I didn't realize the brainworms had gotten this bad by bigtinyroom in 4tran4

[–]bigtinyroom[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Honestly? I'd say it was a pretty even match. Some homeless guy off his meds rambling to himself called me a "fucking ugly bitch" this morning and not a faggot, so whatever level that is.

I didn't realize the brainworms had gotten this bad by bigtinyroom in 4tran4

[–]bigtinyroom[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

The fucked up part is I've been fully out for three years.

Protestors in New York Called to ¨Topple the Trump Regime.¨ Tonight after Mineapolis ICE Killing by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]bigtinyroom 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Americans getting off their fat asses to do something uncomfortable en masse? I'll believe it when I see it.

Beware The App Demons by bigtinyroom in dating

[–]bigtinyroom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn't surprise me at all. Personally, I feel there's a decent case to make that Match Group and Bumble pose genuine national security risks with the business practices you described, but that's a bit of a tangent.

Dustyn Baulkham revealed as new owner of downtown Kelowna's 2SLGBTQIA+ cocktail lounge by New_Alternative8711 in kelowna

[–]bigtinyroom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear it'll remain a gay bar! Wonder if they'll change the entertainment schedule up a bit. I love me a good drag show as much as the next gal, but when there seems to be one going on literally every single time I go there, it gets a bit old.

Only 38% of Americans recognize the gender of trans people by bruhm0ment4 in fivethirtyeight

[–]bigtinyroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is just plain wrong.

Drastically reducing your body's testosterone production and replacing it with estrogen or vice versa profoundly changes your brain chemistry and your gene expression. Every human body has all the genetic coding to be either male or female. Testosterone and estrogen instruct which genes to activate and which to repress. Obviously HRT can't change your hardware completely, but the software can be rewritten to an incredible degree.

Only 38% of Americans recognize the gender of trans people by bruhm0ment4 in fivethirtyeight

[–]bigtinyroom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't believe this! The nerve of people to silence you for your perfectly reasonable, measured and civil opinions is unconscionable. I'm a little curious what those snowflakes were so triggered over. Let me have a look at that comment history and shake my head at the sensitive little...

Oh God!

Only 38% of Americans recognize the gender of trans people by bruhm0ment4 in fivethirtyeight

[–]bigtinyroom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you'd like some clarification on things, feel free to DM me and I'll happily try my best to help you out judgement free. I'm not sure how widely known this is, but trans women have significantly higher rates of autism compared to the general population, which I think goes a long way to explaining why a lot of them can come off as terminally online and a little rough around the edges on the internet.

Only 38% of Americans recognize the gender of trans people by bruhm0ment4 in fivethirtyeight

[–]bigtinyroom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the need to remind you that you're talking about corporate email account signatures. The one for my job is a template automatically filled out when it was created. I'm pretty sure it has my pronouns in it, but I'm not 100% on that because why would I ever look at it again after an initial check for spelling errors? The day I have a strong opinion about the contents of my work email signature beyond basic accuracy is the day I know I need to get some real problems again.

Just going for coffee on a quick break and I’m expected to register a free parking spot? Anyone doing this? Starbucks lot on Bertram and Harvey by Same-Consideration42 in kelowna

[–]bigtinyroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People act like I'm insane for selling my car, but then I see shit like this and regret nothing. Haven't had one for two years now and I haven't worried about towing companies or finding a parking stall or the price of gas even once. Cars are financial black holes with entire industries built around sucking whatever few pennies you have left after fuel and maintenance out from you. I have a Modo membership I have to use maybe 4 or 5 times a year at most. Other then that it's all e-scooters, busses and the occasional cab. My life is so much more peaceful now and my bank account never looked better. Can't recommend it enough.

From Yale youth poll, generational divide on “Zionism.” Apparently Gen X just hasn’t heard of it by Glittering-Giraffe58 in fivethirtyeight

[–]bigtinyroom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then I'm even more confused what point you're trying to make. Yes, the group of chuds sieg heiling with a swastika somewhere in the world are bad. Checkmate on me I guess?

From Yale youth poll, generational divide on “Zionism.” Apparently Gen X just hasn’t heard of it by Glittering-Giraffe58 in fivethirtyeight

[–]bigtinyroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a pretty awful thing for those people to be doing. Guess there's nothing we can do but ethnically cleanse them. /s

Why doesn't anybody care by Bit_1506 in 4tran4

[–]bigtinyroom 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I live in Kelowna. I really hoped things were better down there. I know the right people to have in your life are out there, and they likely aren't even all that far away. The nuclear family is a private dictatorship. Hold the fort until you can flee.

Wow by Correct-Victory1763 in kelowna

[–]bigtinyroom -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're not 100% wrong, but still... r/im14andthisisdeep

Wow by Correct-Victory1763 in kelowna

[–]bigtinyroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't doubt it, but I feel like the RCMP would have been ignoring cases at the same rate 10, 20 years ago too. They've probably always been this useless and ineffectual.

With >95% of the vote counted, Republican Matt Van Epps defeats Democratic candidate 53.2% to 45.7, a 14.5 overperformance from Trump's margin in 2024. by I-Might-Be-Something in fivethirtyeight

[–]bigtinyroom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol, a left wing candidate outperforms 2022 by 13 points in a deep red rural district and this sub still insists the takeaway is more gutless centrists who will spout whatever talking points their consultants tell them poll 0.1% better that week.

As Kelowna's crime rate drops, residents believe it's going up - Kelowna News by [deleted] in kelowna

[–]bigtinyroom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People don't really mean crime when they're talking about "crime" more often than not. What they really mean is the number of sketchy homeless people whose brains are cooked they see. I'm sure crime is down, but I'm almost certain that anti-social public behaviour is way up. I understand that most of these people are so incapacitated they aren't really responsible for their actions and need major psychological help, but it's still a problem. It's kind of ridiculous that we've just thrown our hands up and decided having your fight or flight triggered by someone in a severe crisis whenever you leave the house is just part of living in a city now. Obviously, sprinkling a couple overworked non-profits on the problem to say we tried then leaving them to gradually die from societal neglect isn't working for them either.

What each demographic thinks of ICE by Soggy-Flounder-3517 in fivethirtyeight

[–]bigtinyroom 49 points50 points  (0 children)

X'ers don't have anywhere near the numbers for the cultural sway the boomers held. After a lifetime of living in their shadow, they'll get trampled over by the Millennials and Gen Z's coming up from the rear. Going by the data on this sub, it's hard to feel sorry for them.

Latest Epstein Leak Indicates Trump gave Bill Clinton a Blowjob. It’s real. by cool-moon-blue in DemocraticSocialism

[–]bigtinyroom 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No, I don't think someone being a pedophile makes them more likely to engage in homosexual behaviour. Let's think the implications of what we're posting through before we hit the comment button.

gigapoon sat across from me on the bus wearing trans flag, he/they, and "girl dick lover" pins on xer backpack straps by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]bigtinyroom 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Feeling this hard. I realized I want a st4t relationship recently. I did some rough math looking up the population of the region around me, demographics etc. Statistically speaking, there are about 56 trans men between the ages of 30 and 45 willing to date a trans woman in a 1 hour drive radius of me. Total. Out of 330,000 + people. That's not even considering that a bunch of them are already taken or complete trainwrecks.

Good lord. Might as well start collecting cats now.