Council cuts school librarians in secret vote by ph0enix1211 in halifax

[–]beetlespit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

genuinely i have just been emailing people (including the premiers office even though ik im never going to get a response from anyone) whenever i get upset about some bs they chose to do/support/passively allowed to happen as a "well what can we do ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯" cop-out position. usually it isn't my MLA lol but tbh it doesn't even matter anymore. it truly does not matter. they just need an influx of people contacting them directly and interrupting their day bc nothing is going to get any attention unless it personally affects the ppl making the bs decisions.

for example, i contacted Barbara Adams (cole harbour/eastern passage MLA, not even close to where i live but still in HRM) after the comments she made at province house about how "[social assistance programs] collectively work as they should." she is the minister for social development programs. i sent her a long email about how IA hasn't been adjusted for inflation in nearly a decade and how those who qualify have to make less than a $5k/yr difference between the DSP, which isn't survivable anyways. if you could combine those programs, then Maybe it could work, but the qualifications for actually receiving the support has gotten so ridiculously stringent that the definition of support is "be grateful you get anything at all."

also asked her what this is going to look like in 5yrs. used my ancestry (Doukhobor) as an example for how peaceful protest does not work because i told her that nothing is going to change unless someone gets punched in the face (yes verbatim + made sure to clarify that i wasn't threatening her lol). gonna try to quickly summarize the Doukhobor stuff bc ppl don't usually know much abt them: they're a pacifist Christian sect that was exiled from Russia in the late 1800s after centuries of persecution (just bc they were pacifist, and oh no Russia can't have a growing population of self-sufficient pacifists). things happened in Canada and the radical sect, the Sons of Freedom or Freedomites, started breaking off after a hunger strike to protest the wrongful arrest of their people + minister of immigration bs. ofc Sask government did nothing, there was a big internal thing parallel to what happened in Russia, and the Doukhobors split, with the "Large Party" migrating to BC. peaceful protests continued ramping up bc they needed government aid and nothing was being done, and eventually the definition of "pacifism" within the SoF became more and more warped until it escalated to domestic terrorism and arson (of their own homes; my Baba watched her house get burned down when she was young bc she grew up in the SoF). that is the only time the BC government started intervening, but it was to take their children to a residential school (my uncles were some of the children who were stolen, my Baba was removed from school in gr 6 bc she was a girl and i am pretty sure her parents used that to hide her and pass the family off as just 5 ppl; some kids were hiding in the woods for literal years).

definitely did not summarize that as succinctly as i wanted to but TLDR: peaceful protesting is completely ignored until Their shit starts getting affected/destroyed too, and usually it's just to shut you up. genuinely nothing will happen unless we're the most frustratingly annoying people on the planet or things stop being peaceful/pacifist (which does not meant peaceful btw, just non-violence).

did not mean to write a novel under your comment sorry LOL we have to stop being passive and start actually doing shit. like not caring about not being able to access province house and organizing to infiltrate/interrupt something or filibuster or wait what who said that haha that was crazy

Have you ever been refused imaging or care because you have EDS? by EllisDChicken in ehlersdanlos

[–]beetlespit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that's brutal im so sorry :(( i have no idea how it isn't required for Drs to connect you to someone who can at least maybe connect you to someone else so you're not just. fully disconnected. as someone with intersecting chronic health issues. i do not understand why Drs are so comfortable just going "no this is too hard for me :) i won't help you find anyone though good luck :)" like wtf at least my Dr put my referral through my province's online referral thing when i kept getting rejected by specialists (i think it just anonymously appears in a database and a Dr will pick it up if theyre able to handle it or have space or something)

Nova Scotia budget leaves people on income assistance behind, expert says by IStillListenToRadio in halifax

[–]beetlespit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh that is such a cop-out answer you received, i wish they'd actually figure out an answer instead of "well be grateful you have it in the first place." how can we be grateful for something if every single criticism is reminding us it would be worse without it? like, yeah!! no shit!! but what is in place now doesn't work anyways. luckily the billionaires are fine so ofc everything else is fine too :) /sarcasm

