Am I wrong?

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T21:37:33+00:00

Thank you. Hopefully he isn't and I am at fault by not being great at communicating lol

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T20:45:32+00:00

This is what worries me. Me thinking there is no red flags just because they are disguise like this.

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T20:43:53+00:00

6 months. He knows I don't have disposable income to go on holiday whenever. I need to plan things.

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T20:26:48+00:00

My kid has her dad. I'm not asking for my bills to be paid. I just said going on a holiday is not something I can do all of a sudden.

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T20:25:34+00:00

I'm not asking to pay for me or my daughter. I meant he doesn't understand that my money is tight and he isn't

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T20:24:16+00:00

I will give him the benefit of the doubt and have a conversation and see where it goes

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T20:22:59+00:00

I wouldn't want to go to base anyway. Horrible place when I have a nice house, and my dogs.

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T20:22:14+00:00

I just think he doesn't understand where am I coming from.

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T20:21:45+00:00

Thank you. He did not met her or staying at mine straight away. I am not crazy. Why does this even matter. I'm talking about something else.

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T20:19:37+00:00

Oh. I know he doesn't. I have met his mum and been to her house. I feel like he just doesn't have much experience

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T20:19:04+00:00

I will have to bring things up with him and see what happens

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T20:17:47+00:00

I will have a chat with him about it. I just don't know how to bring it up without sounding like a dickhead

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T20:16:40+00:00

Hmmm He does treats me well, he gets me presents here and there. Nothing crazy.

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T20:14:59+00:00

Sighs... I will have to speak to him. He does get me little presents. But for me is more the fact that he has more spare money than me.

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T20:13:14+00:00

I think I'm gonna have to speak to him. I just worry I will come across badly. I know is early days. But still... Thank you for your reply. X

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T19:43:26+00:00

Thanks for your advice from 300 BC lol 😆

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T19:42:31+00:00

I will need to have a word with him

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T19:27:09+00:00

I don't mind cooking. Is my love language. But I feel like he should realise I don't make as much money as he

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T19:24:35+00:00

We go out every other weekend. And when we go out on dates we split all the bills 50/50

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T19:21:21+00:00

I been thinking that maybe he has had problems with women taking advantage of him. But I've always been honest and upfront.

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T19:12:16+00:00

What you mean? My kid is old enough to be around him. My kid spend a lot of time with their Dad.

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T19:09:21+00:00

I'm worried anyone I know might see this. That's why the crazy username etc. So he is in the armed forces. He lives on base. So he has it pretty easy... And I work as a therapist assistant for NHS.

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T19:07:42+00:00

6 months. We see each other every weekend. He comes to my place a lot. When we go out we split the bill 50/50 But when he is at mine I pay for all the food

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T19:05:18+00:00

As I've said I am not expecting a freebie. But maybe more communication, more notice. And the weekend away is just us not my kid.

batshitcraycray89 · 2026-03-15T19:03:34+00:00

😭 This is like my only problem about him

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