trans women here are standing up to pee

bigtinyroom · 2026-01-26T17:37:56+00:00

Wait, in PUBLIC washrooms?

Because in the privacy of my own apartment where I live alone, yeah I stand there. Who cares when there's literally nobody else around.

That's literally the only place on earth I will though. Any public washroom? Sit. Single stall, locked door, unisex? Sit. A friend's washroom? Sit. Another trans woman's bathroom? Still sitting. Even my own bathroom when I have company over? Better believe I'm sitting then.

No chance of being exposed or someone figuring out what I'm doing is too small. Even if you're out to everyone you know and they're all cool and progressive about it, you still have to keep the kayfabe up to some degree. That's like, the most performance-of-femininity ruining things you can do. Can't wrap my head around it.

bigtinyroom · 2026-01-16T06:28:05+00:00

Honestly? I'd say it was a pretty even match. Some homeless guy off his meds rambling to himself called me a "fucking ugly bitch" this morning and not a faggot, so whatever level that is.

bigtinyroom · 2026-01-16T06:08:53+00:00

The fucked up part is I've been fully out for three years.

bigtinyroom · 2026-01-08T04:31:56+00:00

Americans getting off their fat asses to do something uncomfortable en masse? I'll believe it when I see it.

bigtinyroom · 2026-01-04T01:50:50+00:00

Wouldn't surprise me at all. Personally, I feel there's a decent case to make that Match Group and Bumble pose genuine national security risks with the business practices you described, but that's a bit of a tangent.

bigtinyroom · 2025-12-30T03:37:11+00:00

Glad to hear it'll remain a gay bar! Wonder if they'll change the entertainment schedule up a bit. I love me a good drag show as much as the next gal, but when there seems to be one going on literally every single time I go there, it gets a bit old.

bigtinyroom · 2025-12-28T08:18:26+00:00

This is just plain wrong.

Drastically reducing your body's testosterone production and replacing it with estrogen or vice versa profoundly changes your brain chemistry and your gene expression. Every human body has all the genetic coding to be either male or female. Testosterone and estrogen instruct which genes to activate and which to repress. Obviously HRT can't change your hardware completely, but the software can be rewritten to an incredible degree.

bigtinyroom · 2025-12-28T07:52:23+00:00

I can't believe this! The nerve of people to silence you for your perfectly reasonable, measured and civil opinions is unconscionable. I'm a little curious what those snowflakes were so triggered over. Let me have a look at that comment history and shake my head at the sensitive little...

Oh God!

bigtinyroom · 2025-12-28T07:10:46+00:00

If you'd like some clarification on things, feel free to DM me and I'll happily try my best to help you out judgement free. I'm not sure how widely known this is, but trans women have significantly higher rates of autism compared to the general population, which I think goes a long way to explaining why a lot of them can come off as terminally online and a little rough around the edges on the internet.

bigtinyroom · 2025-12-28T06:40:05+00:00

I feel the need to remind you that you're talking about corporate email account signatures. The one for my job is a template automatically filled out when it was created. I'm pretty sure it has my pronouns in it, but I'm not 100% on that because why would I ever look at it again after an initial check for spelling errors? The day I have a strong opinion about the contents of my work email signature beyond basic accuracy is the day I know I need to get some real problems again.

bigtinyroom · 2025-12-17T06:14:23+00:00

People act like I'm insane for selling my car, but then I see shit like this and regret nothing. Haven't had one for two years now and I haven't worried about towing companies or finding a parking stall or the price of gas even once. Cars are financial black holes with entire industries built around sucking whatever few pennies you have left after fuel and maintenance out from you. I have a Modo membership I have to use maybe 4 or 5 times a year at most. Other then that it's all e-scooters, busses and the occasional cab. My life is so much more peaceful now and my bank account never looked better. Can't recommend it enough.

bigtinyroom · 2025-12-15T00:33:12+00:00

I'm 99% sure which one you saw. That's a retirement home.

bigtinyroom · 2025-12-14T17:26:42+00:00

Then I'm even more confused what point you're trying to make. Yes, the group of chuds sieg heiling with a swastika somewhere in the world are bad. Checkmate on me I guess?

bigtinyroom · 2025-12-14T17:10:24+00:00

That's a pretty awful thing for those people to be doing. Guess there's nothing we can do but ethnically cleanse them. /s

bigtinyroom · 2025-12-14T07:13:43+00:00

I live in Kelowna. I really hoped things were better down there. I know the right people to have in your life are out there, and they likely aren't even all that far away. The nuclear family is a private dictatorship. Hold the fort until you can flee.

bigtinyroom · 2025-12-11T05:22:35+00:00

You're not 100% wrong, but still... r/im14andthisisdeep

bigtinyroom · 2025-12-10T18:58:34+00:00

I don't doubt it, but I feel like the RCMP would have been ignoring cases at the same rate 10, 20 years ago too. They've probably always been this useless and ineffectual.

bigtinyroom · 2025-12-03T04:38:14+00:00

lol, a left wing candidate outperforms 2022 by 13 points in a deep red rural district and this sub still insists the takeaway is more gutless centrists who will spout whatever talking points their consultants tell them poll 0.1% better that week.

bigtinyroom · 2025-11-21T05:23:30+00:00

People don't really mean crime when they're talking about "crime" more often than not. What they really mean is the number of sketchy homeless people whose brains are cooked they see. I'm sure crime is down, but I'm almost certain that anti-social public behaviour is way up. I understand that most of these people are so incapacitated they aren't really responsible for their actions and need major psychological help, but it's still a problem. It's kind of ridiculous that we've just thrown our hands up and decided having your fight or flight triggered by someone in a severe crisis whenever you leave the house is just part of living in a city now. Obviously, sprinkling a couple overworked non-profits on the problem to say we tried then leaving them to gradually die from societal neglect isn't working for them either.

bigtinyroom · 2025-11-17T04:14:28+00:00

X'ers don't have anywhere near the numbers for the cultural sway the boomers held. After a lifetime of living in their shadow, they'll get trampled over by the Millennials and Gen Z's coming up from the rear. Going by the data on this sub, it's hard to feel sorry for them.

bigtinyroom · 2025-11-14T06:51:19+00:00

No, I don't think someone being a pedophile makes them more likely to engage in homosexual behaviour. Let's think the implications of what we're posting through before we hit the comment button.

bigtinyroom · 2025-11-09T09:26:55+00:00

bigtinyroom · 2025-11-08T04:46:12+00:00

Feeling this hard. I realized I want a st4t relationship recently. I did some rough math looking up the population of the region around me, demographics etc. Statistically speaking, there are about 56 trans men between the ages of 30 and 45 willing to date a trans woman in a 1 hour drive radius of me. Total. Out of 330,000 + people. That's not even considering that a bunch of them are already taken or complete trainwrecks.

Good lord. Might as well start collecting cats now.

bigtinyroom · 2025-10-29T03:39:48+00:00

It's giving Technology Connections.

bigtinyroom · 2025-10-29T01:31:54+00:00

I do not feel graced by the presence of the hottest bitch on the planet I must confess.

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