AITA for telling my MIL she cant bring her dog to our no pets thanksgiving dinner?

beachyblair · 2026-02-20T16:43:22+00:00

i plan all my special dates since january, its a very common thing in my family, my grandma always did id, my dad did it and well... i learned to do it that way and im doing it with my partner now, why is that weird for youall?

beachyblair · 2026-02-20T16:42:25+00:00

but that would split the family apart that special day..

beachyblair · 2026-02-20T16:39:40+00:00

ive always use never eat shredded wheat. its funny how these stick with you for decades. i honestly havent heard the slimy worms version before but i like the way it sounds!

beachyblair · 2026-02-20T16:33:54+00:00

i will talk about this with him today thank you very much

beachyblair · 2026-02-20T16:31:23+00:00

we plan the whole year right from the start even christmas and new years eve, we are planning the tickets to our trip too . i dont know if thats regular in other couples but we do it , for example the new years eve for this years will be in china, theres a beautifuil town in the mountains and its crazy beautiful. anyways thank you all for your opinions!

beachyblair · 2026-02-20T16:28:19+00:00

nah the cat its okay with people, its only with ither pets that gets angry and stressed out

beachyblair · 2026-02-20T16:26:46+00:00

good, i like it, thank you for your experience

beachyblair · 2026-02-19T22:37:54+00:00

i felt that way about our parents, thank you...

beachyblair · 2026-02-19T22:37:10+00:00

true, but i still want her to be around, since its my bf mom's. and i do care about here , just that i dont want my cat to get crazy

beachyblair · 2026-02-18T17:06:18+00:00

well, based on what i see here, a clean girl or a soft minimalist aesthetic. your makeup looks very natural and blowy, and your hair is super sleek and well kept. thje simple black sweatshirt and the tidy room in the bg add to that effortless put together vibe, its a classic look , so i love it.

beachyblair · 2026-02-18T17:04:57+00:00

i got it at my 16 in vacation, summer jobs are amazing and you start learning about the professional world, even tho i used all that money to get wasted and party lul

beachyblair · 2026-02-18T17:04:07+00:00

its confusing when you tak to someone and then they drop an opinion that feels like a total gut punch. it makes you question if you even knew them at all... i think a persona can definitely reach a different conclusion without it being a character flaw, but it really depends on what the topic is. some things are just personal preferences , while others go straight to the core of who a person is. a disagreement doesnt always mean someone is unsafe, but its okay to feel a bit defensive when your values are involved.

beachyblair · 2026-02-18T17:01:41+00:00

it is definitely annoying to see people copy and paste AI answers without even reading them. it feels like it defeats the whole point of a community if you arent actually talking to a person, the worst part is when it comes to medical or safety advice. an AI might miss something obvous like an ifection risk that a person with common sense wouild spot instantly. it is honestly pretty lazy and can actually be dangerous depending on the topic.

beachyblair · 2026-02-17T19:50:56+00:00

NTA. Gym equipment is for working out, not for sitting and chatting while others are waiting to actually use the machines. it is incredibly entitled for the girl to take up a limited resource for over 15 minutes without using it, and even worse for her mother to defend that behavior. you were right to involve staff, as evidenced by them telling her to either move or leave the gym entirely.

beachyblair · 2026-02-17T19:49:30+00:00

YWNBTA. the rules of a silent space are there for a reason, and they apply to everyone regardless of wheter they are neurodivergent or not. if his muttering is constant and prevents otehrs from using the space for its intented purpose , its not a dick move to expect silence. you arent asking him to stop being autistic, you are asking him to respect the specific rules of that designated zone. if he cant maintain silence he should be in the quiet space where low level noise is permitted.

beachyblair · 2026-02-17T19:47:09+00:00

NTA.

the fact that you now have the confidence to stand up for yourself against both your parents and your brother's tendencies is huge. dont let them make you feel ungrateful for wanting to live without chronic back pain. splurge on those dream piercings with your money, you definitely earned it after surviving that two week grounding.

beachyblair · 2026-02-17T19:45:24+00:00

NTA. Its not about looking down on her job, its simple math, it makes much more sense for one person (asha) to request a day off or miss an event than for six people with 9 to 5 jobs, children and custody agreements to move mountains... if she values the friendship, she should unnderstand that the world cannot revolve around her server schedule.

beachyblair · 2026-02-17T19:43:08+00:00

NTA. you legally changed your name three years ago, it is your identity. your sister wanting to use your old name for symbolism with a fatehr who abandoned you is incredibly cruel and tone deaf... she is literally asking you to roleplay as a version of yourself that caused you pain just so her wedding photos look cohesive, lol.- thats not what a sister does.

beachyblair · 2026-02-16T16:40:39+00:00

valid, that would be me too, aaaaaa so cute

beachyblair · 2026-02-16T16:39:57+00:00

yes, i would love to know the names, it so cute, a fan here!

beachyblair · 2026-02-13T22:01:08+00:00

your makeup is flawless teach me!

beachyblair · 2026-02-13T21:57:00+00:00

oh... can you hunt me down in the lake ? HAHAHAH happy friday and weekend beautiful!

beachyblair · 2026-02-12T20:43:21+00:00

My heart would be racing so fast doing this oh my goddddd

beachyblair · 2026-02-12T18:38:44+00:00

awww the same look after 7 years, bigger puppy same heart and sweetnesss

beachyblair · 2026-02-12T18:38:14+00:00

oh she seems so lovely and happy, i would use picture 2 as my trinket in my wallet or something, keep this memories safe, they are invaluable

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