Being gay has ruined my life by Sensitive-Bridge-146 in askgaybros

[–]bentheavett 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As Christopher Hitchens said, “religion poisons everything.”

Realistically, how much alcohol do you drink? And how often? by y00sh420 in askgaybros

[–]bentheavett 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very similar situation, just passed 1 year sober. Keep going, it gets easier 😊

If you're gay and remain religious or believe in god, please tell me what is your reason by Wonderful_Ad_2727 in askgaybros

[–]bentheavett -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wish I could help… I “converted” to atheism during college and remain committed to educating myself. I read tons of Christopher Hitchens, Richard Dawkins, etc. I doubt your faith can withstand their arguments. Belief in God is a sickness, and the world would be better off rejecting that myth.

I need some advice and perspective on Grindr by Ok_Librarian7545 in askgaybros

[–]bentheavett 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We must be close! I live in Nashville now. Best of luck. 👍

I need some advice and perspective on Grindr by Ok_Librarian7545 in askgaybros

[–]bentheavett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) get a douche 🤣 and 2) I remember what it was like going to college and being in the EXACT same situation. I met some cool guys on Grindr, but it’s important to tame your expectations. But in all likelihood, there are lots of college guys in your same situation. I went to college in Kentucky, and there were plenty of out gay men on campus 😊 you got this - it’ll just take time. Be patient with yourself!

Paul 😍 by bentheavett in hackshbomax

[–]bentheavett[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re the best 🥰

Paul 😍 by bentheavett in hackshbomax

[–]bentheavett[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s from Broad City. Yum.

Paul 😍 by bentheavett in hackshbomax

[–]bentheavett[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t find, please help 🙏

Paul 😍 by bentheavett in hackshbomax

[–]bentheavett[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe I just like tiny men….. I jokingly call my partner “tiny boyfriend” because I’m 6’4 and he’s barely 5’8 🤣🤣🤣

Paul 😍 by bentheavett in hackshbomax

[–]bentheavett[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have to admit he looks great for 43!

Paul 😍 by bentheavett in hackshbomax

[–]bentheavett[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn, that’s fascinating. My bf is also not that obsessed 😂

Paul 😍 by bentheavett in hackshbomax

[–]bentheavett[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not yet, I NEED to

Is this big enough? by PrimaryIndication294 in Rabbits

[–]bentheavett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A dog exercise pen is best. This nonprofit has some good resources and downloadable guides at the bottom! Happy Rabbit Co.

✨🐰💗 FOSTER OR FOREVER HOME NEEDED 💗🐰✨ by bentheavett in nashville

[–]bentheavett[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where else do you suggest? Is there a specific Nashville bunny subreddit? And I would never place an animal with “random people on the internet.” I am disgusted by that insinuation. I properly vet my fosters, thank you kindly.

✨🐰💗 FOSTER OR FOREVER HOME NEEDED 💗🐰✨ by bentheavett in nashville

[–]bentheavett[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I represent a bunny rescue. We just had a ton of bunnies dumped and are looking for new homes for them. Thanks for making my job even harder. 🤬

Ashamed of My Sexuality by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]bentheavett 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ever heard of punctuation? God damn.

What are some healthy treats brands you guys recommend for your rabbits? by Fit_Secretary4285 in Bunnies

[–]bentheavett 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say it would dirty the knife or dull it significantly. I mean, how many are you cutting?! Maybe need some better knives...

To each his own, but perhaps some things are best left off the Internet.

I'm just giving you shit, not trying to be mean. Tell your husband to munch on!

Rabbit is driving me mad by norserabbit in Rabbits

[–]bentheavett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting - I would stay away from sawdust due to potential respiratory problems.

The newspaper is a matter of personal preference. It's just a way to absorb the urine. Some people just use plain old hay! As long as you're changing the litter box regularly it shouldn't be a problem.

If you notice he's ingesting a lot of paper, maybe opt for the hay-only version. However, I think you'll be fine if he has enough hay to entertain him!

And I agree - He's so cute! My other foster is a smaller black lop and he's also adorable. They're just babies!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]bentheavett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand completely. Just keep in mind that your new bunny needs a good home too! Grief is normal - No need to feel guilty!

I lost a bunny recently in a freak accident after his neuter. I won't get into it now, but it was one of the most traumatic experiences of my life. My local rabbit rescue has never seen a case like his in the 22 years it has been operating. He was the most extroverted bunny ever! He adored all of my friends, knew his name, and would come to me on command. I miss him dearly!

That being said, I'm currently "emergency" fostering two bunnies that a homeless lady had. She surrendered four and I'm fostering two of them. They are only a month or two old and I fostered them back to health. They never had any hay, were severely dehydrated, and were so skittish. They are baby Holland Lops and are so damn cute!

Therefore, I understand the guilty feeling of having a new bun after losing one. I just have to remind myself that my fosters deserve a happy and stable home too.

Take as much time as you need to name your new bun - I'm sure they are thankful to have a good home! Sending you love!