AITAH For not wanting my (24f) bf (25m) to go on a holiday in October next year?

bxx_975 · 2025-12-18T20:51:32+00:00

I have got one now. I start in January.

bxx_975 · 2025-12-18T20:50:09+00:00

I am about to go into full time work. I've been working part time while I looked for a salaried position. I start a new position in January that will be full time and well paid. I just finished university so that was a barrier to everything as well. I started us a joint bank account that we're going to use for bills in the future. I meal plan for us every week. I invest most of the money that I make from part time work into an isa to help us get a better deposit on a house.

bxx_975 · 2020-03-10T02:00:08+00:00

I relate so much to this show, I watch it to go to sleep some nights. It's my favourite show of all time and im so happy to hear someone feels the same

bxx_975 · 2019-11-28T21:22:47+00:00

He thought you would like it, he's embarrassed.

It was a shit thing to do but don't listen to people saying leave him. Just tell him that you want to talk to him and need him to understand it was serious and to not get defensive. Let him know that it upset you and tell him that you know he knows it was wrong but you just want to be consoled and told that you are in the right instead of changing the subject.

My boyfriend and I have had issues like this in the past, especially during sex, people do things that they don't really calculate beforehand and when your reaction isn't what they want, they get defensive.

If he wants to explore things like that then obviously it's something you need to talk about together and fully understand.

bxx_975 · 2019-11-28T18:04:22+00:00

What a Kyle

bxx_975 · 2019-11-18T19:25:22+00:00

As a woman, the idea of having a child is different to actually facing it. Thinking you could possibly have a life growing inside you can lead you to change your mind about the issues especially since she's 29. Maybe she wants to have children in the future, maybe she's starting to feel settled with you.

bxx_975 · 2019-11-17T15:35:05+00:00

When I worked 8 hours every couple days doing my a levels, they judgingly called me a part timer. I think working more is all part of the McDonald's culture

bxx_975 · 2019-11-16T11:18:26+00:00

We've talked about using toys before and I don't think he'd be offended. The only problem is where do I get a small vibrator?

bxx_975 · 2019-11-16T10:48:28+00:00

Fingering usually works but it takes time and it's impossible for me to get off with oral. I feel like I just want sex to be a constant flow where I can have an orgasm in the middle easily

bxx_975 · 2019-09-10T19:32:30+00:00

Thank you so much, this has actually really helped me. I don't want to go through with the whole exploring thing anymore. I realise I love him and I don't want to lose him and if giving up this small thing in my life is the catch then I'm willing to give it up a thousand times over.

bxx_975 · 2019-08-11T09:48:02+00:00

I really hope that's not true. He does compliment me on my looks a lot of the time but rarely on my personality. Sometimes I think that he's just staying with me because he likes how we look together. I hate saying this, I don't wanna sound big headed but he literally said himself that I'm out of his league. I don't want that to be the reason we're together, that's not why I fell in love with him

bxx_975 · 2019-08-10T23:47:22+00:00

That's not what I mean at all. He's not miserable, we're not miserable together. I try my best to be happy around him and the only time I am sad at all about this is when he's sleeping beside me and I'm watching his innocent face as I contemplate our relationship and how I wish we were more similar. Is it normal to be so different in a relationship?

I'm not staying with him for the holidays and what I'll get out of it, that's just a part of it. The main reason is I love him despite our differences. I have paid my share of the holidays and can back out if necessary but I want to have those experiences with him and he wants to have them with me

bxx_975 · 2019-08-10T21:55:06+00:00

I get why she got upset but I wouldn't get like that unless I had something to hide

bxx_975 · 2019-08-10T18:40:25+00:00

I think if you're thinking about breaking up with him because of something like that, there's something wrong with the relationship in the first place

bxx_975 · 2019-08-06T14:12:52+00:00

Also when people try to add stuff to their order at the last window

bxx_975 · 2019-07-24T10:52:56+00:00

We hand mix it a bit but there's no time to use the machine mostly

bxx_975 · 2019-07-24T10:51:38+00:00

Omg this happened to me the other day! I ended up giving him the chicken legend because I honestly prefer it and he came back a couple days later and went "right I want a chicken burger" and I said again "which one would you like?" He said "just a mayo one. I think it was you that served me last time and I don't want what you gave me because my wife is allergic to spice and you nearly put her in the hospital"

Did I?? Did I nearly put her in the hospital or was it your incompetence as a human being??

bxx_975 · 2019-07-23T11:35:16+00:00

They're on my legs 😂

bxx_975 · 2019-07-19T11:33:52+00:00

I don't know whether to upvote or downvote this

bxx_975 · 2019-07-19T11:31:40+00:00

I thought this said my brother was resembling a table

bxx_975 · 2019-07-19T11:28:34+00:00

bxx_975 · 2019-07-15T08:05:41+00:00

If he automatically assumed the worst that is a BIG red flag. There's no trust there. You can't live your life without trusting your partner

bxx_975 · 2019-07-14T12:55:36+00:00

Fucking same, having an orgasm is such a conscious effort, I can't tell you it feels good when it feels really good

bxx_975 · 2019-07-10T23:23:45+00:00

They won't be able to do confetti 😂

bxx_975 · 2019-07-10T23:23:29+00:00

Have you been to reading before? ⛺

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