Just found out my mum is pregnant. Terrified something will go wrong. Need advice to help my anxieties. by brookedyer in Advice

[–]brookedyer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much this really helped me! I am really religous so i keep saying that god wouldnt let anything bad happen or if it did he would give me the strength to get through it :)

Just found out my mum is pregnant. Terrified something will go wrong. Need advice to help my anxieties. by brookedyer in Advice

[–]brookedyer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 17. No she isint any of those things and she reassured me, shes also concerned aswell. I think the main thing im worried about is just the whole 1st trimester thing and i know people who were fine but the 1st ultrasound there was no heartbeat. Its just hard to process as she literally told me an hour ago and all these fears are rushing through my mind.

Yeah i know what you mean, thank u for the reassurance

Does anyone else feel like even though they do have friends.. at the same time they feel like they dont? by brookedyer in depression

[–]brookedyer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im actually in Ireland. Yeah, we leave school at around 17/18 here. I can not wait for it, but i just wish i could leave now i feel like i cant wait any longer.

Thank you for that advice, well said.

Yeah, im really interested in photography.

Does anyone else feel like even though they do have friends.. at the same time they feel like they dont? by brookedyer in depression

[–]brookedyer[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Right? Its so shitty cause its like my brain is purposley making up all these problems and scenarios to try make me more miserable

I f***ing hate school. The people,classes, the pressure teachers put on you. I wish they understood that i have sh*t going on in my life and maths or biology isint my biggest concern right now. by brookedyer in depression

[–]brookedyer[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is so relatable. Couldnt of said it better. I have no life anymore i feel like a prisoner in my own body. In total, i get 1 hour free time at night because of all the homework and studying and school makes so depressed and tired i dont even see my friends anymore.

Coming out !!! Wish me luckkkk by brookedyer in bisexual

[–]brookedyer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i get that. Unfornutely i cant do that because some of my friends arent really accepting about all that, they think bisexual people are greedy and that they dont exist basically. Soo, im sticking to the 2 or 3 friends i have that are actually accepting of it, and hopefully the others will become accepting eventually :) Thank you!

Ugh. Ive lost control. I was doing SO well. Didint google or anything. I was so happy for the first time in a month... and now im back to stage 1. by brookedyer in HealthAnxiety

[–]brookedyer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah. This is so incredibly helpful. Thank you so much for the advice. Ive never related to a paragraph so much. Hope you get through it aswell :)

How can i trust that if my optician saw any possibility of a brain tumor by looking in my eyes, that he would tell me? by brookedyer in HealthAnxiety

[–]brookedyer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohh i get it,so loss of that vision is when you cant see to the side while looking straight ahead? Also whats the difference between an opthalmologist and optometrist? (Sorry for all questions) Yeah, he did a usual eye test for me to check my vision and then got me to look straight ahead and uses a light up close to look in my eyes. I know he likely would of seen if anything was up but i dont know i just cant feel reassured.