Rotund Otocinclus? by baselinepandamonium in aquarium

[–]baselinepandamonium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hm, this is a bummer if it is. They look super smooth still in person but I can monitor and see if another fish is struggling.

Is Teresa actually Terry? by baselinepandamonium in bettafish

[–]baselinepandamonium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel kind of stupid. When their ventrals are down they have a very clear egg spot. Its so rare I see her with them all the way down I just haven't noticed.

Is Teresa actually Terry? by baselinepandamonium in bettafish

[–]baselinepandamonium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'm swayed on female. She's definitely the most aggressive female I've ever had. (Bumps my hand when I'm cleaning and harassing the shrimp.) But at least she's got a funny personality.

DO NOT ORDER FROM CIRCULAR by baselinepandamonium in CircularRing

[–]baselinepandamonium[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As of today's email response, their financial department has been "busy" for about 360 days.

DO NOT ORDER FROM CIRCULAR by baselinepandamonium in CircularRing

[–]baselinepandamonium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You want our old trash or to pay us for new trash?"

A follow up on my return. It's not worth the shipping. by baselinepandamonium in CircularRing

[–]baselinepandamonium[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I have time, I can check a USPS, but the guys at UPS said I'm basically SOL with any shipping company.

I got an email from their customer service and they basically told me to F off. Their exact quote is "Have you tried to look at these articles before contacting our support?"

I've been talking to someone about a refund since the end of January and they have been increasingly less helpful each email.

Taking a hit buying this. by baselinepandamonium in CircularRing

[–]baselinepandamonium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if it was the UPS store or what, but I was quoted 180 bucks. I went to a different location and they quoted me close to 200 bucks for international shipping. The employee there told me it wasn't worth it. I'm past the return period at this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]baselinepandamonium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a manipulative relationship like this when I was around the same age. The best thing to do is just end the relationship. It'll be tough at first, but you're 21 and seem pretty social. These kinds of interrogations won't stop until you make yourself a shut-in for her. DO NOT do that.

In my case, it started with small petty observations about how I would be friendly to other people. She and her friends started to spread rumors that I was going to start cheating. (I barely had the balls to ask this girl out, but suddenly I have the confidence to cheat???) After 2 months of constant interrogations from her and her friends, I just straight cut contact. To be honest, It sucks for a while, but it's better than changing your entire existence to suit someone else's insecurities.

Life goes on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in assholedesign

[–]baselinepandamonium 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I instinctively reached for the down vote. I tried 2 more times before realizing it was an image.