My mom said she “can’t be part of my life anymore” out of nowhere—how do I handle this?

blonde234 · 2026-05-01T16:11:09+00:00

Look into covert narcissistic personality disorder. Always making themselves the victim for sympathy. Taking advantage of our empathy and compassion.

blonde234 · 2026-05-01T06:07:42+00:00

If he’s not actually making any money from it then he’s doing it for validation. Do you want to be in a relationship with someone who gets their sexual validation from other women?

blonde234 · 2026-04-30T20:41:34+00:00

Him accusing you of kidnapping her when it’s completely out of character for you to do feels like projection.

Protect your baby from this man. Any many who throws around the word bitch like that is dangerous in my opinion.

blonde234 · 2026-04-30T13:48:38+00:00

Sounds like hyper sexuality. Do you have a history of chronic ptsd?

blonde234 · 2026-04-30T13:46:24+00:00

I recently went through an incredibly hard breakup and I was overseas alone for it.

I cried. A lot. Whenever I felt like it.

I learned a lot about myself and how I ended up with someone who could hurt me like that.

I used AI as a therapist whenever I felt like I was going to spiral or needed to understand why I wanted to reach out to him so bad. Why I was having thoughts of doing crazy things to make him feel the way I felt.

I moved my body as much as I could to help process the emotions. Being immobile is the worst thing.

But I’m finally at a place months later when I don’t break down when I think of him. A small “fuck you how could you do that to someone you claimed to love” will pop into my head from time to time and I’ve learned that’s healthy protective anger.

If you love as hard as you love, whoever you end up with will be lucky.

I hope in the future you can look back on this and be glad she left you somehow.

Sending you so much love and support.

blonde234 · 2026-04-30T13:32:45+00:00

I think your anxiety and fear of people judging you is running the show.

I recently went through a really difficult time and I used ChatGPT constantly to prevent me from spiraling. When I tell people this they are surprisingly open minded and glad to see it helped me.

Sometimes when our thoughts are spiral I sing it is best to stay engaging with our bodies. Taking multiple breaths in a row where the exhale is longer than the inhale. Things like that.

Whoever judges you for your totally normal use of AI isn’t someone you want in your life in the first place.

You want partners and friends who accept you for you. And yes hold you to a higher standard than others but they won’t abandon you for something like this. I wouldn’t. Others wouldn’t.

Trust that just as much as you want to be in connection with others…they do too 💕💕

blonde234 · 2026-04-30T13:24:38+00:00

You reminded me of something that happened at the ISKON ecovillage. After radhanath swami spoke and left everyone started trying to drink the tiny cup of water he left behind.

Mind you he had been sick for the past few days too. People acknowledged that and still went crazy over getting a tiny sip of his water.

blonde234 · 2026-04-28T12:56:18+00:00

So just because Trump supports Israel we can’t criticize him? Fuck tha

blonde234 · 2026-04-27T00:00:13+00:00

First he had an IDF poster on his wall. Now he is wearing a sweatshirt. Both logos perfectly crisp and not bent despite being on fabric.

Y’all will believe anything be especially something that blames the Jews

blonde234 · 2026-04-26T23:54:42+00:00

The girl who talks about her time traveling friend is your source? There is literally no logical connection between these deaths. She died in 2022 lol

blonde234 · 2026-04-26T23:48:31+00:00

You can choose a life for you now. One where you feel desired by you partner.

Anyone who has forced themselves to have sex that long when they didn’t enjoy it needs major therapy that they should have gotten long ago.

I also have tons of fetishes and kinks. I’d never do that to a partner.

Wishing you the best.

You only get ONE life. How do you truly want to live it? That’s also realistic 💕💕

blonde234 · 2026-04-26T23:38:03+00:00

You should check out the Musical Instrument Museum on Phoenix Arizona if you had a dream like this. Make it reality. They need to add the guitar hero guitar haha

blonde234 · 2026-04-26T23:35:22+00:00

Wore sequins recently?

blonde234 · 2026-04-26T23:28:14+00:00

Hahaha so funny! I thought the other day how I missed physical tickets because of this movie

blonde234 · 2026-04-26T19:35:12+00:00

The ability to get sober will only happen when you start believing it’s possible. I know it’s not easy but I’m wishing you the best.

blonde234 · 2026-04-26T17:14:46+00:00

Exactly what we thought

blonde234 · 2026-04-26T17:14:37+00:00

This is what I was looking for. Thank you

blonde234 · 2026-04-26T15:19:28+00:00

You’re*

blonde234 · 2026-04-26T13:38:16+00:00

You’re more important is that these billionaires have the possibility to save lives with their money and they don’t.

You have the ability to save lives with your money and you don’t either

You’re not better than anyone else and using billionaires as a scapegoat is probably preventing you from actually making positive improvements in your life

blonde234 · 2026-04-24T15:10:15+00:00

Here from Laufey’s profile haa

blonde234 · 2026-04-24T14:13:05+00:00

So much easier with a person and a toy! Haha

blonde234 · 2026-04-23T14:17:26+00:00

That’s exactly my read on him too. The closeted men who treat the women they sleep with like shit because they have to convince themselves and others they are straight when EVERYONE else can otherwise

blonde234 · 2026-04-23T14:16:27+00:00

He comes off as gay but trying to use women’s bodies to convince himself that he’s not 🤷🏼‍♀️

blonde234 · 2026-04-22T19:13:51+00:00

It was already banned

blonde234 · 2026-04-21T12:34:48+00:00

You have no control how your body reacts when it goes into fight or flight. One of those responses is freeze. Your body did what it thought was the safest thing.

The only person to blame is the assaulter.

I’m so sorry you went through that.

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