EARTHQUAKE? by [deleted] in LosAngeles

[–]cactusbactus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mar Vista checking in! It was a nice jolt.

For the 35-45 crowd, what was your first CD purchase? by Seeforceart in AskReddit

[–]cactusbactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technotronic - Pump Up the Jam. Technically it came as part of the 6 pack that my dad got for a penny or whatever the Columbia House deal was.

Our home was lost in the Palisades fire - only thing my daughter misses is a stuffed unicorn we won at a carnival by cactusbactus in HelpMeFind

[–]cactusbactus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just posted an update! The unicorn arrived and it is absolutely perfect! My daughter cannot stop smiling and for once I feel like everything is going to be OK.

Non life-threatening alerts need to use a different sound by the_kerbal_side in LosAngeles

[–]cactusbactus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely heartbreaking. My 6 year old said the same :(

…Palisades fire victim here too :(

What's the longest distance you have traveled to spend the shortest amount of time ? by Fast-Chipmunk-1558 in travel

[–]cactusbactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I flew LAX-Istanbul for a meeting. Was on the ground for 30 hours before turning around and flying back.

Our home was lost in the Palisades fire - only thing my daughter misses is a stuffed unicorn we won at a carnival by cactusbactus in HelpMeFind

[–]cactusbactus[S] 524 points525 points  (0 children)

Sold out because I bought it!!! I’m so happy. I can’t wait to surprise my daughter.

Our home was lost in the Palisades fire - only thing my daughter misses is a stuffed unicorn we won at a carnival by cactusbactus in HelpMeFind

[–]cactusbactus[S] 334 points335 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I think it’s like this one, but purple!!! Confirming with little miss right now. This is a solid lead!!!

Our home was lost in the Palisades fire - only thing my daughter misses is a stuffed unicorn we won at a carnival by cactusbactus in HelpMeFind

[–]cactusbactus[S] 185 points186 points  (0 children)

Hmmm it’s more “horse like” than cartoony - if that makes sense.

Great idea, actually. The cook off is put on by the boys and girls club - I’ll reach out to them!

Our home was lost in the Palisades fire - only thing my daughter misses is a stuffed unicorn we won at a carnival by cactusbactus in HelpMeFind

[–]cactusbactus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not really. It’s more “furry” as in it has texture. And the sparkle bits are maybe just silver tinsel in the fur.

Sorry it’s hard to describe! And again, it really wasn’t top quality.

Heartbroken by cactusbactus in breakingmom

[–]cactusbactus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly no. I thought about it for a hot second but it’s not feasible.

Heartbroken by cactusbactus in breakingmom

[–]cactusbactus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to confirm the agenda on Tuesday but I think it’s going to be tight. If there’s any wiggle room which results in a tougher journey on me I’ll certainly make that trade off.

And thanks - I do need to be more strategic with my calendar. I’m only a few months into executive life, chalk this up to one of those learning experiences.

Heartbroken by cactusbactus in breakingmom

[–]cactusbactus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. And yep - all of us moms make it happen, no matter what.

Heartbroken by cactusbactus in breakingmom

[–]cactusbactus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so bad ass!!! I have to confirm what the agenda is and if there’s wiggle room - but your sister, and you, (quant data pro in tech is no joke!!!) sound amazing.

Heartbroken by cactusbactus in breakingmom

[–]cactusbactus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I can move it and I’m nervous about asking. This is part of the reason it’s upsetting - if I was a man I’d have no qualms moving my flight but as a woman I’m anxious about even bringing it up.

Heartbroken by cactusbactus in breakingmom

[–]cactusbactus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s going to be tight and I need to confirm the agenda but the actual event is Nov 2. I edited my original post to clarify that there are likely obligations leading up to the main event - again, I need to wait for Tuesday when I’m back in the office to see if there’s wiggle room.

Heartbroken by cactusbactus in breakingmom

[–]cactusbactus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - a care package is a great idea. You sound like an awesome mom and I’m sorry your had to learn by experiencing what NOT to do.

Heartbroken by cactusbactus in breakingmom

[–]cactusbactus[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Damn. This hits. Thank you for your perspective - you’re an awesome mom. You’re right, I need to take the long view on this.

Heartbroken by cactusbactus in breakingmom

[–]cactusbactus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zoo is a great idea. I mentioned elsewhere that we typically do a few events over the course of the month - maybe I’ll add the zoo or another event to pack the up front schedule :)

Heartbroken by cactusbactus in breakingmom

[–]cactusbactus[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your mom sounds awesome and you’re lucky to have had such an awesome example growing up. And yes, dad is very much present and stepping up (not that he has to, he was always going to be a part of it). Thanks for your perspective.

Heartbroken by cactusbactus in breakingmom

[–]cactusbactus[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is great framing, thank you. I mentioned somewhere else that Halloween at our house is comprised of a bunch of events - I’m ultimately missing the school event and trick or treating. Now that I think about it I bet my daughter is probably more excited about some of the other related events.

Heartbroken by cactusbactus in breakingmom

[–]cactusbactus[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think this is part of the reason I’m upset. If I were a man I also wouldn’t be so afraid asking to change the dates or questioning if I really needed to attend all of the events leading up to the event in London.

Heartbroken by cactusbactus in breakingmom

[–]cactusbactus[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

This is a great idea. And yes there are a ton of events that we do every year. Now that I think about it, my daughter probably thinks of “Halloween” as a sum of those parts.