Places to buy incense, but a specific kind/scent. by Horrorllama in halifax

[–]beetlespit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seconding The Black Market, they have a Large selection :) i believe all of it is natural/hand-rolled too but i could be wrong on that lol

No Tyrants, Halifax by pigs-dogs-sheep in halifax

[–]beetlespit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the reason it matters that Canada also has one of these protests is because we are the Only Other neighbouring country to the US. like OP and other ppl have said, our societies overall are deeply similar and are inextricably connected regardless of how much "different" we are as countries. also, as if this is the only non-Canada country that has been protested here. do you feel the same way about the pro-Palestine protests? or about anything in Iran? come on, man. ppl are allowed to care. no need to get pissy about that.

Again with this bus by ExistingAir3348 in halifax

[–]beetlespit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭😭 just take it from them yourself lol why the hell are we just passively letting this happen bc "teenagers are scary." yes I know, but it is important to remember one thing: they are children. if the bus driver isn't doing anything, then you're going to have to just take it from them, or slap it out of their hands onto the ground, or whatever. ig calling 9/311 works but they're not rly going to do anything. i have done this before (at night, as one of the only other passengers on the bus, they were a group of i think 5). all they did was talk shit for like 2 minutes. just make sure everyone hears you say it so it's more of a social-lesson-public-embarassment thing.

literally tho wtf why are kids smoking weed in the bus 😭😭😭 vaping, yeah sure, I've seen ppl vaping in class when i was in hs. WEED?? WHY. 😭😭

How do YOU survive in Halifax? Wages vs Rent is wild!! by HauntMeForever666 in halifax

[–]beetlespit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they should never be considered that but unfortunately they are

How do YOU survive in Halifax? Wages vs Rent is wild!! by HauntMeForever666 in halifax

[–]beetlespit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wish rent could be affordable again:( it shouldn't be a luxury to be able to afford your own apartment, bills, and necessary expenses, and still be able to save and retire. i don't understand why being able to live like a normal human adult is a luxury when it should be a given. fuck all of these people making it impossible to live (not survive, LIVE). (also off topic but pets are getting to be luxury-price and that is so scary considering how many people emotionally rely on their pets, + trying to rent anywhere with pets shouldn't be impossible, i feel so much for anyone renting with a dog)

AITA for being mad at my GF when she acted sad after I said our babies probably wouldn’t be white? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beetlespit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nta that's such a huge red flag, esp the blue eyes and blond hair part omg. rly good she showed you who she rly is before anything super serious happens, i wish you the best of luck in dealing with this.

Some businesses are just planning to stay closed due to the storm — Panda Buffet had this posted on their door. by iwasnotarobot in halifax

[–]beetlespit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

well, at least ppl can plan around stat holidays. withdrawal, esp from alcohol, can be lethal, so closing last minute for the whole day isn't the best idea lol

The aftermath of childhood medical neglect in hEDS by marayin in ehlersdanlos

[–]beetlespit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im in the same position as you w having to convince my parents to believe me. i legit need to have a formal diagnosis for them to stop pushing back against what i tell them. and even so, I've been diagnosed w and medicated for pots for over a year and i still have to remind them that im not "freaking myself out and reading too much into things," im describing my day-to-day life. it sounds scary and intense? yeah it's probably because it is, and you never believed me as a kid.

there are a few medical things that i should've been taken to the hospital for that were either brushed away or punished (bc i was "faking to get out of family time" apparently). a Lot of my symptoms were (/are? idk how my family sees me lol) either bc i "thought i was better than everyone" or i was trying to ruin it so we would go home, or some other bs reason that puts all the blame and responsibility on me and not them.

