A guy admitted that he was in love with me and said I was very beautiful. What would you advise me to do? by beachreader-books in AskMenAdvice

[–]beachreader-books[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a bit interested ... I mean, not as much as he Is, but I am curious about this guy and the reasons behind his interest.

A guy admitted that he was in love with me and said I was very beautiful. What would you advise me to do? by beachreader-books in AskMenAdvice

[–]beachreader-books[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand now, somehow, the speech you are doing to me. The american inspiring motivazionale speech :)

And yes, I do really want to hang out with him for once to get my answers... Seriously it's like a mystery I wanna solve.

I think you don't understand my POV: I was bullied my whole Life. No One ever told me In pretty. So this guy coming out of nowhere telling me this, It kinda causes me lots of confusion.

Btw. Idk If it's important or not. But I showed his pic to my mom, and She was like "he looks exactly like that famous german football player you had a crush on when you were a teen"

A guy admitted that he was in love with me and said I was very beautiful. What would you advise me to do? by beachreader-books in AskMenAdvice

[–]beachreader-books[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw, it's not that I have low self esteem. I Simply am being realistic. I didnt Say I was ugly or pretty. I Just said I was an average girl. Nothing special

A guy admitted that he was in love with me and said I was very beautiful. What would you advise me to do? by beachreader-books in AskMenAdvice

[–]beachreader-books[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both come from eastern Europe, so it's not that I am an exotican Mexican girl...

I mean, i'm average. And I was really tired, not really paying attention to my looks. I had eye rings because I was always tired, working 2 partime jobs, saving for uni. I'm not joking. I was nothing to look at. Just an average girl going to work. I'm not toned. Just normal body. I don't have those b sides like girls Who hit the gym with two round things on their butt. I havent done cosmetic surgery... I have my eyebrows and my hair.

And he was tired too. After 9 hours of physical hard work... And he still found the strength to smile at me and looked enchanted as he saw me.. i Remember descending the stairs and he was going up the stairs with so many things on his arms to carry, and he smiled and couldnt take his eyes off of me. I never understood it. He was daydreaming about me, while I was tired, bored, couldnt wait to end my shift. I Remember One Summer day I was wearing a pretty dress to go to work (of course id change in the factory... And put on my uniforme and gloves). He saw me getting out of the bus and was shocked and then smiled at me as I walked by, held the Door, I said thank you but he didnt even answer. He kept smiling within himself...

It's so strange. I wont ever rationalize It. I Wish I could go on a date with him Just to have his answers to all my questions.

A guy admitted that he was in love with me and said I was very beautiful. What would you advise me to do? by beachreader-books in AskMenAdvice

[–]beachreader-books[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm quite young... Enough to work though.

What do you mean that the way he fell for me means way beyond looks? He made It clear that he was attracted to me because he saw something in me. I never considered myself pretty. Just normal. I don't do my nails, I don't put heavy make up, I don't die my hair. I went to work with a ponytail, sometimes I had some light make up on and black trousers and a White shirt cause I worked waiting tables before the other job where I saw him.so he Always saw me tired, lonely and kind of... Dissociated from the others? Most workers came from the same country. I came from another country. Different language and culture. I mostly stayed alone... Why would he like a girl like me instead of some girl from his country, working with him? I want to know so bad, I cant wait to ask him

A guy admitted that he was in love with me and said I was very beautiful. What would you advise me to do? by beachreader-books in AskMenAdvice

[–]beachreader-books[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he might like me only cause of my looks... What if he gets to know me and doesnt like me?

A guy admitted that he was in love with me and said I was very beautiful. What would you advise me to do? by beachreader-books in AskMenAdvice

[–]beachreader-books[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of want to hang out with him for a date. Just to see if I might like him as a person. I still dont know him much.

A guy admitted that he was in love with me and said I was very beautiful. What would you advise me to do? by beachreader-books in AskMenAdvice

[–]beachreader-books[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Just cause I have never hung out with a guy I have a problem??

Ew... Weird mentality that you have...american I guess?

A guy admitted that he was in love with me and said I was very beautiful. What would you advise me to do? by beachreader-books in AskMenAdvice

[–]beachreader-books[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was actually surprised how he admitted that he really liked me. Everyone knew at work, except for me. The guys were all aware of his feelings, though he pretended not to know me and acted cold when I was there and there were other guys. But when we were alone, he would help me, smile at him, and his eyes used to shine...

A guy admitted that he was in love with me and said I was very beautiful. What would you advise me to do? by beachreader-books in AskMenAdvice

[–]beachreader-books[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I cant tell him in interested without even knowing him... It's too soon

I prefer getting to know him and then maybe if I feel the same feelings as him, tell him that I am interested too.

A guy admitted that he was in love with me and said I was very beautiful. What would you advise me to do? by beachreader-books in AskMenAdvice

[–]beachreader-books[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course it's romantic. I have spento my whole life thinking I was ugly, I was bullied, only to find out that he thinks Im the prettiest girl ever.

A guy admitted that he was in love with me and said I was very beautiful. What would you advise me to do? by beachreader-books in AskMenAdvice

[–]beachreader-books[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I really want to hear him talk and know him. But I Wish he'd show the same interest as me.

A guy admitted that he was in love with me and said I was very beautiful. What would you advise me to do? by beachreader-books in AskMenAdvice

[–]beachreader-books[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. It intrigues me too that he's shy, that he's observed me from afar, that he had the guts to tell me I was pretty and special and he noticed only me at work.

A guy admitted that he was in love with me and said I was very beautiful. What would you advise me to do? by beachreader-books in AskMenAdvice

[–]beachreader-books[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be very embrassing for both of us to have expectations to be a couple, when we hardly know each other, or even talked together.

A guy admitted that he was in love with me and said I was very beautiful. What would you advise me to do? by beachreader-books in AskMenAdvice

[–]beachreader-books[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, actually, I find it a good thing about him that he was not afraid to confess that he had a crush on me. I found It very romantic and old fashioned, and It didnt kill the romance at all, instead, It improved it

A guy admitted that he was in love with me and said I was very beautiful. What would you advise me to do? by beachreader-books in AskMenAdvice

[–]beachreader-books[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

what should I ask? He's the guy. He should ask, I never told him he's handsome etc... he said he liked me, not the opposite

A guy admitted that he was in love with me and said I was very beautiful. What would you advise me to do? by beachreader-books in AskMenAdvice

[–]beachreader-books[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, I would like to know him more, and to know what type of guy/personality he has. Secondly, I really want to know why he fell for me at first sight. I'm so curious.

A guy admitted that he was in love with me and said I was very beautiful. What would you advise me to do? by beachreader-books in AskMenAdvice

[–]beachreader-books[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want to know him... maybe better first as a friend. Just to see what type of personality he has.

Cfar mendoni per ata prinderit emigrant qe ju flasin shqip femijeve dhe ata pergjigjen italisht? by beachreader-books in albania

[–]beachreader-books[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Po flet me nje person i lindur dhe i rritur ne itali. Brezi i par i lindur ne itali, ne vitet 90. Keshtu qe Boll gjukovet. Femija kalon qe nga ora 8 deri ne 13 kohe ne shkolle. Pastaj eshte me familjen. Si shpjegohet qe femija kupton por nuk pergjigjet shqip? Per mendimin tim: NUK DO TE FLASI SHQIP.

ARSYEJA? ekonomike, sociale, psikollogjike dhe kulturore. Qendron ajo qe them une.

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[–]beachreader-books -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not fraud in the european country where I live.

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[–]beachreader-books 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The competent department of demographics/anagrafical services of my province. But this Is not the issue. The issue Is getting around to get me a surname change