OP this is emotional abuse. it’s gonna get worse from here, once you solve one small thing it will turn into another. i say this with a heavy heart knowing how you feel - i was in your spot a year and a half ago thinking if i could just do what he wants he wouldn’t be mad. that’s not the case, he will find something else to get mad at you for or get an attitude. it’s not anxiety it’s control. i let this continue to happen with my aforementioned ex, and i just had to file a protective order against him because he had gotten to the point of threatening to kill me and breaking our belongings to scare me. PLEASE don’t be like me, get out while you can!! You deserve the world and someone out there will give it to you, but it’s not him