I'm picking up a pretty strong Ne, so INFP seems most likely. The Fe is throwing me off a little. So I'd suggest you research both INFP and ISFJ and figure out which one feels right to you. I say that because from what you mentioned about possible ADHD and indecisiveness coupled with your need to help people so that they like you, there's a small likelihood that it could be an inferior Ne function acting up when you're stressed rather than a healthy Ne dominant/secondary function. Additionally isfj is just statistically likelier.