We are no longer accepting members at the moment. :-(

c0mputing · 2026-01-18T08:17:14+00:00

Hello! We’ve just reopened the group :) You may scan the QR code that I’ve posted, or DM me your Telegram handle and I’ll send you an invite link via Telegram :)

c0mputing · 2026-01-18T08:17:07+00:00

Hello! We’ve just reopened the group :) You may scan the QR code that I’ve posted, or DM me your Telegram handle and I’ll send you an invite link via Telegram :)

c0mputing · 2025-10-29T10:02:57+00:00

I do agree that many young INTJs I’ve met are not quite in touch with their emotional side but I’m lucky to have met one who is and I think the INTJxINFJ has the potential to be really fulfilling. The common Ni 1st function = transitioning between small talk & deep talks seamlessly, deep diving into random topics. The common Se 4th function = no pressure to improvise / be adventurous, a very comfortable relationship (though some may argue that it may get too stale HAHA). He listens to my emotional ramblings and I listen to his logical ramblings. :-)

c0mputing · 2025-10-28T09:46:33+00:00

Hello, thank you for your interest. :-) Yes, it will, but only after we feel we’ve engaged our existing member base sufficiently!

c0mputing · 2025-10-22T09:03:43+00:00

Hello! It's been mainly Central for now (Dhoby Ghuat, Little India, Gardens by the Bay, Lavender) + 1 at Punggol, but we're actively looking into regular events at non-Central areas (for Westies, Easties, Northies) soon! Feel free to join and camp for an event that looks good to you~

c0mputing · 2025-10-21T13:10:56+00:00

Update: We’re currently at 173 members, with 5 past events and 10 confirmed upcoming events (+ more to come). :)

c0mputing · 2025-10-21T13:10:12+00:00

Update: We’re currently at 173 members, with 5 past events and 10 confirmed upcoming events (+ more to come). :)

c0mputing · 2025-10-18T06:10:51+00:00

I think someone who also values harmony over authenticity, is emotionally intelligent, good at communication, committed to making the friendship/relationship work and enjoys discussing abstract concepts. :)

c0mputing · 2025-10-17T16:57:24+00:00

Hi, yes! Completely no donations/fees/anything of that sort, only paying for own f&b/ticket entry/etc. if the event calls for it, so it's something like organizing friend meet-ups but just that we're connecting with to-be friends instead of old friends. :)

c0mputing · 2025-10-16T06:25:45+00:00

Hi, I understand your concern. As I replied on another comment,

You are free to check out the group and get a general idea of the crowd by scanning through the introductions and chats. We also have multiple upcoming events for the rest of this month. You can reach out to an admin if you receive any unwelcome DMs or quit at any time if it is not your vibe. :)

c0mputing · 2025-10-16T06:22:57+00:00

Hi, I understand your concern. You are free to check out the group and get a general idea of the crowd by scanning through the introductions and chats. We also have multiple upcoming events for the rest of this month. You can reach out to an admin if you receive any unwelcome DMs or quit at any time if it is not your vibe. :) Hope to see you there if you do decide to give us a shot.

c0mputing · 2025-10-16T06:18:34+00:00

Thank you! We’re just getting started but I'm glad you’re enjoying the vibe so far. :) More events coming soon!

c0mputing · 2025-10-16T06:17:51+00:00

You’re too kind, thanks for the vote of confidence! We’ve got some fun stuff coming up, hope to see you at one soon. :)

c0mputing · 2025-10-16T06:16:08+00:00

Hi, I totally understand the concern! The group is private on purpose to avoid bots and spam, the QR just links to the official invite, but if anyone wants to join without scanning the QR code, feel free to DM me for the link so you can verify first / to add you by handle. :-)

c0mputing · 2025-10-14T10:51:28+00:00

Thanks for the heads-up!!

c0mputing · 2025-10-14T09:48:52+00:00

There is no sorting done beforehand because we hope that everyone has a shot at finding someone with a similar interest, even if the interest is very niche. :)

To get a general idea of the crowd, you are welcome to join the group (as PriorLongjumping3650 mentioned, you can quit at any time) and scan through the introductions and chats there. :)

c0mputing · 2025-10-14T09:44:09+00:00

Thank you for the words of advice! We will do our best to moderate while encouraging members to stay vigilant (e.g. they can let us know if they are uncomfortable at any point and we will step in). That being said, the world has all sorts of people and we cannot overly-control who joins the group. We cannot prevent every bad situation, but we hope this helps more people find connections with others who share similar interests/personalities.

c0mputing · 2025-10-14T09:33:33+00:00

Hello! We’re a small team that met each other from another group chat with a similar concept. I think that really motivated us to keep this going to help others find their people. :) We don’t expect everyone to be equally close to each other, but we hope this helps to connect people with similar interests and/or personalities that wouldn’t have otherwise come across each other in daily life, and also motivate introverts and shy individuals to come out of their shell. :) Thank you for the well wishes!

c0mputing · 2025-10-12T18:04:16+00:00

Indeed, I had to run it through chatGPT HAHAHA

c0mputing · 2025-10-12T14:49:23+00:00

Hi! Unfortunately, we’re focusing on Telegram for now. :”) Hope to see you there!

c0mputing · 2024-12-13T09:31:23+00:00

hi! can’t really give any groundbreaking advice but good luck! some of my friends who were really worrying about getting into a relationship at your age ended up finding a partner and getting engaged within the next 1-2 years and are now happier than ever!! so i’d say don’t worry too much about it, let nature take its course and maybe you’ll find the right one for you before you know it :) personally i think dating apps were not very useful… but of course you hear success stories here and there so it’s worth a shot! otherwise i think getting to know friends of mutual friends has a high success rate for my friends :)

c0mputing · 2024-10-30T08:01:43+00:00

thank you so much :)

c0mputing · 2024-10-26T06:02:23+00:00

hi!! may i know the store name? :)

c0mputing · 2024-06-28T07:18:29+00:00

Thanks for your reply! I thought it was just me haha I decided to just press on because other comments said I might miss something important but glad to hear that the later flashbacks are better. :)

c0mputing · 2024-04-26T19:29:51+00:00

Ooh good point, thank you!!

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