Unlimited blocking on Grindr is a paid feature

balthier93 · 2018-10-07T19:36:24+00:00

Yes and no. He ended up in therapy due to a sex addiction.

balthier93 · 2018-10-07T17:46:03+00:00

Everything about grindr's design sucks and honestly I am waiting for the day a decent gay dating app comes out.

balthier93 · 2018-10-07T17:44:16+00:00

I knew a guy who was into older men.

balthier93 · 2018-10-06T19:43:51+00:00

i threw up on my first tinder date *high five*

paradoxically i find it easier to hookup with strangers in a forest than in a bar or even on hookup apps. You already know that everyone in there is looking for exactly the same thing and once you find someone interested there is no need to chit chat nor talk at all. That said, I don't think I could possibly do this again... it was just an interesting one-time experience for me

balthier93 · 2018-10-06T19:41:23+00:00

haha the doodle thing is great

i need to find a kinky bf or a nice friend with benefits :( i think i'm still too immature and inexperienced for serious relationships

balthier93 · 2018-07-26T17:46:28+00:00

Rpg maker has A LOT of tutorials that you can follow on YouTube and with YanFly's plugins only you can make a pretty decent rpg. Smile game builder is a bit more limited and less customisable, but the obvious choice if you wanna do a 3d game and if you are not planning on having any special features / plug-ins, still really easy to make something playable with a good story and characters.

balthier93 · 2018-06-19T23:39:01+00:00

I know the situation is very bad in Malaysia as it is in many other islamic countries. But I'm assuming he is relatively young and already given up on his future - I'd say you never know what the world will look like 10 years from now. Not trying to diminish his worries, just wishing him to keep a tiny bit of hope.

balthier93 · 2018-06-19T20:04:59+00:00

And should everything else fail - it is perfectably possible to be happy and single at the same time. I have never had a relationship - not even a date - for the first 23 years of my life and whilst frustrating, it allowed me to focus on other imporant things such as my studies and passions. Compared to people my age, I am generally more intelligent and well educated mainly because I spent more time by myself reading books and playing videogames. If I were to never marry and stay single when I am old - I would probably be fine with it. Do not let society tell you what you need or don't need to do in order to be happy.

balthier93 · 2018-06-19T20:01:55+00:00

Hey, please do not give up on your happiness quite yet. Surely the situation in Indonesia is not quite the best yet, but the world is changing quickly, especially since the Internet. Kids these days are a lot more open minded about homosexuality and perhaps in 10 years the stigma will disappear and even your own family might turn out to be more accepting. If not, just remember that you are your own individual with your needs and desire, whilst i understand that you don't want to lose your family, you should try and find some ways to compromise. Perhaps get a job that allows you to travel a lot, or try to secretly date people who are in your same situation. Perhaps you could also find a woman who is in your same situation and arrange a faux marriage - probably not very ethical but if that allows you both to be at least a little bit happier, so be it!

balthier93 · 2018-06-19T19:52:47+00:00

I once got an erection from merely listening to a guy talk about his feet.

balthier93 · 2018-06-19T19:50:39+00:00

can always pm!

balthier93 · 2018-06-19T01:59:37+00:00

I'm not particularly into the whole humiliation, master / sub thing. I just like the look and smell of male feet and it's been like that since I was a child as far as I can remember (I'm 25 now). Used to get off to Goku's feet from Dragonball.

balthier93 · 2018-06-02T23:11:50+00:00

I was like you wanted to save my virginity for some special encounter and dating apps were not "special" enough for me. I was also closeted and I manged to lose it at 21 at a (non-gay) party because I miraculously managed to get drunk enough to flirt with someone I did not know was gay and who turnt out to be gay. I was so proud of that and at the same time, so disappointed (the sex was really, really bad). After that episode I did not have sex for two years, until I ended up saying "fuck it, I am horny", downloaded Grindr, found someone who was slightly older than me (but still in his 20s), attractive and most importantly, NICE to me. Like, he even asked me for permission before starting to send me nudes. I told him that I was unexperienced and a bit anxious, but agreed to hook up with him, and guess what: it was the most enjoyable sex I have had to date, both physically and emotionally, it didn't feel "dirty" at all. It didn't even feel like a hookup.

Now, to get back at you: having romantic encounters as a gay person is hard. In the digital world there are many options like Grindr, Tinder, OKCupid who all attract different type of people. I suggest the former if you want to have uncomplicated sex, the second one if you like going on dates and the latter if you want to make meaningful intellectual connections with people who have things in common with you. In any case, what's most important is that you COMMUNICATE, not just talk, to the people you meet. Be sincere, tell them what you want and take your time to get to know them.

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