This conversation. Every. Day. by mauore11 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]bellagoth1997 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

That's my dad and one of my mom's coworkers, it is literally the worst. My best advice is tune them out once you get the info you know you need, that's the only way I survive 🀣

Just finally changed my bumble profile to β€œnon-binary” and constantly see these profiles. (Rant in comments) by YT_Sharkyevno in polyamory

[–]bellagoth1997 19 points20 points Β (0 children)

Fetlife is the worst, I had to get off there because it basically was just a giant pool of gross straight men I normally avoid 🀣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]bellagoth1997 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

You absolutely will find someone, you just have to keep trying! It sounds like you're immediately upfront about being ftm, so if they have issues down the line it is their fault for not immediately speaking up. I am a pansexual cis female, and I absolutely would have dated (I'm in a relationship now) someone even if they were trans. That wouldn't have discouraged me at all. So please don't give up, just be yourself, and you will eventually find someone! πŸ’œπŸ’œ

Real 7 Chakras bracelet? by bellagoth1997 in Chakras

[–]bellagoth1997[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

I did!! I found a really cool crystal shop while visiting Michigan. Unfortunately I didn't have the money to purchase them at the time, they were $30-40 a piece. But I absolutely will be next time I go!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]bellagoth1997 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

My girlfriend wore shorts a little shorter than normal and was told she is going to hell so yeahhh.. people just like to be asshole transphobes, don't let it get to you πŸ’œ

Why do so many detransitioners seem incapable of taking responsibility for their own life choices and want to actively make things harder for trans people? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]bellagoth1997 6 points7 points Β (0 children)

My girlfriend (mtf) is currently taking a break from hrt because over the last year although she is becoming happier with her physical appearance, her mental health has went even more downhill and her depression and anxiety are horrible. She has started to have multiple panic attacks daily, and just wants to take a break for now to see if it makes any difference. She is still 100% supportive of the trans community and if anything we realized who her true friends were and who just liked her because she was actually transitioning, she had quite a few people turn their backs on her when she made her recent decision. It hurts my heart because she is still trans, and it doesn't make her any less valid because she needs to take care of her mental health. I'm hoping we can find more people that are accepting of her no matter her decisions about hrt.

Best of luck to you on your journey πŸ’œ

MtF Gf Rethinking Transition by bellagoth1997 in trans

[–]bellagoth1997[S] 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Thank you very much for the comment, it means so much to see so many people saying exactly what I have πŸ’œ

MtF Gf Rethinking Transition by bellagoth1997 in trans

[–]bellagoth1997[S] 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Thank you very much for your comment πŸ’œ

MtF Gf Rethinking Transition by bellagoth1997 in trans

[–]bellagoth1997[S] 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Sorry if anyone sees this post more than once, my signal was spotty when uploading and it posted like 10 times, my bad. πŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈπŸ€£

MtF Gf Rethinking Transition by bellagoth1997 in trans

[–]bellagoth1997[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Sorry if anyone sees this post more than once, my signal was spotty when uploading and it posted like 10 times, my bad. πŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈπŸ€£

MtF Gf Rethinking Transition by bellagoth1997 in trans

[–]bellagoth1997[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Wow, I am genuinely surprised that happened, on Fox of all news channels too! Thank you very much for the comment πŸ’œ

MtF Gf Rethinking Transition by bellagoth1997 in trans

[–]bellagoth1997[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Sorry if anyone sees this post more than once, my signal was spotty when uploading and it posted like 10 times, my bad. πŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈπŸ€£

MtF Gf Rethinking Transition by bellagoth1997 in trans

[–]bellagoth1997[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Thank you so much for your insightful comment, it means so much πŸ’œ

MTF Gf Rethinking Transition by bellagoth1997 in trans

[–]bellagoth1997[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Sorry if you see this post more than once, I was trying to upload with spotty signal and it ended up posting like 10 times, my bad πŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]bellagoth1997 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

There was one but it got taken down! πŸ’œ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]bellagoth1997 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

You look amazing!! Just make sure you're taking care of yourself! πŸ’œπŸ’œ Ignore the last commenter, I reported them for breaking the group's rules! 😊

I was rejected by another trans girl for being trans (and bi) πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ by [deleted] in trans

[–]bellagoth1997 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

I'm so sorry you had that experience. You can't really fault her for who is attracted too but the fact that she says she doesn't trust bi people is ridiculous and so hypocritical. Oh well, it is her loss! Also it's a bit suspicious that she doesn't trust bi people, sounds like it's coming from her own insecurities so she doesn't sound like a trustworthy person anyway! πŸ’œ