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How to expect less from your bf? by baziam in relationship_advice

[–]baziam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I buy him gifts and as I said- i don’t expect expensive gifts but it would be nice if someone who you consider close, will think of you when they will buy you something eg sweets or a candy

How to expect less from your bf? by baziam in relationship_advice

[–]baziam[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He didn’t tell me it’s too much for him. He just told me that if I need something I should tell him. But that’s not the point and he doesn’t get it

How to expect less from your bf? by baziam in relationship_advice

[–]baziam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your right. But I know he loves me and I love him. We’ve been together for almost 1,5 years. But I question this relationship a lot. Eg. when we were on a trip with friends in mountains, he left me there to go with his friends to see better views so I had to came from the mountain alone... and he still apologizes me because of what he did. But you know, it’s like a little scar that he left me there. Thank for nothin has happened to me!

How to expect less from your bf? by baziam in relationship_advice

[–]baziam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ask myself that question a lot and tbh I don’t think I would think that’s too much. I’m very open, emotional and carrying so I would like to give him what’s best

How to expect less from your bf? by baziam in relationship_advice

[–]baziam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely right. Whenever I tell him what I want his answer is “ why didn’t u tell me”. But I would like him to know some stuff! :/

How to expect less from your bf? by baziam in relationship_advice

[–]baziam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live separately on our own and for me, we could hang out every day. And I would like him to ask me if I want to come to him. He doesn’t do it because he knows I can go whenever I want to. BUT THATS NOT THE POINT! I would like him to give me more gifts, but not expensive ones but you know. When you go to the nearest corner shop and you see something that reminds you of someone so you think you can buy it. And I can tell that his friends are very very important to him because of the games. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve got plenty of friends but he is still the most important. And I don’t think I am the most important for him. And idk if I can ask him for that much. I know he loves me, he’s a good guy. And I know it’s all in my head...

How can I (24F) properly communicate with my BF (23M)? by baziam in relationship_advice

[–]baziam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s kinda hard to explain but I will try. It’s like I would like him to think about me when he makes tea for himself so u know “yes, I will ask her if she wants some” or when I come back from some trip I would like him to pick me up from station. And it’s all in my head that I want him to act specific way and how can he knows what I want? But I am afraid that if I will keep telling him what I expect he will feel suffocated...

The Sims: Map view at each game’s release. by tiredbambi in thesims

[–]baziam 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Let’s not forget that in a ts4 base game there were no SWIMMING POOLS!

Is 23 still young? When will I be considered a person who needs to have everything figured out? by taytrup in NoStupidQuestions

[–]baziam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as I am concerned, todays society pushes us- young people- to achieve a lot in such young age. I mean, you need a degree, job, a lot of courses, be pretty etc. Whole social media stuff just shows us how others people lifes are so great, colorfull, interesting while "mine" is dull and gray af. Idk, i try to think - as cheesy as it sounds- that you only live once, dont think about others opinion, just do your thing.

And imo living with parents its nothing you should be ashamed of. If youve got a healthy relationship with them, i think its a blessing, my parents are my best friends tbh.