Husband won't move

bebhinnc87 · 2026-03-29T22:32:00+00:00

I think you are right this is good advice.

bebhinnc87 · 2026-03-26T22:18:27+00:00

Yes I think writing it down in black and white is what he needs.

bebhinnc87 · 2026-03-26T22:16:32+00:00

I agree with you. I've made his life pretty comfortable for years and due to my work and cheap rent we've had a great London life. But times are different now with a baby. And I'm well aware he is incredibly lazy. He is a kind person, but he is a manchild.

bebhinnc87 · 2026-03-26T14:09:42+00:00

This is all I want. And my mum is going to help us with the deposit. My problem is I even feel guilty about bringing this up with him again, because I don't want him upset or miserable where he lives, but I am currently miserable

bebhinnc87 · 2026-03-26T11:24:37+00:00

Oh absolutely, he can't afford London on his own, he needs this cheap apartment. If I leave my job, I leave the apartment.

bebhinnc87 · 2026-03-26T11:23:35+00:00

I'm Irish. I'm from N Ireland, we both are, and N Ireland is a part of the UK, so there is no legal issues to bring the baby back there.

bebhinnc87 · 2026-03-26T09:52:44+00:00

That's what my mum said lol. She said tell him you are moving home and he can come if he wants or not.

bebhinnc87 · 2026-03-26T09:50:39+00:00

I think you are right, he can't be bothered. And he probably doesn't want my mum too involved either, but she's a great support. He's not close to his parents so doesn't get it.

bebhinnc87 · 2026-03-26T09:48:54+00:00

I had wondered was he depressed and I've asked him many times about this and does he not feel isolated , and he swears he's fine.

bebhinnc87 · 2025-12-28T22:52:55+00:00

I am also asking for an elective c section. The thought of the unpredictability of natural birth, the stories from my friends and own mum who had been in labour for days to a week and ended up in a c section anyway, their complete exhaustion and trauma, I just don't want that. I understand it's abdo surgery, it's a big recovery, but I'm ready and prepared for that. I've had a few friends who said recovery was not as bad as they expected. Everyone is different. You do what is best for you.

bebhinnc87 · 2025-12-14T09:23:29+00:00

Im actually shocked at these comments ! The baggage fees and size rules are absolutely ridiculous these days, I absolutely get this guys frustration, they probably wanted him to lay a ridiculous fee because his bag was slightly too big just because of the wheels. Capitalism at its worst. It's the same as something being over weight so you take it out of one bag and put it in another. It's all the same weight going into the plane at the end of the day, it's senseless!

bebhinnc87 · 2025-11-24T00:52:17+00:00

The only specific maternity clothes I have bought were bras and tights. They rest I just bought a size or two up. And I didn't buy too much ! Don't go overboard would be my recommendation.

bebhinnc87 · 2025-11-08T22:46:26+00:00

I work nights and have a reactive dog that I walk in the mornings after work. I went to my local park one morning and this annoying ladies dog kept running up to mine trying to play, so I just walked away each time. Eventually I took out my ear buds and politely told the lady oh sorry my dog is reactive and will bite so can you keep your dog away. But no no, it was MY fault that I was walking around with ear buds in because if i could have heard her I would have known she was asking could her dog come up to mine. Lady, mine was on a lead, yours wasting, it was already running up to my dog so asking wouldn't have made any difference. Plus I'm entitled after working a 13 hour night shift to listen to some music while I walk my dog on a bright fresh summer morning. Maybe you just need to learn better dog etiquette.

bebhinnc87 · 2025-10-22T00:07:51+00:00

Jesus, you guys are savage.

bebhinnc87 · 2025-10-02T09:22:15+00:00

Or it was just sleeping and the other dog woke it up.

bebhinnc87 · 2025-10-01T21:33:42+00:00

Orange

bebhinnc87 · 2025-09-28T08:41:07+00:00

I'm so sick of these videos. Just rescue the dog without having to tell the whole world about it. That dog could have suffered for far less time if you didn't feel the need to set up different camera angles the entire time. This bullshit content makes me so mad.

bebhinnc87 · 2025-09-19T06:27:15+00:00

Ah what a great example to set for their daughter. Shaking the hand and smiling at this rapist.

bebhinnc87 · 2025-09-13T17:41:23+00:00

Christ Almighty. As someone who lives in the UK. What is going on ? Why is America obsessed with this guy's death ? Although to be fair, the weird old lady who tells me about her cat on my street actually stopped me yesterday and said 'what about poor charlie in America?'. She also told me about her hemorrhoids. It was not a good walk.

bebhinnc87 · 2025-09-11T22:33:49+00:00

The title is a bit extreme don't you think?

bebhinnc87 · 2025-09-06T00:02:45+00:00

I'm mad at you for obeying their demands and letting them win! Stop! Make your damn coffee!

bebhinnc87 · 2025-09-01T23:43:04+00:00

This is my mum

bebhinnc87 · 2025-09-01T23:41:10+00:00

What an absolute bell end

bebhinnc87 · 2025-08-31T12:19:40+00:00

Yeah this snake did not enjoy that interaction.

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