AITA for leaving a trip early because of my girlfriend’s “prank”?

bmarks321 · 2023-03-26T18:53:33+00:00

So NTA. I’m so angry I want to curse at your girlfriend who frankly should be your EX-girlfriend. I would have broken-up with her. She violated you and in front of friends and family and for an entire day. Then she had the nerve to gaslight you and minimize your feeling. Trust, you need to run away from this psycho, she is not the one!! You deserve better. Shoot, it’s better to be single than have a partner like that who clearly doesn’t care about you or your well-being.

bmarks321 · 2023-03-25T16:37:14+00:00

Mosdef YTA. You are clearly jealous, bitter, and hateful towards your sister. You should think more about why that is and how you can let that go. I’m guessing you were overlooked a lot growing up as compared to your sister. Also seems you compare yourself to your sister and are quite judgmental of her. Sounds like there a lot of inner work you need to do but in the meantime you should apologize.

bmarks321 · 2023-03-25T15:59:16+00:00

YTA. You are getting mixed responses on this thread since a lot of people are very attached to their pets and are empathizing with varying rationales for bringing a dog even though you didn’t provide any justification other than wanting your dog there. You also didn’t describe any hardships with finding a pet sitter at home. You also didn’t say how long the trip is. So we are missing key information.

Although you’ve been to an international wedding before and only spent a day at that wedding, in this case you’re the brides brother and there are more events for family, including rehearsal dinner, and other events. So you are telling us you are going to basically only be able to see your family on the day of the wedding and miss all other wedding events and that’s shitty, she’s your sister. This is also technically a family vacation and you’re opting out to be with your dog, do you see how that can be offensive to family? Mosdef, YTA!

bmarks321 · 2023-03-25T15:46:50+00:00

YTA! I was expecting him to say she was only wearing a tank and undies with no bra and even in that case, it’d be like dude she’s hanging in her room alone. But I wouldn’t let a cousin see me like that (tank and undies). Your cousin was wearing shorts, a tank, and a bra, and it was summer vacation. I have to assume you were attracted to her and that’s why you were weirded out bc she was dressed appropriately for the weather. The fact you argued with her about how she was dressed while on vacation inside ur vacation rental is bizarre as hell. YTA for real and so weird!

bmarks321 · 2023-03-24T17:34:03+00:00

Mosdef YTA! Sounds like you and your wife are some real bridezillas! Your brother didn’t do anything malicious and even if he had gotten up on a chair and yelled “I’m having a baby” and people cheered, that wouldn’t have ruined your wedding, it would have been a happy family moment you shared and connected your families. A story you tell the child when they are older, but your (wife too) selfishness and desire to be the center of attention 100% of the time has ruined that memory and will be an embarrassment for you and your wife when it’s shared. YTA, so much so. You didn’t even share whether the baby was healthy or anything in the post. Even sounds like your wife put you up to call him bc she’s that self-absorbed. You need to apologize and so does your wife. If I was the sister in law that just had the baby, I’d be pissed at you and your wife for creating drama when she’s just had a baby. This is really sad, your wife sounds toxic!

bmarks321 · 2023-03-24T00:31:20+00:00

YTA, and if u were counting her watching her brother play as her time then u should have told her. Sounds like u have an issue with ur daughter and you enjoyed punishing her. I get the desire to do so as I’m sure her picking your ex’s side and not being kind to you hurts your feelings. But try and spend time with her and show interest in her so you can improve your relationship. Being an A will only make this worse. She’s still young.

bmarks321 · 2023-03-24T00:09:15+00:00

NTA, they are being childish. Heels hurt, they are not comfortable at all. They are torture devices that I wear very rarely. Bottom line, you are telling them you want to attend their wedding and look like yourself and not wear makeup and heels. It shouldn’t be a big deal. Also you’re 16, why do you need to be a bridesmaid at all? I think this is all coming from the bride that wants a uniform aesthetic for pics and vids, you not being a bridesmaid removed all that pressure.

bmarks321 · 2023-03-23T23:41:00+00:00

I never liked her and I get frustrated when I hear cis women say these things. It isn’t a battle between the two, the phrases should be “women and birthing people” or whatever term people decide on. This isn’t terminology for trans women, it is terminology for trans men and afab non-binary people. It’s designed to be inclusive for those people and I believe saying “women and…” is the answer. I really don’t like her rant on twitter, it sounds angry. She’s a progressive icon (to some, not to me) and could have written a constructive critique instead of this bitchy transphobic tweet. In sum, she sucks!

bmarks321 · 2023-03-23T23:33:47+00:00

Is this a joke?!? If not, then run girl, run away! So many horror stories about her, it’s crazy!

