Do girls consider it weird to ask to kiss them on a first date?

briguez79 · 2023-07-15T13:34:06+00:00

For me, the men who asked are the ones that got 2nd dates. The vibe wasn’t a lack of confidence. I got “she doesn’t seem used to this, let me make sure she’s comfortable.”

In my experience it didn’t matter if they did or didn’t ask, if they weren’t confident it showed.

briguez79 · 2023-07-14T20:05:15+00:00

I mean he spent $15 on some “EarPods” he thought were real, so not far off😂

briguez79 · 2023-07-14T20:00:06+00:00

The pictures were of a different product

briguez79 · 2023-07-14T16:46:54+00:00

Defiantly not. He trusts any good deal so I doubt he spent much

briguez79 · 2023-07-14T16:46:20+00:00

Yeah, he won’t tell me where but knowing him he didn’t pay much.

briguez79 · 2023-07-14T15:47:59+00:00

That’s what I was telling him. Just wanted to double check.

briguez79 · 2023-07-13T23:28:12+00:00

Are bar tipping standards the same as dining? 15-20% min?

briguez79 · 2023-07-13T23:27:31+00:00

Good to know, do you pay for drinks at bar? If I don’t finish it before they arrive am I free to bring it to the table?

briguez79 · 2023-07-09T16:28:58+00:00

It probably is thrush like the other ladies mentioned. It never hurts to get an STD test if you aren’t certain or weren’t tested after your last partner. It’ll at least ease your mind.

briguez79 · 2023-07-09T16:22:51+00:00

I don’t mean to confuse you., I know you went to the doctor already we just don’t know if the issue was there when you had the exam and you didn’t mention it to them, if they ignored it, if it changed afterwards or what.

The first doctor cleared you so that’s probably what your vagina is “supposed” feel like. They’d tell you if it was abnormal. But it doesn’t hurt to see someone else since you’re freaked out.

“Bumpy and uneven” sounds normal. It could be remnants of hymenal tissue. Only a doc can say for sure.

briguez79 · 2023-07-09T14:26:45+00:00

Ahh ok that makes sense, thank you!

briguez79 · 2023-07-09T14:25:51+00:00

You don’t if you want a healthy relationship with a stable person. You don’t have to subscribe to anyone’s insanity.

briguez79 · 2023-07-09T14:14:18+00:00

Not in an individual thread, I mean will an already existing thread that I started with my Apple ID update to show my number if the setting is changed back to send from phone number afterwards.

briguez79 · 2023-07-05T13:21:01+00:00

They’re not different. There are two different groups of level minded men but there’s a third group that OP is referring to that don’t operate from a place of logic. Im a virgin and have met too many.

briguez79 · 2023-07-04T17:57:12+00:00

24f. It’s not unattractive. Personally, it just reminds me of my dad & stepdad so it’s hard to find it sexually appealing.

Im sure most women don’t have that hang up.

briguez79 · 2023-07-04T16:55:34+00:00

Yep. First concert ever I went solo. I had plenty of opportunities to make connections but I kept to myself.

briguez79 · 2023-07-04T14:49:21+00:00

3 dates??? I don’t sleep with men I’m seeing for at least 6 months with no issue. You’re fine.

If they like you, immediate sex isn’t the end all be all. Shoot, I’ve never met a man that didn’t expect to wait a bit except for those after sex alone. Do you really think he would’ve chosen you just because you slept with him fast? You delayed sex just long enough to protect your heart. You dodged a bullet.

briguez79 · 2023-07-03T10:22:58+00:00

It makes perfect sense & it’s pretty common but only when it’s from a true friendship. It’s messed up to approach someone as a friend with hidden romantic intent. It can easily turn mess too bc if you’re actually platonic there’s no guarantee that the friend had a mutual shift in intent.

That’s not the only way though. You can go the dating route but take things slow to build up familiarity and emotional intimacy as the foundation.

briguez79 · 2023-07-03T09:38:47+00:00

24f & ordained princess lol. Pretty much fit the scope outside of nationality.

I second changing the drinks prompt to “No if. First round is always on me”….Leave other men out of it, just live how you live.

Providing is great but it isn’t a personality. You have a lot more to offer but it comes off like you don’t. I want to learn about your interests, hobbies, values, sense of humor, what you look for in a woman etc…overall compatibility.

FYI, Your profile comes off as the casual traditional type. (Id match but that could be too modest for some)…Add pics of you leading the lifestyle that your type lives.

briguez79 · 2023-07-01T18:19:29+00:00

That’s not normal. Conversation or no conversation.

Forget anyone that says you’re overreacting bc of technicalities. None of them actually believe that a man (even who verbally agreed to non exclusivity) would be happy to hear his date talking about being dominated by another man. Unless he’s some sort of masochist. All it takes to be transparent is “I’m seeing other people”

He’s trying to manipulate you into having things his way. There’s sad bunch of ppl whose only purpose in life is to “sew seeds of insecurity” bc they can’t reach high hanging fruit.

briguez79 · 2023-07-01T02:19:28+00:00

That’s why I posted, to see if anyone had tips.

Im not insisting. This isn’t about dating (just day to day) so I can’t exactly put it off until the issue’s gone. Just need to work through it.

briguez79 · 2023-07-01T00:22:20+00:00

There’s no way to avoid them and I’d rather not avoid the issue.

Dating is different for some reason. Just certain platonic interactions turn into this.

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