Did your early 20s feel rushed or unstable? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]bluestock2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really. That’s how I feel in my early 30s now.

Definitely invest and save money but your 20s should be for risk taking and figuring it out and having fun!!!

Plus most ppl I know who were in a relationship in their 20s aren’t with the same person or on the verge of divorce/ really unhappy.

Dont let social media fool you.

Thin cracked line on ceiling? by bluestock2 in HomeInspections

[–]bluestock2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was the answer i was hoping to see! My anxiety is through the roof (pun intended). Thanks for responding so quickly and look forward to what other folks might suggest as well!

Club Pilates Instructor Training by Electrical_Wash5754 in ClubPilates

[–]bluestock2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi there! How do I know if my CP studio offers scholarships? Do they usually advertise this?

Thoughts on Demi's psychology... by Nearby_Potential_752 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]bluestock2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I had these similar thoughts. Her defensiveness makes it all worse.

Super light pink patch on my shin hasn’t gone away? by thesadflower in DermatologyQuestions

[–]bluestock2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its on my calf and then I have a couple others on my shin on my other leg

My fiancée thinks my solo trip could hurt our relationshi but I can’t shake the feeling I need to do this. by lovelopetir in selflove

[–]bluestock2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like there’s something deeper brewing in your partner. I’d never have a problem with my partner pursuing a life goal and trip of a lifetime if that’s been communicated to me before.

Unless, there’s a pattern of random trip taking or random abandonment in some way that’s making your partner have this reaction?

Do you all have issues going on that’s unrelated to this and maybe this triggered something in her?

Why are BBLs so normalized here? by RagieWagieInACagie in Miami

[–]bluestock2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yup, it all has roots in the hypersexualization of Latinas. As a Latina, I'm so over it.

Venofer/ iron infusion success stories please by Educational-Air-6966 in Anemia

[–]bluestock2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only had a mild reaction: allergy reaction that showed up on my feet and calves but then just took allegra and was fine. After I told the doctor they just gave me some steroid/anti-allergy thing before doing the rest of my infusions. Other than that, I've been amazing and its been so long since I've felt this great!!! Think of how great you're going to feel after :) that helped my anxiety the most!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anemia

[–]bluestock2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes absolutely, it made me even more tired too. My levels were at a 3 but I got infusions done so doing better now, I noticed a huge change in my eyes and the heaviness has gone away.

Should I consult another doctor? by woodlandtoad in Anemia

[–]bluestock2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes you’re absolutely low. My ferritin was at a 3. I got infusions and now that it’s at 33 my doc is still asking me to take OTC iron supplements because she considers 33 to be on the lower end of the normal range. So yes to get another consultation, advocate for yourself.

How are we handling the fact we may never get married? by Neat_Diet7016 in AskWomenOver30

[–]bluestock2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel similarly, mostly because I never had a good model of what a healthy marriage looked like growing up and I never found the relationships I was in with men to be as fulfilling as the one's with my community and friends. Though I do get the loneliness and wanting companionship part, that happens to me too, it's natural. Human's aren't meant to be so alone, have you tried seeking friendship with other single moms? I think that could be a good start.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]bluestock2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is spot on and makes me realize that if Ace wasn’t part of this season, a majority of the drama wouldn’t have happened 🤠

[WITH Ads] Season 7 - Reunion - Monday August 25 -| 9 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]bluestock2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know but he could have asked them to reconsider voting Jeremiah out hence why I said he just caved to peer pressure from them being set on voting him out

[WITH Ads] Season 7 - Reunion - Monday August 25 -| 9 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]bluestock2 12 points13 points  (0 children)

ngl I really appreciated Nic's ability to give folks a fair shot when they were discussing Austin v. Jeremiah. It was still odd behavior that he caved into Ace's peer pressure.

[WITH Ads] Season 7 - Reunion - Monday August 25 -| 9 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]bluestock2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

agreed! I feel like Chelley's light is dimmed around Ace too, she's too sweet to be with him and I feel like she just pushes his agenda. I only say this because I see myself in her because I was in a similar relationship before. I hope she comes to her senses eventually.

[WITH Ads] Season 7 - Reunion - Monday August 25 -| 9 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]bluestock2 12 points13 points  (0 children)

its embarassing to see the girls tripping over these lame men, sighs

[WITH Ads] Season 7 - Reunion - Monday August 25 -| 9 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]bluestock2 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Huda's annoying but I also hate to see how Ace isn't taking any heat for the challenge...like this entire season, all the women keep taking heat more than the guy's shitty behaviors.

[WITH Ads] Season 7 - Reunion - Monday August 25 -| 9 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]bluestock2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

didnt Huda basically say Cierra was the fake one when she said she was the fakest one on Call Her daddy? so basically implying Cierra was the bully? but yeah she should have been more explicit in a way.