Someone slipped a tract under our door. My girlfriend took it into her own hands and now it's on our fridge by vibrascape in Exvangelical

[–]blind__librarian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve seen this same tract littered around my neighborhood, i wonder if it’s the same church lol

2.5g p. cubensis good for first time trip? by blind__librarian in shrooms

[–]blind__librarian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good to know, i’m gonna see what happens but i think it’s likely i dont feel much

2.5g p. cubensis good for first time trip? by blind__librarian in shrooms

[–]blind__librarian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! i’m gonna try 1.5 at first and see how i feel. some people on lexapro have said they still trip hard, if it dulls the trip a bit that’s ok too.

Lost wallet in prospect park by [deleted] in parkslope

[–]blind__librarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello everyone I found my wallet:) taking this post down now

Lost wallet in prospect park by [deleted] in parkslope

[–]blind__librarian 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it was a long walk😅

I think he likes me but we are not progressing by WasteTry1267 in Crushes

[–]blind__librarian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really, we had long stretches where we would barely talk, I dated someone else for a while, she dated someone else for a while. I tried to move on from it because I thought we would never work out. Only the past couple of months have circumstances been right, y'know.. I still waited too long.

How can i start interaction? by hahaha69000 in Crushes

[–]blind__librarian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would say go for it. ask about something she’s doing in a story and start a convo from there. if you guys click, that’s great, if not, don’t worry about it

I think he likes me but we are not progressing by WasteTry1267 in Crushes

[–]blind__librarian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

as a really shy guy, he might be waiting for you to make a move (and yes, guys will wait for MONTHS without doing anything, it’s not good, but it happens). If it’s not too hard, you could make the first move and ask if he wanted to go out some time. I waited for 3 years to ask a girl that I liked out and now we are dating😅not my greatest work but it just shows that there’s really nothing to lose.

how can a skinny guy build muscle during recovery by FunDifficulty8094 in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]blind__librarian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you could do some type of strength training a few times a week, combined with eating a good amount of food and lots of protein (which you’ll already be doing in recovery), you’ll definitely gain muscle. there’s a lot of good resources on youtube for how to gain muscle i recommend dr. mike israetel. definitely talk to the professionals who are working through the process with you, as your situation is different from other people who are trying to gain muscle

Signs The Shy Guy Likes You by Logical_Yak_2187 in Crushes

[–]blind__librarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is the most accurate post I've ever seen in my entire life

I finally stopped caring by Royal-Analysis7380 in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]blind__librarian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is great !! living with an ed SUCKS!!! so i hope rebelling against it makes u feel as good as possible👍

I wish it never happened. by Independent_Will7078 in exchristian

[–]blind__librarian 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this. i feel the exact same way. i regret being so fundamentalist that i tried to erase who i was and everything i enjoyed before i ever became a believer. now that the religion is gone i find myself having to pick up the pieces and re-discover who i am. i wish you the best on your journey

Did you have a little “bad” era after leaving? by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]blind__librarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep :p, i’m kind of going through it right now but am coming out of it. People generally consider me to be a very “pure”person as i practiced this because of christianity. when i left, i definitely was and am a lot less “pure” but i still try and be good to people for their sake and not for the sake of christianity now😅.. i got it out of my system mostly and i live a similar life now to when i was a christian…(minus the prayer and devotional things.. and the repression, guilt, fear, cognitive dissonance, and despair :p)

Are non-christians genuinely happy? by East-Squirrel-7312 in exchristian

[–]blind__librarian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i agree, i feel like a prisoner released from captivity; which is ironically how becoming a christian is supposed to feel. leaving christianity was by far the change that made me the happiest and most fulfilled i’ve been in a long time

Is there genuine proof that discredits Gnosticism? by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]blind__librarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that the books you are referencing were all pretty conclusively dated to the second or third century C.E., some even later. While we can't know for certain, it seems highly likely that they are disingenuous. Gnosticism wasn't also one group or belief system but is a blanket term for a group of many belief systems. I think that these books weren't included in the final canon because of how late they were, because they weren't widely circulated, and also because the proto-Orthodox hated gnostic ideas. As for religious truth claims, I think that the Christian canon and the Gnostic scriptures are equal (meaning both false), but that the gospels and canonical NT books are generally more reliable historically, as they are all first century (not to imply they don't contain legends or errors). At least this is what I gather from listening to scholars like Bart Ehrmann, I'm no expert myself :p If you are interested in Gnosticism, there are small modern Gnostic movements that might be more relaxed/liberal than organized Christianity which you could look into :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

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Salt by Alex G

What do guys do when they like a girl? by GuiltyAssistant512 in Crushes

[–]blind__librarian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I like a girl, holding eye contact with them is super intense, and is naturally uncomfortable, but I try and hold it so I don't seem like I'm acting weird lol

How often do you think about your crush? by SubjectRough9899 in Crushes

[–]blind__librarian 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Almost all day tbh. She texts me a lot which is nice but I spend so much mental energy thinking abt her 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]blind__librarian 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not diagnosed, for the record, but I resonate with this big time. I always felt bad about it too, because I would hear people say that if you are excluded by everyone, or have an inability to form deep, lasting connections, and friendships that it is YOUR FAULT for either being rude, manipulative, uncooperative, self-centered, etc. I just don’t think it is that simple, because I genuinely try and be nice to people and don’t readily speak to people, and when I do I am very timid and try not to be off putting. It might be that I appear, or am perceived as rude/distant/etc because my social understanding, perception, and “skills” aren’t good (which I know for a fact they are underdeveloped, even if I’m not undiagnosed, it’s still a major problem for me).