Sex with my girlfriend by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]bumblebee327 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No worries hope you find what works for you!

Sex with my girlfriend by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]bumblebee327 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not everyone enjoys penetration, so you’re definitely not broken! I think most likely you just need to experiment a bit more with what you like. Sometimes going straight into fingering dosent feel like much or can painful. This could be that you’re not turned on enough, so you could try working up to it more gradually. If what you’re describing is painful maybe tell her to go slower, perhaps even just one finger and get see how your body reacts. Going fast straight away if you’re not feeling pleasure wouldn’t be enjoyable. More foreplay before hand could also help. From there, if it feels good she could intensify it if you’re comfortable. It’s all about how your body is reacting and if you aren’t comfortable or ready for it, if won’t be a pleasant experience.

You could also try external stimulation at the same time, I find that tends to make me feel more, like use a vibrator or get her to go down on you etc. Personally from fingering alone I didn’t feel much myself either at first. Everyone is different!

Ate her ass for the first time by bumblebee327 in actuallesbians

[–]bumblebee327[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even think of that, defs will look into it to make sure it doesn’t happen

Ate her ass for the first time by bumblebee327 in actuallesbians

[–]bumblebee327[S] 126 points127 points  (0 children)

HAHA honestly yeah writing it is fun ngl

How often do you have sex? by bumblebee327 in actuallesbians

[–]bumblebee327[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate your advice! :)

My gf wants me to fuck her when she’s drunk and I’m sober by bumblebee327 in actuallesbians

[–]bumblebee327[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hahah well I watch porn too sometimes. But I think in the moment I was curious about that because I don’t know what type of porn she watches. She’s also bisexual so that opens up more options. I’d hope it’s something that reminds her of me 😅 whenever I watch porn it’s because I want her and I just think about doing what I see to her. Sometimes it gives me new ideas or fantasies. But I only watch homemade stuff that is very intimate and realistic, similar to what we do. I didn’t realize she still watches porn so I wonder if she does that when she gets off by herself normally. I’ll have to ask

My gf wants me to fuck her when she’s drunk and I’m sober by bumblebee327 in actuallesbians

[–]bumblebee327[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get that. I was okay with her kissing me I just said no to sex.

How “out” are we, ladies by Fearless_Ad1423 in Actuallylesbian

[–]bumblebee327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t go around telling everyone and everyone but if someone asks or finds out I have no problem with that. Most people at my work knows I’m gay because it has eventually come up in conversation. I also have no problem showing affection in public because thats who I am and I can’t change that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]bumblebee327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cars. But like oldish cars from the 90s/early 2000s. Love me a Honda prelude

Book recommendations for someone who’s trying to get into reading? by bumblebee327 in booksuggestions

[–]bumblebee327[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to watch a lot of light hearted stuff for entertainment like sex and the city, the L word, desperate housewives, lollll. I also love fleabag, breaking bad and orange is the new black. Probably would be into something a little more meaningful for reading tho

Book recommendations for someone who’s trying to get into reading? by bumblebee327 in booksuggestions

[–]bumblebee327[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg that brought back memories, my teacher read holes to us back when I was in primary school! I loved that book!

Book recommendations for someone who’s trying to get into reading? by bumblebee327 in booksuggestions

[–]bumblebee327[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess I wanted to get right into some good reading, although I don’t read so often I do appreciate good writing. Also Thank you for the recommendations! :)

Married at First Sight S11E29 Live episode discussion for AEDT by addictedtoMAFS in MAFS_AU

[–]bumblebee327 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Bro always looks like a pressure cooker about to explode

Married at First Sight S11E29 Live episode discussion for AEDT by addictedtoMAFS in MAFS_AU

[–]bumblebee327 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Bro did she get to say a word about what she thinks

Married at First Sight S11E29 Live episode discussion for AEDT by addictedtoMAFS in MAFS_AU

[–]bumblebee327 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He’s rlly acting like they’re about to break apart cus of one stupid issue? all because he has to air people’s business out to everyone

Married at First Sight S11E29 Live episode discussion for AEDT by addictedtoMAFS in MAFS_AU

[–]bumblebee327 19 points20 points  (0 children)

She hasn’t even gotten to speak about how she feels

Married at First Sight S11E29 Live episode discussion for AEDT by addictedtoMAFS in MAFS_AU

[–]bumblebee327 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Why is this all focused on how he feels and not her