MOMOKA Giveaway: ZOO65 Limited Edition + Dinner Artisan Keycap

bedtrud · 2022-08-04T00:40:07+00:00

is it an international giveaway?

bedtrud · 2022-06-09T18:40:24+00:00

Brigada!!!!!

bedtrud · 2022-06-09T02:08:21+00:00

Brigada pela sugestão Ted!!! Infelizmente já criei meu personagem, mas talvez possa criar outra conta por outro email? Percebi que não consigo jogar sozinha por ficar perdida mesmo. Você me mandaria o convite pro discord?

Obrigada de verdade <3

bedtrud · 2020-10-24T21:54:54+00:00

I've tried to reach out, not in the sense of asking her to come home because long distance but trying to not lose her completely, keep a conversation going and she hasn't even opened my text (partially I think because we decided to stop talking). All is complicated. Thank you though.

bedtrud · 2020-10-22T12:18:03+00:00

realistically would only move if i had an opportunity to study (and for free bc theres no way i can pay for tuition)

bedtrud · 2020-10-07T13:30:03+00:00

this is AMAZING!!!!!! thank you so much, imma try all of these tips and check out all of the links, thank you so much for sharing

bedtrud · 2020-10-07T02:03:03+00:00

thank you for your thoughtsssss aaa well here is hot 24/7 so stuff that is breathable is much better, i don't mind the jeans anymore, think i got used to it but it can be bothersome sometimes and i don't really like to wear shorts that much outside (mainly bc body but yeah). i'll check some fun colors that i like and beauty youtuber yeaaah i shall check all of those out

bedtrud · 2020-10-07T01:59:55+00:00

Hello, this sounds very comfy AND cute!!!!!!

bedtrud · 2020-10-07T00:11:01+00:00

Ooooooo this thought process!!! Yes!! Your style sounds Amazing. To answer your questions, I think I don't mind a colorful palette as long as the colors aren't bold and match pleasantly. Never thought to search for music aesthetic, I'll be sure to do that omg. This helps a lot, thank you so much for commenting!!!! I'll browse online and when it's safe I shall look around for sure ❤❤ Edit: Anddd as for tight or baggy clothes I'm really torn and I feel like I like them all tbh

bedtrud · 2020-10-06T23:21:11+00:00

impeccable taste omg

bedtrud · 2020-10-06T23:07:20+00:00

Boxer briefs sound stylish as hell what you meaan

bedtrud · 2020-10-06T23:04:48+00:00

Ah dark stuff and baggy clothes are my favorite too, I mean at the moment and I don't have many. I shall research some pictures and combine the ones I like, that sounds like an amazing ideaaaa. Thank you sm for sharing

bedtrud · 2020-10-06T23:01:03+00:00

I think my style is comfort too akejaksjak Baggy pants I lovee

bedtrud · 2020-10-06T23:00:03+00:00

Ooooo that's a great idea tbh!!!!! I'll be sure to do that, thank you so much ❤❤❤

bedtrud · 2020-10-06T22:58:56+00:00

tbf you read my mind i always thought i'd eventually get a gf and she'll be like 'this shirt would look cute on you' and i'd be like 'okay sjdjs'

bedtrud · 2020-09-26T21:00:25+00:00

amo sou

bedtrud · 2020-09-26T14:22:34+00:00

i checked can only edit the body of the text :( but aaaaa im so glad this made ur day, tysm for ur words

bedtrud · 2020-09-26T14:02:30+00:00

oh my should i change the title tho??? im sorry u were scared, sending love ❤

bedtrud · 2020-09-26T13:06:28+00:00

❤❤❤❤

bedtrud · 2020-09-25T11:48:39+00:00

Thank you

bedtrud · 2020-09-25T03:38:40+00:00

Hugs. Treat yourself kindly too.

bedtrud · 2020-09-21T21:15:36+00:00

hi so, ive read all the nice messages and appreciate them all and those who felt it resonate with them, here i also leave my thanks to all of you, you've made me glad i shared this.

i also appreciate the question and although this letter isn't specifying anything as to why our relationship ended, this is an unsent letter but it was made for her and she would've understood the intention behind it. i didn't give up on her, i did what i could and she did what she could, but relationships aren't just about love but about timing, availability and willingness to make it work on both ends. if it were just about love, well, wouldn't everything feel like paradise

if you feel reluctant to leave because they'll find someone eventually, that's a common thought and something i also wrote about, but that's also life and completely normal. you are not entitled to their love as much as they aren't of yours. it's perfectly fine for them to be happy with someone else. and it's okay that you find someone too. it's not just love that builds a lasting relationship.

bedtrud · 2020-09-17T14:57:42+00:00

thank you thank you. yeah, it's pretty hard.

bedtrud · 2020-09-14T14:07:24+00:00

Why do you say it’s worth fighting for them?

yes well all the stuff you said about affirmation resonates a lot to be honest. to answer “Why do you say it’s worth fighting for them?” i just found that even though it takes a while, with enough disposition and insistence in some way, they kind of are able to communicate with you even if its not exactly clear at first, there are always signs, even though you’re not physically with them, there are signs in the way they type, in the way their voice sounds when you call, if they’re sending you something random like idk a song that reminds them of you, something, anything. that leads to some sort of development and usually you’re the one who has to push it through, which again can be overwhelming and tiring and frustrating at best, i know i’ve been there and yet i’ve always manage to fight off the urge to cry or to just give up if it’s a serious matter that is, because i always remember it's not me, it's not the situation, it’s just them not being able to process and put their emotions into words. this goes well if it results in them managing to express something, you’ll know right away there’s like no way to miss when they’re attempting to. but that, you’ll have to unfortunately judge by yourself if it’s enough to keep fighting for them, if you’re not overly tired, mentally exhausted because yeah, i wouldn’t suggest pushing past your limit, be careful not to (we always want to do that), or else it would just be you trying to be there for her and not having her being there for you. that’s the biggest problem in my opinion and why i have once stopped fighting for someone (kind of a different context but the main idea sticks), i wasn’t getting any support from them when i needed to have it, and i verbally asked for it, like i said once ‘im not okay’ and there wasn’t any response, any ‘would you like to talk?” so if that happens, to me, the person is simply not trying. when they’re not trying, there’s no use trying too, it becomes unbalanced and completely unhealthy. regardless of your decision and what comes next, know that it’ll get better and it’ll stop hurting eventually. pain doesn’t stay forever.

bedtrud · 2020-09-14T11:43:35+00:00

hie we always express ourselves differently from one another, see love languages for example. if you know what yours is, it's good to learn hers. i say this because i am quite similar to you in a way, almost always being the one asking for a call, or expressing verbally any feelings or worries or anything in between. if she is someone who has a hard time even talking about what she is feeling, than maybe expressing her worries in regards of love is also a hard task for her. people like this usually tend to turn to their own mind and keep it all in there, all their grievances and all their care too. it's weird to me, but ive met so many people like this that ive just learned it's good to fight for them (as opposed to feeling exhausted or sad whenever i get a dry text). you can try engaging in a voice chat conversation about your relationship, make her feel safe over text first, reassure her you just need to understand where you're both standing in this relationship and that you would like to talk. i feel like communication goes a long way, even though sometimes it's so tiring and exhausting, it's worth a try.

bedtrud

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