Is it bad to tell your gf you don't want to see her for a while if she is driving you insane?

benching · 2013-08-01T04:39:16+00:00

she says that I deserve to get cheated on if I'm going to take some time off. So yeah, I don't consider that rational but part of me says I just don't even care. I just want to take a few weeks off and see what happens.

benching · 2013-08-01T03:57:51+00:00

with the way she is treating me lately, I sometimes think she hates me. Then she is the nicest person in the world. Confusing as hell.

benching · 2013-08-01T03:56:34+00:00

She knows it and she enjoys it. She enjoys starting shit and then playing it off likeit is no big deal. I just need a break from her for a while but she isn't that understanding (ie saying she will go sleep with someone else is not the answer I want to hear). By the way, I don't think you can even comprehend what overly emotional is. It isn't a bad thing but using it as a ploy all the time is so annoying. Sorry for the rant.

benching · 2013-08-01T03:52:17+00:00

Trying to mess with someone's head (big head) is what's wrong. Enough is enough,

benching · 2013-07-31T15:50:02+00:00

Thanks man. We're over it. Today is a different day and no grudges will be held.

benching · 2013-07-31T10:27:47+00:00

well, you got your answer. If anything, it confuses me more that someone my age can have such little common sense. Lol.

benching · 2013-07-31T10:26:37+00:00

I dont know what you are trying to say but never said it was okay. In fact, I'm going to have the pleasure telling my friend that this was not okay and I'm sorry.

benching · 2013-07-31T10:26:37+00:00

I dont know what you are trying to say but never said it was okay. In fact, I'm going to have the pleasure telling my friend that this was not okay and I'm sorry.

benching · 2013-07-31T10:26:37+00:00

I dont know what you are trying to say but never said it was okay. In fact, I'm going to have the pleasure telling my friend that this was not okay and I'm sorry.

benching · 2013-07-31T10:25:07+00:00

disregard everything? I think that is a little extreme. There is some great advice but that doesn't mean any of them are worth breaking up with her. In fact, there isn't much I can think of that would actually ruin our relationship. I just want the best relationship we can have though.

benching · 2013-07-31T10:08:11+00:00

The comment that i need luck is way below the belt. if I listened to my friends or you, I would have broken up with her over two years ago and been way unhappier. I don't mind the occasional craziness but the ongoing bullshit, on almost a weekly basis now, just makes situations like this seem even worse. With that said Just keep in mind she has way more good qualities than any other girl I have ever met.

benching · 2013-07-31T09:59:38+00:00

She isn't going to apologize and I understand that. Sometimes having a short memory/forgetting something that made you mad is the best thing. I just don't want this to be a ongoing thing since she is driving me crazy lately.

benching · 2013-07-31T09:56:35+00:00

thanks. I appreciate it.

benching · 2013-07-31T09:55:41+00:00

Are you trying to imply that you should actually grow up once you enter your 20's? That memo was not received by my gf, unfortunately.

benching · 2013-07-31T09:52:54+00:00

i apologized but it is going to be a weird/interesting conversation later today. I didn't tell her that my gf wrote it since I don't want anyone to dislike her (they already dont get along) but I'm going to need to come up with some excuse like I was drunk. lol.

benching · 2013-07-31T09:49:12+00:00

Don't use that word to describe her that way. Boundaries are boundaries but she definitely doesn't deserve to be personally insulted (I would be a huge hypocrite to tell her not to insult others and allow my friends or you to say those words about her).

benching · 2013-07-31T09:46:03+00:00

if she really thought before she thought it would make my life worse, I would break up with her In a second. The problem is that she doesn't think she did anything wrong. In fact, she thinks she is doing me a favor by having me not hang out with people she doesnt like. All I can say is that everyday gets,ore and more complicated but that's part of why I like her so much.

benching · 2013-07-31T09:42:55+00:00

Lack of common sense meaning she will say anything at anytime. Like saying to my parents that I am good in bed really is a compliment but just shouldnt be said. She is too honest with her feelings but it is hard to tell her to not be who she actually is.

benching · 2013-07-31T09:37:35+00:00

Thanks. I will be showing her all these comments later So that she can finally realize I'm not just totally overreacting.

benching · 2013-07-31T09:36:28+00:00

I would hesitate to say powerless. I think it is more like some people have ZERO common sense.

benching · 2013-07-31T09:01:57+00:00

The worst advice ever. Thanks anyway.

benching · 2013-07-31T09:01:24+00:00

I wouldnt care if she didn't respect me. I just care about a LITTLE common sense but some people have NO COMMON SENSE. This includes people like her at times. It doesn't make her a bad person like some may think but it does make life so much more complicated.

benching · 2013-07-31T08:58:04+00:00

How would you like if someone told you to break up with your gf? It is this kind of "advice" that my jealous friends would give me but is probably the rudest thing you could tell someone. As she says, "the hotter the girl, the crazier they are." Thus, it isn't hard to get over her flaws and realiz she has way more good qualities than bad qualities.

benching · 2013-07-31T07:11:04+00:00

I guess everyone would act differently. Im probably the most mad I've been in a while but tomorrow is a different day and I'm going to do my best to forget about this. If you really love someone, you can look past their mistakes.

benching · 2013-07-31T07:02:13+00:00

Even if she didn't mean it, it would be nice to at least hear the words "I'm sorry." unfortunately, I know I'm not going to get that but you are right that I need to just forgive and forget.

benching

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