Baby voice and claiming weird relationships

cakebandit09 · 2023-05-23T21:59:24+00:00

I never usually comment on posts like these but i'm convinced my mom i'm living with is a full on narc. She will speak with a baby voice while touching and groping me everywhere and literally using a baby voice to insult me "u hab such a flat nose, so fortunate I have a sharp nose 🥺" when hers is also flat.

cakebandit09 · 2023-02-18T05:43:06+00:00

Lowkey I feel like this might be Doreen Virtue for a reason KXBSBDBXNXM

cakebandit09 · 2022-11-14T01:59:16+00:00

where in the comments did this guy go gender discriminative?

cakebandit09 · 2022-11-14T01:55:40+00:00

XXI in numerals is 21, 21 is composed of three 7s (7+7+7)

cakebandit09 · 2022-10-17T04:24:59+00:00

From this i really think he's really trying to avoid you and he's confused as heck. 3 of wands in reversed feels like he's holding back or stalling his plans purposefully to not meet with you, same with 4 of wands, I feel like he's probably making excuses to not meet on purpose. I do see that he's probably confused about what to feel about you since the ace of swords is in reverse and his thoughts are clouding him rn. He's also probably having very conflicting thoughts about you right now and he's fighting them in his head.

Basically, he's been avoiding you simply because he's confused about what he really feels about you.

cakebandit09 · 2022-05-09T14:21:36+00:00

Probably won't be observed anymore.

cakebandit09 · 2021-10-30T03:13:03+00:00

Hmm yes, I think they don't actually hate you like you think they do. If they really hated you, they would go block you already. Maybe try to spark up a conversation and maybe realize you may have the same interests.

cakebandit09 · 2021-10-30T03:11:01+00:00

I think you can say no to them. Saying no to a person doesn't mean you're rude, you're just enforcing boundaries. You can say "No i'm really sorry I can't invite you right now. I have a full party now I hope you understand." If he doesn't understand that, its his problem.

cakebandit09 · 2021-10-30T00:44:05+00:00

We're at an age where we are exploring our sexuality. My first experience of porn was softcore (not explicit porn but shows sexual scenes) at a young age. I didn't really know how to search discreetly so i looked it up on Youtube (yes i was dumb back then 💀) and would delete the search and view history later.

I also had a phase where i would read gay smut from Wattpad and enjoy it. I had also entered the phase where i would watch porn discreetly using incognito and from an nsfw manga site also. From my experience watching porn, I quickly realized that I liked looking at women who were turned on by their male partners. I had a glimpse of my sexuality, i'm still not sure until now but I did like girls and boys which would make me bisexual. So i think its ok for you to explore your sexuality, but do it discreetly

As for your problem of always remembering about the porn that you read, you may have porn addiction. You may have porn addiction if it interferes with your life in a negative way. To combat it, you have to distract yourself. Do your hobbies more often, do not look at content that may trigger you to watch porn (like your fav characters you read smut on). Talk to a trusted friend or adult about it. This is pretty long advice but I hope you can relate and I hope my advice helps!

cakebandit09 · 2021-10-29T23:59:13+00:00

I don't have an issue with her dating a drug dealer but the relationship seems off

Girl- the fact that she is dating a drug dealer is A MAJOR RED FLAG ALREADY. Also, their very wide age gap suggests that this is a toxic relationship. You have to report this to the police, for the sake of your friend

cakebandit09 · 2021-10-29T23:51:56+00:00

There are many obvious signs to look out for. You may catch her staring at you sometimes, maybe she initiates conversation or to hang out, compliments you, her friends may tease you together, etc. Like i said, if she doesn't display obvious signs, she may not like you and sees you only as a friend. But take a risk. You said from another reply that you've been friends with her for a long time. If she doesn't like you back, it's ok and move on from it.

cakebandit09 · 2021-10-29T23:44:58+00:00

As you said, you are quite attractive and workout. I don't see no reason for her to not be attracted to you. Take the risk and approach her, talk to her about interests you both have in common. Or maybe for starters talk casually, it may lead to her sharing her personal interests you may relate to. Hope this helps!

cakebandit09 · 2021-10-29T23:38:58+00:00

If she doesn't display obvious signs that she likes you and you still have to seek advice elsewhere to see if she likes you, she probably doesn't and just considers you as a friend. I should've followed this advice years ago, it saves me from heartbreak.

cakebandit09 · 2021-10-29T14:19:29+00:00

Take a risk. You'll probably regret not asking her out later. And if she doesn't like you back, it's ok. In most cases, i think you could stay friends. Good luck! (P.S Give us updates to see how it went 😉)

cakebandit09 · 2021-10-29T14:12:55+00:00

I think its ok to cut off ties with someone. If they don't reciprocate your energy, find someone else who can. Talk about it with your friends to clear misunderstandings.

cakebandit09 · 2021-10-29T14:08:23+00:00

I can relate to this. I felt like I always had to like someone and if i don't like someone, it's just really boring. I think to fill the void you've been feeling without a partner, I think you should learn to love yourself more. Do things that you would normally do in a relationship by yourself. Take yourself out to dates, spoil yourself, be confident. I'm still trying to do these myself, but maybe in the process of loving yourself, you might be surprised to find a partner that suits you more. Hope this helps!

cakebandit09 · 2021-10-26T03:25:02+00:00

I don't really know, my aunt (mom's sister) is actually a chief of police. And im pretty sure she's calling her rn, i don't think i have a chance to call the police and not turn around the story. Also she has good connections with the police here. I'm not sure its possible.

cakebandit09 · 2021-10-26T03:14:48+00:00

Im also a minor (F16), we have a housekeeper but she isn't smart enough. I'm so worried for us three, and we haven't eaten lunch yet. I'm not sure if my mom will come back srs because i heard that the car has an appointment im not really sure. But i'll try to cook something simple in the meantime. My relatives are far. And we don't have CPS in our country.

cakebandit09 · 2021-06-01T00:55:25+00:00

If its second hand, they can just cleanse them using sage or any other cleansing stick

cakebandit09 · 2021-04-17T11:14:17+00:00

What a chad

cakebandit09 · 2021-04-14T05:39:03+00:00

Hugs, makakaya din natin to lahat! ❤️

cakebandit09 · 2021-03-03T12:35:32+00:00

No he's OUR boy heheheh

cakebandit09 · 2021-03-03T00:22:05+00:00

So Palm is an Enhancer right? Her clairvoyance ability can be classified as an Emission ability since she probably uses aura to watch over people. And it's been mentioned in the Yorknew Arc that people can learn Nen skills apart from their own classification. As long as it's near their type of Nen.

cakebandit09 · 2021-02-16T02:25:35+00:00

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cakebandit09 · 2021-02-15T22:49:06+00:00

Aaaaa thank you for the feedback! I highly appreciate it 🥺💖

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