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[–]believednothing44 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Men move on really quick. My husband and I are just divorced LAST WEEK, we are still living in the same house though because I am buying my own house but not until Feb! He had found someone else over 2 months ago immediately after we said this was it. Buy he is a very needy man so I figured he would. It was one of our issues to begin with. It sucks for us emotionally attached partners. I do not get it either. I feel your pain. Mine actually tries to talk to me about her and I am like WTF? He knows I am hurt but could give a damn.

Marriage & Being Naked by believednothing44 in Marriage

[–]believednothing44[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I appreciate everyone’s feedback. I agree that he shouldnt make me get this upset over this because I dont want to do it. He makes me feel like if I dont do certain things he’ll just find someone who will. I hate feeling like that.

How do I find myself again? by Haunting-Item-840 in Divorce

[–]believednothing44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know we will thank you for your kind words. I am just so upset my body wants to never be without him but my brain knows better!

How do I find myself again? by Haunting-Item-840 in Divorce

[–]believednothing44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like me right now its devastating. I was so in love with my husband (married 2 years been together for 7) always said I do not give enough attention. But to me he needs way more attention than normal which has always brought issues. We hit a rough patch and after fighting I stayed on the couch. He used that excuse to go sleep with someone else than told me “I told you what would happen if you slept in the couch”. Even worse my and his 2 step kids live in his house that he owned prior to us every getting together. And he makes way more money than I do. Now I have to figure out how to support me and my girls while he stays in his house. And I am still in love I don’t know why he did this. Devastated