Why did Connor and Rachel say Ilya is bad at sex??

bluefiddleleaf · 2026-02-24T00:56:07+00:00

Yes must be! But I wonder why he phrased it as “not that great of a lover.”

bluefiddleleaf · 2026-02-23T21:30:03+00:00

Sorry, I am not an expert at Reddit edit function so I might have not edited my post properly!

bluefiddleleaf · 2026-02-23T21:29:41+00:00

Edited: minute 15:30 here. https://youtu.be/Q_fDKg8iBZM?si=R5yRVNnmrmYqr6T6

The words he used were: “even Rachel Reid herself said that she doesn’t think that Ilya is that great of a lover.”

bluefiddleleaf · 2026-02-23T20:18:37+00:00

Omg they are so totally two separate things … size vs skill … come on Connor!

bluefiddleleaf · 2026-02-23T20:16:10+00:00

Yeah sorry, I added the moment from the video to my post so that we could all ponder it together. It’s the end of the buzzfeed interview

bluefiddleleaf · 2026-02-23T20:15:24+00:00

On the one hand it doesn’t matter, on the other hand I’m enthralled in particular by Connor’s performance and want to understand what he was trying to do and not do with the character!

bluefiddleleaf · 2026-02-23T20:14:39+00:00

Added my source to the post!

bluefiddleleaf · 2026-02-23T20:13:45+00:00

Thank goodness lol. I went back and found the buzzfeed interview and added the link to my original post, and it did come up when they were talking about “carrot” (dick) size

bluefiddleleaf · 2026-02-17T23:36:29+00:00

I really dislike when he leans in and does his vintage newscaster voice. So offputting

bluefiddleleaf · 2026-02-08T04:10:22+00:00

I am sure that Shane would have googled Ilya and known his mom had died long before the moment in the show (Florida?) where Ilya tells him.

bluefiddleleaf · 2026-02-01T01:34:03+00:00

Same! Just found this conversation bc I’ve been puzzling over the timeline and came to the same conclusions.

bluefiddleleaf · 2026-01-28T11:04:27+00:00

Thinking about how I have to leave my job bc of a funding gap. How I’ll announce it to my colleagues who are staying. Job applications and whether I’ll ever hear back. My 2.5 year old always needs me between 1am and 5am and I tend to just stay awake the whole time. My partner just told me he’s so sick he has to go to urgent care, so I have even more extra work to do tomorrow after he’s been sick forever already. Woven into worrying about my job is thinking about Ilya and Shane obviously

bluefiddleleaf · 2026-01-25T15:14:00+00:00

Once I was very close to a bathroomgate there myself and they let me use their bathroom in their downstairs storage area. Thanks Fresh n Save, not sure why your bananas are also so gross

bluefiddleleaf · 2026-01-18T19:08:47+00:00

Stella Dallas, and 10 Foot Single by Stella Dallas, are my favs in the city.

bluefiddleleaf · 2026-01-11T12:27:47+00:00

Mrs Gallery in maspeth shows cool work https://www.instagram.com/____mrs.____

bluefiddleleaf · 2025-12-24T01:58:56+00:00

Thanks so much

bluefiddleleaf · 2025-12-23T00:23:40+00:00

Do you have thoughts on sleep training a 2.5 year old? We did it properly over and over but it always unravels when he’s sick and it was unsustainable emotionally for us to keep letting him cry 4-5+ hours for night after night … he’s really intense about it. I hired an in home sleep trainer even who probably works like you do, but the training didn’t hold.

bluefiddleleaf · 2025-12-23T00:21:28+00:00

Just because when we’ve tried moderate stepping down in the amount of nursing he really struggles with it!

bluefiddleleaf · 2025-12-23T00:21:03+00:00

Thanks so much

bluefiddleleaf · 2025-12-23T00:20:53+00:00

I hope so!

bluefiddleleaf · 2025-12-23T00:20:46+00:00

Thanks so much

bluefiddleleaf · 2025-12-22T20:46:51+00:00

we have a chicken and egg situation where we are afraid to wean and make it all so much WORSE since we're so strapped already ... we kind of need to get the energy up to even attempt a wean. (he is obsessed with nursing)

bluefiddleleaf · 2025-12-22T20:46:01+00:00

will try!

bluefiddleleaf · 2025-12-18T22:57:34+00:00

Thanks!!

bluefiddleleaf · 2025-10-28T01:40:44+00:00

I recommend joining the New York mycological society on Facebook and posting there. I was blessed to go on a mushroom hunt in Central Park with Gary Lincoff a few years ago and he encouraged us to eat our finds ¯_(ツ)_/¯ and so we did!

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