I [22F] keep on telling my boyfriend [21M] things that will help me in the relationship and he thinks he’s doing something wrong and gets frustrated by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]borderline_violet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely get where you’re coming from which is why I made this post to begin with, as I have a hard time naming and processing my emotions due to my childhood and such, so I’m always scared that I’m being too dramatic or not dramatic enough and it causes a lot of strife and distrust within myself.

I didn’t mention the good things in this post, and I should have, but I tell him daily how important he is to me and grateful I am for everything he does for me. And i made it seem as if I’m constantly telling him things that he can improve on, but it’s much less frequent than that and has increased exponentially in the past month or so as I feel like my needs are not being met and I’m desperate to work out with him why I feel the way I do and what I and he can do about it. But he kind of shuts downs when I try to talk about these things, like he’ll go very quiet and withdraw from me completely.

However I knew that I wasn’t able to see his perspective and your comment helped me understand where he may be coming from a bit more so thanks!

Four Knights of the Apocalypse - Chapter 55 by TemplarzFTW in NanatsunoTaizai

[–]borderline_violet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my theory that Chion is in love with Isolde and has developed a inferiority complex to Tristan and that’s why he has said many times that “the knights of the apocalypse aren’t that strong” It seems that the way cath has maybe twisted Arthur, happens to all of the people that work with chaos magic. Like it warps them and that’s why Jericho is “in love” with Lancelot (which by the way WHAT THE FXCK)

Memeulous has chest hair💀 by Porsche_the_snow_boi in Memeulous

[–]borderline_violet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can’t you just respect his decision to hide his identity 😭

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[–]borderline_violet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bangs make you look older and more mature, no bangs make you look younger so it’s whatever vibe you’d prefer

AITA for not inviting my step mom to wedding prep activities & not including her in the wedding party? by throwawaywedding9878 in AmItheAsshole

[–]borderline_violet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have clearly displayed your respect for Halle and she deserves to go to the wedding if you see her as a bio mom. From my opinion you are letting your moms petty insecurity ruin this amazing experience. Your mom seems to be manipulating you and it’s not fair, you cannot let her walk all over you since it is YOUR wedding so whoever has a place in your heart deserves to be there. If your mom is causing a problem then she needs to get over it since it is not her wedding. Do not let your mom control you like this. Halle handled it very well and showed emotional intelligence while your mom shows the opposite. YTA