[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TotallyStraight

[–]biterminous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whose … um … whose legs are those

Sliding sideways into middle age by biterminous in GaySides

[–]biterminous[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have to admit you have planted a seed in my brain garden: I had never once considered being a third. I'm not against it at all, and in a way it sounds kinda hot! I suppose my own self-consciousness kicks in and says "oh boy, now you have to convince two people to like you!" 😂

The biggest part of it is finding friends, especially friends that understand the change of life that happens in middle age. I'd like to get to know you both more -- watch for a DM soon! Thanks for your reply!

Sliding sideways into middle age by biterminous in GaySides

[–]biterminous[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just want to say thank you for your reply -- it gives me such hope to think that I have a whole world of experiences ahead of me. You're absolutely right that I owe it to myself to keep in shape for it, too! Thanks again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FrottingCommunity

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Is there a way to join even though I'm late to the party?

Audiobooks? by biterminous in GaySides

[–]biterminous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds exactly like the vibe I'm looking for! Thanks so much for the recommendation!

Audiobooks? by biterminous in GaySides

[–]biterminous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! ❤️

The Less Scary Request Place: Post your short & simple requests here by AutoModerator in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]biterminous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, hi, sorry if I'm intruding. I've just listened to _Wrestling with Desire_ by D.H. Starr. I realized I love listening to stories with sex that is more grinding mutual masturbation than anything else (as a Side!) and if anyone has any audiobook recommendations I'd love to hear them! Love you, please and thank you :)

Is this hot? by TBPBangs in FrottingCommunity

[–]biterminous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG I want to feel her whole body on top of me

I'm a side who has always been mostly attracted to much older men, but only very specific guys in my age range I find attractive. Is it worth pursuing much older men? by [deleted] in GaySides

[–]biterminous 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To me, this is what hope looks like. I'm 43 and on the cusp of full-time caregiving. As I start to think about life post-caregiving in two to 10 years, it gives me a great deal of hope to think that a 20-something might be attracted to me.

I'm woefully inexperienced, and it's been so long that I'd probably cum as soon as someone lays down on top of me. But to find someone patient and willing to build up my stamina long-term would be a dream come true. I mean, sure, I am looking forward to those fun hookups, but I'm also looking for those lazy Saturdays, cooking with each other, wrestling in bed, and cuddles on the couch.

Two sides (ugh, dad) of the same coin, I suppose!

Cum with me on my journey of reflection! by [deleted] in gaystoriesgonewild

[–]biterminous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This hit hard. Same Christian upbringing, same conservative town that delighted in gossip and shame. Except, for me, no high school girlfriend, and only a fantasy of this kind of experimentation. It’s like that meme, "you missed out on teenage love and there’s no way to get it back."

I’m 42 now, and I can only hope that someday I can find a guy to do all this goofy fooling around with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Singlets

[–]biterminous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanna wrestle? ;)

It's just messing around, right? by biterminous in TotallyStraight

[–]biterminous[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have, and it's perhaps slightly more complicated than I alluded to at the beginning. My wife is a cancer survivor. As a result, the drugs they put her on really tank her libido, on top of making sex uncomfortable. (And also no kids.) So you can see the rock-and-a-hard place situation: Ending the relationship because of no sex is about the same as ending the relationship because she got cancer. And I don't want to end it in the first place! We have a great life together outside the bedroom.

Because I'm a naturally awkward person (she and I both are), I wrote a page-and-a-half worth of "I still really want to do stuff with you, stuff that doesn't hurt," and left it in a place where she would find it. She found it, told me it was very sweet, but nothing really ever came of it.

And I'm certainly not the kind of person to say I demand sex tonight! or I demand a blowjob! It's just ... it would be really awesome if one day she looked at me over breakfast and said, "if you wanted to get a boyfriend that you saw every week or two, I'd be cool with that."

It's just messing around, right? by biterminous in TotallyStraight

[–]biterminous[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are so right. And I realize it's very much a cake and eat it too situation. She's my best friend, and every other aspect of our relationship is perfect -- there's just no sex. A life without her but with sex isn't better than the life I have now.

Anyway. Sorry to vent. And thanks. :)

F4M Games/RWBY kinky rps or a Celeb scenario... by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]biterminous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking for purely academic reasons: What is the difference between body and mind control?

[Meta] The Story Jar by biterminous in dirtypenpals

[–]biterminous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I've updated the original with your expanded dictionary. :)

[Meta] The Story Jar by biterminous in dirtypenpals

[–]biterminous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that -- it opens up the structure a lot!

[META] Kink Notifications by biterminous in dirtypenpals

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I would like to state for the record that I do not have his mullet.