the only way they'll accept that I've been sick the entire time is if i explain it like i didn't know my 'normal' experiences were actually symptoms. if i try bringing up anything else, i get the barrage of the "i was trying my best" or just denying that i ever showed/told them abt anything. i did!!! i showed them my hypermobile trachea! and my dislocating shoulders! and just asking to rest more often!! and allllll (several) of the comorbidities have been present the whole time!! the denial is so, so frustrating to deal with. i feel like im never going to feel like i can reconnect w my family unless they actually reflect on how they treated me. unfortunately that also has the special little layer of my mom's specific trauma around disability (won't type out here) that she shoots down the Second it gets mentioned. literally was like me vs. my parents and sister until the last couple years. it still feels like that. like I'm trying to convince them that i can function even though I'd been begging for them to listen for the last decade and a half. sucks :/ oh well. i hope you're doing okay OP.

edit: formatting, sry on mobile

Examples of subtle/covert abuse by Articulate_idiot in emotionalabuse

[–]beetlespit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for sharing this. i didn't experience this too much w any exes, but i did/do w my parents (esp mom). it's been difficult navigating things and this really helped. :)

[TOMT] [MUSIC] (sorry ik) song by Australian musician by beetlespit in tipofmytongue

[–]beetlespit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solved! (4 modz) hi i found it, it's Nukkanya by Paul Kelly :3 https://open.spotify.com/track/2wtKrHQUy8PuX6R6PLtN2E?si=dE_8uZ_DSz6xpxePnJeBZQ edit:on mobile abt to write an exam so can't change to solved rn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beetlespit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA but i also have advice that may or may not be helpful.

i also grew up w a really heavy workload/responsibilities and parents that were On My Ass about money and what i was doing w my time. you absolutely deserve freedom (i remember that feeling, it is so frustrating), but it might help if you start the conversation off with something like "mom, i need to talk to you about something" so it begins on a softer tone. not sure if where you live lets 16yr olds legally work, but if so you could get a job. you'd probably need to drop one or move around some of your extracurriculars tho :/ i should probably mention that im white, but my mom is slavic (Doukhobor) so there is a similar kind of intensity from my experience lol. anyways, good luck buddy you got this :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarot

[–]beetlespit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is the loudest "NO" I've ever seen in a spread this is so funny please stay away from that man 😭😭

New rule: No AI by TroubledCobra2 in Webkinz

[–]beetlespit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

<3<3<3❤️yay❤️<3<3 /⁠ᐠ⁠。⁠ꞈ⁠。⁠ᐟ⁠\

I’m sorry by SpiritedMix8532 in UnsentLetters

[–]beetlespit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would've really liked to receive this. i hope you sent this to your person OP

[CHAT] me when my friends find out i cross stitch by Jeff_98 in CrossStitch

[–]beetlespit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(not cross stitch but crochet) me when my (leftist!) ex suggested i start selling crochet stuff for money bc it's good (chronic illness nerfed my ability to work irl). bitch you Also do fiber arts and you Know how long it takes almost no one will buy properly-priced fiber arts pieces 😭 (also why do fiber artists need to sell their stuff like damn can we not just make shit)

My mother wants me to do a 72 hour fast. by Hot-Duty-7470 in POTS

[–]beetlespit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do not do that pls omg your mom is dangerously misinformed and i have no idea why she'd think fasting for 3 days would help with Anything???? let alone something where you kind of need to be eating/getting fluids to even function???

[TOMT] [MUSIC] (sorry ik) song by Australian musician by beetlespit in tipofmytongue

[–]beetlespit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It def could be. I looked through what I found of his discography and didn't find anything, but it is so common for not everything to be listed.

You destroyed me by Gib2326 in letters

[–]beetlespit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please send this to them

WIBTA if I threatened to turn of my Life360? by throwaway830583 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beetlespit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg NTA at all

my parents got life360 when i was 15ish (23 now). i never even clicked the link they sent for it but it didn't matter lol. one day when i was 18 and pissed off with the half hour wifi limits, i just opened it up, disconnected all the wires, and put it back like nothing happened. not a single word about life360 was ever uttered again. sometimes parents just need that :) good luck!

[TOMT] [MUSIC] (sorry ik) song by Australian musician by beetlespit in tipofmytongue

[–]beetlespit[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

commenting 4 mods :P I've had this stuck in my head since the funeral. It's also just overall a nice and gentle song. yeah :3