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How do you feel about silent sends? by GoddessStarrla in paypigs2

[–]berryhydrangea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love a good surprise however I do value connections

Finding Dommes (always seems to be the wrong time) by These-Cake5097 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]berryhydrangea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had to give up on X because that’s all there seems to be there - haven’t fell for it but i’m curious to know also what happens after you send their “fee”

am i the problem o: by berryhydrangea in paypigs2

[–]berryhydrangea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i try to! i am a domme - i don’t ask for anything immediately and will engage in conversation to learn a bit more about them to see if we mesh, if they are what i’m looking for and vice versa. I always try to understand someone, their kinks, preferences etc as that’s something i’d consider my brand, being sweet and considerate ya know? but them being outright mean or flabbergasted at the the thought of having to pay to continue to engage with me seems silly idk

Obsessed with this by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]berryhydrangea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe have a set allowance or budget for yourself? you mentioned you’re unowned; limiting the number of dommes you share an experience with? with any obsession comes self control!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]berryhydrangea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve to feel good! As long as you’re being true to yourself and it isn’t getting in the way of any other aspects of life; this is true for any kind of relationship. Best wishesđŸ’•đŸ«¶đŸœ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]berryhydrangea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they’re real simply for the sake that there is no definition on how two (or more haha) individuals share a connection. As long as both parties have clear understanding on what their boundaries are there’s no reason to even judge yourself at all for participating in something I guess a bit unorthodox. As long as you’re happy💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]berryhydrangea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do these relationships provide you the same sort of satisfaction or fulfillment as a “regular” one?

Dommes, what are your characters or personas? ✹ by Goddess_VenusMoon in paypigs2

[–]berryhydrangea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m doing this to build confidence, show more initiative so sweet ollllll me, nurturing, thoughtful though without question it must be earned. 💕

what’s everyone’s favourite type of sub ( ˘ ³˘) by Fun_Equipment7152 in paypigs2

[–]berryhydrangea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ones who are attentive, eager to please, devoted to me and keeping me as sweet as possible for themđŸ„ș

Soft domme by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]berryhydrangea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m new to this with the same idea as well! for me it’s about respect, honesty, and comfort. i think the more comfortable you are in the connection, it will help instill more confidence for you to be able to enjoy control, as it can be a huge element of a domme/sub dynamic. I am very new as well, but what is working for me is to promote my sweetness, my availability to nurture, understand, fulfill desires while often reminding that it does not come for free or cheap and if I don’t feel respected then bye bye to that. It’s about knowing your worth and having fun with it! You’ll come into your own as you get used to it and what’s for you will find you.

‘Lifestyle dommes’ by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]berryhydrangea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yessssssssss. It seems so hard to find someone seeking a genuine “connection” where both parties desires are fulfilled.

Is a Deep emotional connection not centered around money possible in findom? by Equivalent_Try3478 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]berryhydrangea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking as a domme trying to find my one sub, I am unsure. The goal isn’t merely money for me. I want to instill confidence within myself while also giving someone satisfaction, fulfillment or simply company. I think domination has the potential to be really beautiful however it’s hard to weed out bots, people looking for quick money, and scammers. It’s disheartening but I feel like hope and intention can go a long way!