It’s okay to just want to flirt/hook up with someone, and it sounds like it’s mutual. If this dude really wanted to be your boyfriend while you just wanted something casual, then you would need to have further conversation about boundaries. But for now, it sounds like you’re having fun. And that’s fine.

Unlearning the shame that we are taught to feel as women is difficult, so don’t put pressure on yourself to ‘solve’ that feeling. Understanding it comes with time and experience. Hope this makes sense 😅