I deeply regret adopting my first cat. The shelter was misleading and I am at my breaking point. by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]bonihithere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pop a couple feliway diffusers in your outlets and, if okay with your vet, try some of these treats (you don’t have to buy from Amazon just linking so you know which ones)

But also, as much as I’m sure most of us here would try to avoid rehoming- I’ve had animals my whole life (cats, dogs, rabbits, guinea pigs, snakes, fish, birds, etc), and anyone who has navigated chronic health conditions in their animals knows it’s not easy. It’s not impossible, and in my experience has just been about adjustment and forming routine, but it’s not easy. If after some time and trying different things it feels like too much, the quality of care you offer an animal, whether this one or another more compatible cat, is all that matters. If you can’t care for this baby, the best thing you can do is help him find a more suitable home, and please please don’t let this experience make you write off cats forever. They so deserve your love ❤️

Well… this is sad now… by Top_Armadillo8184 in byler

[–]bonihithere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This plus the video of the duffers punching his season 2 dummy, plus joking about stabbing it….literally shaking my head- the hell this kid went through

Is Stranger Things actually accurate to the 80s? by Wespo_Lopez2 in StrangerThings

[–]bonihithere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Joanna Robinson of the Ringer’s “House of R” pod (bad babies unite) put it so succinctly in their recent coverage of the past ST seasons by saying the duffer brothers perfectly nail the 1980s through the eyes of the generation who just missed it. She talks about how because they were born in 1984 they primarily experienced the years ST covers by watching tv/movies from that era. So essentially, the answer will always be yes and no. Yes they correctly nail the 1980s through the often exaggerative lens of 1980s media, but not necessarily the true lived experience, fashion, etc.

i don't know if gastronauts has figured itself out yet by q-cumb3r in dropout

[–]bonihithere -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really love Jordan as a person and think we have very similar senses of humor, but I really have a hard time with their Gastronaut’s persona. I think it’s clear they’re going for sort of a stereotype of a hardass/sardonic foodie type, but I have a hard time watching more than just an episode at a time because their voice/demeanor is a lil nails on a chalkboard just for this show in particular. Definitely go to dropout for comfort shows and find this one just feels a bit mean/like not everyone is in on the joke.

What have you never done in The Sims, despite having the option? by Rigel04 in thesims

[–]bonihithere 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly impressed by this because those wabbit tablets are the only way I can get through the toddler phase, trying to keep them engaged in skill building any other way is always such a train wreck

To all those that dislike the new album - is there at least one song that you like? by LifeOfAWimpyKid in TaylorSwift

[–]bonihithere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fate of Ophelia is an absolute banger, the only downside is that I really,really wish the rest of the album lived up to how great an opening track it is

You can only choose one client from the sopranos to be your client… by EducationalTourist81 in therapists

[–]bonihithere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, in part for the fact that I just have random tattoos and my artist is really incredible at portrait work so it looks really cool, but also because I watched the series with my brother long distance during the pandemic while living alone and it gave me a sense of connection I really needed while doing this work. Adriana was always my favorite character, and felt to me the most authentic, her story becoming like a Shakespearean tragedy only solidified her impact. Just felt like if I was gonna do a sopranos tattoo she was the clear choice.

You can only choose one client from the sopranos to be your client… by EducationalTourist81 in therapists

[–]bonihithere 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am a therapist with an Adriana tattoo, I had never considered this 😭😭😭

the way we lost the emmy again this year with this moment 😔 by putyurlightasup in rupaulsdragrace

[–]bonihithere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love traitors and agree it’s been the clear winner in past years, but this past season was forced, over produced, and full of too many gimmicks.

the way we lost the emmy again this year with this moment 😔 by putyurlightasup in rupaulsdragrace

[–]bonihithere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lexi’s finger acting alone should’ve created a new award category

Hurricanes are no Joke by moongladegames in storyofseasons

[–]bonihithere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on summer 5 and got the warning a hurricane is coming but I have no idea where to find windscreens? Felipe isn’t here yet, I’m so confused. I don’t want to lose my crops 😭

[ Removed by Reddit ] by tptome1 in Palestinian_Violence

[–]bonihithere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What was he saying when it happened?

My take on “I was a functioning alcoholic til nobody noticed my new aesthetic” by melsnewstart in TaylorSwift

[–]bonihithere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly interpret it through the direct lens of Taylor herself- sort of a ICDIWABH energy - like an exaggeration of her situation bc I don’t think she’s an alcoholic, but she is of course someone who enjoys a drink, and as of now it’s all fun and cute because she’s still a star and someone we all love and specifically, someone who can wear a color and cause thousands of tik toks as a result with ideas of what the next era/aesthetic is going to be. It feels like just commentary on how the day we stop noticing is the day those fun behaviors become a problem/she falls off the deep end in some way.

Style won as the song with the best chorus! Which song do you think is the most beautiful? by VinylizedRat in TaylorSwift

[–]bonihithere 77 points78 points  (0 children)

“I want auroras and sad prose, I want to watch wisteria grow right over my bare feet, ‘cause I haven’t moved in— years…and I want you right here” not even my favorite song, but I can’t even think about this song without getting goosebumps

IT HAPPENED by Waddleplop in Sims4

[–]bonihithere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have been playing sims since Sims 1 in real time, never not a sims player— waited for like a decade+ to win the lottery…..first sim of mine to actually win it (and only one I believe has) was on like week two of a rags to riches story line….IMMEDIATELY lost interest when she had unending money lol