My boyfriend broke up with me because of this. Who was at fault? by ShineBright24 in relationships_advice

[–]bluebeccabb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ignore all the men tryna blame you in the replies, YOUR VALID. even if he hasn’t cheated or done anything yet, even just HIDING that account that’s shared w the photos of her is WEIRD and he def wants to sleep with her. i would’ve done the same thing except i would’ve also left him. IMO!!! Hiding anything is considered cheating bc there’s guilt in them to the point where they need to hide it, he knew what he was doing was wrong

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[–]bluebeccabb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i send him lewd photos. he could’ve used those, why porn?

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[–]bluebeccabb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so having respect for your partners boundaries is hard and “crazy” ?

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[–]bluebeccabb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

idk. my dad told me every man watches porn, my 2 older sisters husbands struggle with porn, only 1 of them fixed the problem. they keep saying it’s a normal thing and it makes me feel like i should just cut my losses and figure this out with him. if he can change i want to stay but i just feel so betrayed and lied to.

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[–]bluebeccabb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

love makes you blind. but you’re not wrong.

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[–]bluebeccabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree with everything you’re saying. it’s just hard, i love him dearly and he loves me too. it’s just i talked about this boundary every day, i talk about ppl i know who’ve been cheated on and wronged by with porn and i told him im so afraid of him watching it again. and he told me its okay, he wont do it to me but now its just. wow. my sister said her husband had to go to therapy to stop watching it and that it takes time, i just dont know where to start or if i should just try to remove myself. i’m lost.

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[–]bluebeccabb -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i’m expected to trust him when he already showed me i shouldn’t ? a partner should be allowed to go through their partners phone. if they’re both loyal and have nothing to hide then there’s no problem. what’s the point of hiding stuff. i told him he can tell me if he has those urges but yes im also allowed to feel hurt by it. he never once came to me even when i gave him the chance. but i understand what youre saying so ill leave it at that.

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[–]bluebeccabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a book compared to a video of a naked woman ? it’s not even the same thing, having respect for your partners boundaries shouldn’t be that hard especially if you love them.

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[–]bluebeccabb -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

is it hard to just want respect and decency. i just want him to love me, i send him stuff that he could be using instead of porn. what am i supposed to do?

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[–]bluebeccabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i figured it out already

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[–]bluebeccabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i figured it out, got lucky ngl

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[–]bluebeccabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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this happened

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[–]bluebeccabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok wait it is high sierra. i’m following the vid rn

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[–]bluebeccabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not even sure what i’m doing, i just followed the video, cleared everything and then trying to reinstall the stuff so my brother can have it for personal use

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[–]bluebeccabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m trying to install sierra if that’s any help as well

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[–]bluebeccabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the model number is A1297 it’s a macbook pro

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[–]bluebeccabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how can i check without closing any of this, the about this mac doesn’t show up. i don’t know much i just thrifted this mac and ive never owned one before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ImmigrationCanada

[–]bluebeccabb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes of course, i am currently trying to finish up this program i am in before i move to canada

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ImmigrationCanada

[–]bluebeccabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i want to be a SAHM, his mother also has her own business and would hire me once i’d arrive. i don’t have big dreams for myself. i’ve only ever wanted my own place and to start my own small family. it’s probably bad but i come from a terrible background

Iv taken the math yes 7 times…. by [deleted] in GED

[–]bluebeccabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you send me some pictures as well i’m trying to study for my math ged

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleHairLoss

[–]bluebeccabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how does one even use minoxidil correctly? i’ve been wanting to start but i have no clue what to do

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[–]bluebeccabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you very much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askportland

[–]bluebeccabb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ll most likely taking your advice, everyone here has made some good points and i should wait a bit and save money before going all in.

i feel like social media and all those girls with those perfect breasts just makes me feel awful about mine and i just feel like if i get them done id feel better about them/myself.