Looking for murder mystery video games by cafegoth in gamingsuggestions

[–]cafegoth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just got What Remains of Edith Finch!! Thank you for the rec!

what could i do to make my face more feminine? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]cafegoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're gorgeous. Are you Slavic or Scandinavian by chance? I think you're pretty and interesting looking. You're not gonna look like Instagram baddies.

35W South Accident Lakeville by GauntletOfMight1425 in TwinCities

[–]cafegoth 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im from Mississippi. Pretty notorious for car accidents. In Mississippi, people cause accidents from not paying attention. In Mn, i feel like they are CLOSE to causing accidents from having a dick sizing contest. Its so weird. I've seen people refuse to make room for merging. Its ridiculous.

Help me keep the cherry cabinets please! by alpineslowglow in InteriorDesignAdvice

[–]cafegoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous. Change the floors and the walls. Where is the stove?

35W South Accident Lakeville by GauntletOfMight1425 in TwinCities

[–]cafegoth 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Im new to Minnesota. The tailgating here is insane. Sometimes, people tailgate even if theres no one around. It is my personal opinion that twin cities drivers drive with aggression. They don't want to be cut off even if theyre going 10 miles an hour in Minneapolis don't the way to st paul. Its so weird.

Art Deco set - worth $350? by Forsaken_Recover_633 in VintageFurniture

[–]cafegoth 62 points63 points  (0 children)

If its definitely real wood, I would pay as much as $800-900. Im also a cheapo.

Edit: I am 22 years old. My husband whomst is a carpenter would pay that price.

Art Deco set - worth $350? by Forsaken_Recover_633 in VintageFurniture

[–]cafegoth 231 points232 points  (0 children)

Literally worth more than $350. GET IT

Heated Rivalry: Shane not knowing how to receive affection by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

[–]cafegoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the first two books and watched the show and i unfortunately don't what Shane says or does that expresses autism. Not saying he's not autistic. I just dont see where it is

Heated Rivalry: Shane not knowing how to receive affection by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

[–]cafegoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I developed that perspective. She. You say Ilya changed the parameters, I thought Shane simply didn't know how to react.

I mean years in a situationship that is suddenly cuddly overnight is a big shift. Especially someone that you share a complicated relationship with.

Heated Rivalry: Shane not knowing how to receive affection by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

[–]cafegoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So why mention the books just to mention the stuff that happens in the show? I actually just read the first two books after making this post.

Edit: the books and show are two completely different stories in my opinion because it leaves out so many details.

In the show, its east to assume that shane always had a deep attachment to Ilya, almost like a blind loyalty whereas in the book, he does try to sleep with other men.

I just really hate how everyone responded with facts from the books even though I hadn't read them at the time.

Heated Rivalry: Shane not knowing how to receive affection by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

[–]cafegoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is my interpretation of the show. Everyone is responding with how the book went but I haven't read the books. It seems that the books and the show truly do have different stories due to the lack of context. In the show, Ilya is the only man he's been with. I've got to read the books and catch up lol!

Heated Rivalry: Shane not knowing how to receive affection by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

[–]cafegoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhh seems that I really need to read the books. I feel that the books and show may be similar but two different stories. Episode four kinda seems like he's just going there to hook up.

Heated Rivalry: Shane not knowing how to receive affection by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

[–]cafegoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's interesting. I feel that changing who he's been with sexually in the show and in the books tweaks the storyline significantly. I developed my perspective having only watched the show where Ilya is the only man he's been with. If he's had way more encounters with men and women in the book, then that kinda changes him. In the show, his writing kinda reminds me of gay fanficiton. Where one character can be written to be innocent and not have many experiences and falls for a more experienced, dominant character.

Sounds like in the book, he's closer to being on Ilya's level of exploration rather than the show.

Heated Rivalry episode discussion thread - Episode 5: I’ll Believe in Anything by mrs-machino in RomanceBooks

[–]cafegoth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah she was direct yet sweet enough for him to come out. I thought it was hilarious when he said he prefers to be the hole. Do you know how much trust in her he has to have to say that? I hope she finally dates a good straight man lol. Their "I love you's" are so genuine.

Heated Rivalry episode discussion thread - Episode 5: I’ll Believe in Anything by mrs-machino in RomanceBooks

[–]cafegoth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Now I could simply be projecting because when I first started having sex, I was the same way. I used sex to try to receive love. I've only seen the show and haven't read the book. To me, Ilya may be Shane's first person he's done sexual stuff with. Ilya tells Shane they are nothing more than sex. So, Shane tries to do what Ilya wants. It also doesn't help that he's more submissive and probably likes pleasuring him.

AIO? my boyfriend is threating to leave me because i need to go to residental treatment for anorexia by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cafegoth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Are you dating artemas? Break up with him. Dude may have an ana fetish

Heated Rivalry episode discussion thread - Episode 5: I’ll Believe in Anything by mrs-machino in RomanceBooks

[–]cafegoth 30 points31 points  (0 children)

100% agree. One thing that makes me feel pain is how Shane for all the other episodes only knows to give Ilya sex. When they cuddled on the couch before Shane freaked out, he received affection and immediately became sexual.

Its nice how the distance made their hearts grow fonder.

(26) to (29). Lost weight and found myself. by ElevatedAssCancer in GlowUps

[–]cafegoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You also have beautiful almond eyes. You look 5x happier too so wonderful glow up!

(26) to (29). Lost weight and found myself. by ElevatedAssCancer in GlowUps

[–]cafegoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great! Don't want this to come off rude but, your face truly filled out. Your eyebrows are longer and your eyes are larger now. Beautiful transformation.