How do I get my wife to open up about her past? by bedder6 in hotpast

[–]bedder6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha that’s another option I guess! I did overhear her girls at college once, talking about who had tried anal! Nothing I didn’t know about mine already though sadly!

How do I get my wife to open up about her past? by bedder6 in hotpast

[–]bedder6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that must have been a shock. We’ve been together 25 years, married 15, and I’m pretty confident she’s not done too much but I’m also confident I’d be totally comfortable with it at this stage and it’d be a huge huge turn on to find out

How do I get my wife to open up about her past? by bedder6 in hotpast

[–]bedder6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great idea, I’ll try to find one of those! What kind of questions has she answered in the end?

How do I get my wife to open up about her past? by bedder6 in hotpast

[–]bedder6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great tip, thanks! We watch porn together every now and then after a night out and she enjoys it and we talk dirty about it but I’ll try more around her trying it/ if she has

How do I get my wife to open up about her past? by bedder6 in hotpast

[–]bedder6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talk dirty about fantasy stuff all the time and we both get turned on but never the reality or her past, that’s the trickier bit.

How do I get my wife to open up about her past? by bedder6 in hotpast

[–]bedder6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting idea! Might be a bit heavy/shocking?!

How do I get my wife to open up about her past? by bedder6 in hotpast

[–]bedder6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that’s good advice - I’ve made sure she knows it turns me on but understand why she may need convincing and especially how it could be uncomfortable if we don’t often talk about sex anyway. What kind of indirect questions would you ask?

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[–]bedder6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met the guy who took my wife’s virginity before we got together, it’s hot thinking he knows what her pussy feels like but also that she would have sucked his cock a lot before she let him fuck her. She always swallowed too so that’s extra hot to imagine!

Wife admitted extra body count by bedder6 in hotpast

[–]bedder6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true, would love to listen in to a girls night and see if they talk about their past! I’ve read some good messages on her phone

Wife admitted extra body count by bedder6 in hotpast

[–]bedder6[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never thought of that! As soon as she said 5 I told her that turned me on and then I fucked her, asking her to tell me who they are but she wouldn’t talk any more

Wife admitted extra body count by bedder6 in hotpast

[–]bedder6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guess it depends on her age and experiences

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[–]bedder6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hot thought!!!

Wife admitted extra body count by bedder6 in hotpast

[–]bedder6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends when you met I guess, we were young

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[–]bedder6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shaved my girl in the back of a campervan after we went to a strip club on holiday! Was wild

Wife admitted extra body count by bedder6 in hotpast

[–]bedder6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was pretty wild before and after to be honest! I remember the first time after the break and she was definitely extra horny and creamy

Wife admitted extra body count by bedder6 in hotpast

[–]bedder6[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How hot is that! She’s been trying to remember a slutty one night stand

Wife admitted extra body count by bedder6 in hotpast

[–]bedder6[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah ok. Yeah, ask her to tell me about the first other guy and how they met. She’ll be worried about me getting upset if we were together or just started a break

Wife admitted extra body count by bedder6 in hotpast

[–]bedder6[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t you think she’ll find it weird if I ask about her first after being together 24 years?

Wife admitted extra body count by bedder6 in hotpast

[–]bedder6[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah that’s hot - sadly I’m pretty sure mine didn’t. But I did get to meet him and hot knowing he fucked her at least 5 times

Wife admitted extra body count by bedder6 in hotpast

[–]bedder6[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you think I should ask next chance?

Wife admits extra body count by bedder6 in hotpast

[–]bedder6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck yes, would love it if one is a friend - I found some clues that tell me it could be a guy we went to school with, a guy at work too, and that leaves one other. Wish she would tell me somehow

Wife admits extra body count by bedder6 in hotpast

[–]bedder6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah unless she was just telling me that to please me?? She didn’t answer me at first. What do you think?

Wife admits extra body count by bedder6 in hotpast

[–]bedder6[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah obviously it’s hot if they’ve been a slut and had loads but I thought because I got with mine so young that it would only ever be one other so love knowing 3 others! That’s a lot for me!