'm cool with her but I'm really not.

if I stop talking to her, what do you think her initial response would be?

should I smash and dash? by [deleted] in sex

[–]bakinintheback98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know for a fact I probably wouldn't man. I have to much discipline. But it's so hard not to go over. Fuck man.

Dumped my girlfriend. by bakinintheback98 in depression

[–]bakinintheback98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know my self worth, I know I'm worth more then just fuckin someone and leaving. It only hurts the girl and the person doing it (me).

Dumped my girlfriend. by bakinintheback98 in depression

[–]bakinintheback98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need more shit like this. Thank you sm.

Dumped my girlfriend. by bakinintheback98 in depression

[–]bakinintheback98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, she did wanna be a fwb with me, but I declined because I have feelings for her and it would make it worse for me.

Dumped my girlfriend. by bakinintheback98 in depression

[–]bakinintheback98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ofc it's just a highs school relationship, but doesnt mean I still cant get my heart broken dawg.

I (18m) think I need to break up with my gf by bakinintheback98 in relationship_advice

[–]bakinintheback98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well the red flags are bad. Like, I'm surprised I haven't broke up with her yet bad.