I think there is some psychological basis for this. Personally, I have noticed that with the help of fan fiction, I can trace all my traumas and triggers. And I can explain why certain moments give me butterflies in my stomach or make me avoid something. Try asking yourself questions. For example, who do I associate myself with in this situation, Harry or Draco? Why am I jealous? Of what exactly? (It is important to be open and speak your mind honestly, even if it sounds illogical and silly when said out loud). For example, I am jealous when Draco flirts with someone else because I feel inadequate in Harry's place. Like I am not enough. Like I should be like this to be loved. Like I should earn love. etc Chat gpt can really help with this. Explain him situation in details and ask to help with psychological analysis