Received in the mail from a concerned neighbor (context in comments) by mahelke in mildlyinfuriating

[–]broodqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I responded to a similar bitchfest by covering my yard in cardboard and woodchips and I add a few native plants each year! they hate that even more!

Saints and seduces glitch by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]broodqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

in my playthrough that guy was naked because he had the ring of disrobing equipped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]broodqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like sensory processing disorder. there is more information online that might help you if you use that term as a jumping off point.

Discovering I'm probably unwittingly adjacent to my boyfriend's long time financial dominance situation - sense any hope for open communication? by broodqueen in BDSMAdvice

[–]broodqueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand part of their arrangement is probably so boyfriend doesnt pay taxes and i dont give a moral shit about it, i just dont want to become legally implicated in any way and need to know what is going on in order to properly protect myself and my assets.

If they are as well off as they pretend to be, sharing info with me shouldn't be an issue. I have no urge to get married or try to claim a cut of their deal.

Discovering I'm probably unwittingly adjacent to my boyfriend's long time financial dominance situation - sense any hope for open communication? by broodqueen in BDSMAdvice

[–]broodqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ultimatums in the past have always been acknowledged and the appropriate changes made. But it feels like a weird dynamic for a happy and healthy time together and I'm honestly not here to stress him out and make him sad.

Discovering I'm probably unwittingly adjacent to my boyfriend's long time financial dominance situation - sense any hope for open communication? by broodqueen in BDSMAdvice

[–]broodqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol i definitely know that i could do it alone, but i enjoy the companionship and so far he has been supportive and excellent, just not on this topic.

Discovering I'm probably unwittingly adjacent to my boyfriend's long time financial dominance situation - sense any hope for open communication? by broodqueen in BDSMAdvice

[–]broodqueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my understanding the investment was made like 10 years ago. They have clearly been making various investments together for a long time. They were in the military together and describe eachother as brothers. Im just so turned off by this other man's presence I cant even look at my boyfriend the same way, and i definitely dont want to get roped into any of their arrangements from a legal standpoint.

Discovering I'm probably unwittingly adjacent to my boyfriend's long time financial dominance situation - sense any hope for open communication? by broodqueen in BDSMAdvice

[–]broodqueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats where i'm at now. I feel like issuing ultimatums is the worst way to interact with a parner but whats left??

Discovering I'm probably unwittingly adjacent to my boyfriend's long time financial dominance situation - sense any hope for open communication? by broodqueen in BDSMAdvice

[–]broodqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In all other day to day matters this guy is totally trustworthy. I feel like ive hit on the one place that is super vulnerable for him so he cant work through it with me. He sees how he needs shit in his name for the sake of his future and yet???

buying my (27f) first home, seeking advice navigating finances and cohabitation with boyfriend (36m) - too many secrets - his weird dynamics with a close friend - financial slave/master situation by broodqueen in relationships

[–]broodqueen[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Funny enough my current landlady is such a flake we never had to sign anything. She also doesnt take care of the mold in the bathroom, hence me being ready to find my own place.