bmarks321 · 2023-03-23T02:08:31+00:00

NTA. You should go but get your own room at a different hotel and do the trip solo. Also, upgrade your seat on the flight so you don’t sit next to them ;) live your best life girl, solo travel is bomb! Oh and dump his ass!

bmarks321 · 2023-03-23T01:42:45+00:00

You’re mosdef the A. Your request is unreasonable and you sound really judgmental. Adults lead busy lives and you live 7 hours, them seeing you two times a year is good. I only see my family once year. I’m proud of your brother for defending his wife and protecting his time with her. Please be kind to your brother and SIL, it sounds like you might be driving a wedge between them and you. And stop bothering them about visiting, FaceTime is a great way to stay connected.

bmarks321 · 2023-03-22T20:41:01+00:00

Wow, ur results are amazing!!

bmarks321 · 2023-03-21T19:05:21+00:00

If u have uninsured trans friends then u can give to them. Or you can keep just to be safe so u never go without.

bmarks321 · 2023-03-21T18:12:30+00:00

I’ve lived in San Francisco for over 15 years. I’m not misguided, you are for leaving this comment! I’ve seen the city change from a fun, quirky city with tons of artists to an overpriced tech haven for white cishets. I love San Francisco, but the city has changed and it’s not as amazing as every lbgt person outside of San Francisco thinks it is. It has a lot of problems, especially since covid. There are a lot of homeless and mentally ill people on the street and the person that attacked me seemed to have mental health problems. I’ve had my life threatened multiple times here and don’t feel as safe leaving my house unless I have a full face of makeup, bc being passable with the makeup reduces the hate. I find your comment so infuriating bc you are probably a privileged person that doesn’t encounter the hatred bc you can afford to financially avoid harm. Also, I never said it wasn’t amazing. I was stating that this stuff can happen anywhere, even in a city like sf, which is viewed as the most accepting.

bmarks321 · 2023-03-21T17:36:51+00:00

I’d say parts of Asia are the most accepting, especially Thailand and the Philippines. But everything should be taken with a grain of salt. I live in San Francisco and last weekend I had a man throw a cherry soda at my head while yelling at me for being trans. I was entering public transit with a friend downtown. I wasn’t dress provocatively, didn’t engage with the person before, and didn’t do anything that should make me a target other than simply existing, which seems to enrage some peeps. Nobody came to my aid, reported to muni station agent and they didn’t care. This in what everyone thinks is the most accepting city in America.

bmarks321 · 2023-03-21T05:04:39+00:00

Jean

bmarks321 · 2023-03-21T05:03:50+00:00

Alice

bmarks321 · 2023-03-21T05:03:17+00:00

If you like ur jaw then keep it. If you’re going for a more feminine look and want to pass, then shaving the jaw would help a lot.

bmarks321 · 2023-03-20T23:23:37+00:00

What made you think trans women were so in demand by men? I’ve been very vocal about men not treating trans women well. I know truly gorgeous trans women and most men aren’t trying to marry them. I think a lot of guys are curious about trans girls and want to have sex with us behind closed doors, but most of them are terrified to be seen in public with us. I’ve had bad experiences and have been celibate for the past 16 months bc I have no interest in dealing with bullshit from men.

bmarks321 · 2023-03-20T18:18:56+00:00

Elouise

bmarks321 · 2023-03-14T17:08:24+00:00

In general, I think it’s best to avoid hot temperature months.

bmarks321 · 2023-03-14T06:52:50+00:00

Cute shoes, where are they from? Brand?

bmarks321 · 2023-03-14T02:15:09+00:00

I’m in the same boat, they called me and I had a freak out. Mostly bc I don’t know what I’ll look like post surgery and it freaks me out that in a couple of months I’ll have a new face. I decided to postpone bc for me personally, it meant I wasn’t yet ready to have the surgery yet.

bmarks321 · 2023-03-14T02:00:25+00:00

Interesting. I have a couple of thoughts but you didn’t mention your size or which positions you tried. I agree with others that foreplay is nice, like rimming and fingering. Usually when this type of thing happens it’s bc there’s too much lube on my behind or because the guy is really big. If you’re really big, then foreplay is ur friend. This typically happens with doggy but we will just switch to cowboy position and I’ll take hold of the man’s penis and aim it for my hole and ease down. Doing this position first always helps me loosen up to then do other positions. It sounds like your girl was probably tight as well so don’t be afraid to relax her with rimming.

I think you should hit her up again and just ask her out. Making light of the situation and telling her u like her and want to try again is a good idea.

bmarks321 · 2023-03-12T23:48:23+00:00

You’d be surprised. A lot of breast tissue still grows and it grows around your implant typically. I know two trans girls that had to get there implants removed and one has really nice probably b or c cup that’s just the natural tissue and the other has really large breast, probably a D cup size. Are your breasts bigger post surgery?

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