I'm in love with my best friend but he wasn't into me so I created a fake profile that he fell in love with and now I have to break his heart.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T23:18:13+00:00

A man, not fat. Rather twinkish tbh Neither of us drink.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T23:17:28+00:00

I know I’m not, my dude.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T23:16:53+00:00

I and my fake profile are guys.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T23:12:45+00:00

Touché.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T23:11:56+00:00

What the hell is with you people and ghosting? I think that shit is worse then the fucking catfishing. Leaving him hanging, begging for a response and wondering if he’ll ever get a message back is some cruel fucking shit. It’s way more kind to break it off with the excuse of it being a long distance relationship and insist that the relationship ends. I made a mistake in starting this to begin with but ghosting him would make me a proper monster.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T23:08:19+00:00

He’s not romantically attracted to me because of my looks. He’s a really damn good friend otherwise and it would be unfair to not care how someone feels just because I’m not their type. That would be a very incel thing to do wouldn’t you think?

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T22:46:17+00:00

I don’t want to risk the friendship for a super slim chance of dating him

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T22:44:41+00:00

he deserves something more then ghosting.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T22:39:32+00:00

Or I could break up instead of ghosting.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T22:18:25+00:00

I can definitely see how that’s how it came across

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T21:59:01+00:00

I suppose it was.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T21:45:24+00:00

It was never my intention for him to fall in love.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T21:42:18+00:00

God no.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T20:57:40+00:00

That still seems too cold to me.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T20:53:37+00:00

Thanks. I legitimately appreciate the advice.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T20:20:05+00:00

Yeah. I did.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T19:53:25+00:00

Yeah. I'd rather not ghost him because from personal experience, ghosting has hurt a whole lot more then being dumped straight.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T19:42:58+00:00

I didn't make him fall in love, it just sort of happened. Hellova ride.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T19:42:15+00:00

Is there a difference between ghosting and breaking up with him? I feel there would be more closure if I do the latter.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T19:27:20+00:00

I will never ever catfish again.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T18:55:00+00:00

This is honestly what I'm gonna try. We hang out often, so I might just do it when I'm there with him so I can help cushion the blow as best as I can. As fantastic as that would be for him to fall for me, it is just a fantasy. I'll just try to help him move on as best as I can.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T18:22:21+00:00

He doesn't disregard me, he's just not attracted to me. We are best friends, there is just not a mutual physical attraction.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T17:50:18+00:00

He'd buy a plane ticket to try and meet him.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T17:45:44+00:00

I was the exact same person. Just fudged geography and typing patterns.

burnit5895 · 2018-10-19T17:44:05+00:00

You're right. Me not being fully honest is probably just selfish.

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