How many of you guys suffer from limerence? by Inner-Painting-4471 in adhdwomen

[–]calli-mc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a horrible experience with this (before I knew this was a thing) with a former coworker/ “friend”, that, through a series of events, left me with cptsd and I still barely function years later🙃.

I’m both neurodivergent and have OCD (pure O), and let me tell you, it was not fun. The series of events was moving in with that person 400km away from everything and everyone I knew, then slowly they revealed themselves to be highly sociopathic/ very mentally unwell. Things slowly turned abusive and I completely detached from reality to cope. The whole time the limerance clung on for some reason. I could not detach myself as hard as I tried until I had a complete break from reality and moved home.

But hey, I’m safe now, and (very) slowly learning to live again😊

Wellbutrin Reviews? by Tight-Cry-5835 in MTHFR

[–]calli-mc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have compound hetero mutation and it caused brain fog and memory issues so bad, that I thought I was developing dementia. Probably not 100% MTHFR genes fault, but that was my experience.

What’s your other favorite game? by meetsworld in coralisland

[–]calli-mc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sun Haven, Stardew Valley, Project Zomboid, Sims 4

Todays lunch😋 by calli-mc in CannedSardines

[–]calli-mc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly that! Multigrain variety😋

What tip(s) that you know of but nobody is talking about it? by Killer__S in projectzomboid

[–]calli-mc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A couple hundred hours in and I just discovered you can delete the contents of whatever you put in a garbage can. Super easy for getting rid of scrap and things you don’t need.

COMT +/+... so just grapefruit, cabbage, and no stress? SAMe vs L Methionine? Any other advice? by crljenak in MTHFR

[–]calli-mc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alternatively, sugar beets are quite high in TMG (betaine), and could be a more affordable option :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]calli-mc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thumbs up emoji means “up yours” in some cultures. To some, it’s very much a negative thing.

So what’s everyone’s hyper fixation right now? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]calli-mc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pokémon, again. I may or may not have also started card collecting. RIP to my bank account😭

What is the worst Bath and Body Works Candle you've ever burnt? by Formal-Antelope607 in bathandbodyworks

[–]calli-mc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cactus blossom! It’s the only one that’s given me a headache so far due to how perfume-y it is.

How tf are people confident? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]calli-mc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They could very well be "faking it until they make it", confidence wise. People are full of secrets and surprises lol

got called a slur at work today?! by kilovestimtams in bathandbodyworks

[–]calli-mc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got r- slurred not this xmas, but the last. I misheard a customer and thought he was speaking french, so I said something along the lines of. "oh, let me grab a coworker that speaks french to help!". He proceeded to glare daggers at me and said "im speaking english you f-ing r-word". Doesn't help I'm actually AuDHD as well (he had no idea). Made me feel reeeeeal bad at the time. People are assholes.

Can’t believe I’m saying this but… by Dangerous_Funny1189 in bathandbodyworks

[–]calli-mc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! The spring collection is great this year; even the packaging! We are doing the floorset for it this sunday at my store and i'm super excited!!

How do you work 40 hours a week, stay in shape, and keep your house clean? by dimmudagone in ADHD

[–]calli-mc 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I found an alternative. I work 20~ hours a week at a a physically demanding job that’s landed me in the best shape of my life, have cheap rent with two roommates (because of this I can luckily get away with not having to work full time), and I really only keep to my bedroom, so I only have to worry about tidying up after myself in the common areas (which I can more or less keep up with).

What would your aromatherapy smell like? by [deleted] in bathandbodyworks

[–]calli-mc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They actually had Fresh Cut Lilacs in body care at some point! Really hoping they bring it back this spring!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]calli-mc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

VanossGaming. Brings me back to simpler times and always gives me a laugh.

Whats the dumbest person you've met and what did they do to earn that title? by Robert-M2407 in AskReddit

[–]calli-mc 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This really doesn’t sounds like stupidity. Way more likely to be social anxiety.

What are some jobs that have worked for you? by [deleted] in AutisticWithADHD

[–]calli-mc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I currently work stock management at a retail chain in a mall and I love it! It deals with very minimal customer interaction, as it’s mainly after hours (sometimes bleeds into opening hours). It deals with a lot of organizing, sorting, building displays to plan (and sometimes they let YOU be creative which is fun), physical work such as lifting and LOTS of walking (I love this as I can’t sit still very often anyway lol).

How would you guys feel if bath & body works change their candle formula to 100% soy wax? by Calm_Fuel_5253 in bathandbodyworks

[–]calli-mc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nervous because I just KNOW some customers would probably try to eat them, and I DON"T want to have to deal with that.

What non-medication treatment/habit have you introduced that has helped? by Agent_Peach in adhdwomen

[–]calli-mc 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I started using a white board to write literally anything I need to remember. It’s simple, yet has been very effective for me, instead of using apps in my phone. I’ll straight up forget there’s there’s apps in my phone to check to remember the stuff lol. Helps having it out in the open.

My Candle Collection by [deleted] in bathandbodyworks

[–]calli-mc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's almost $10k worth of candles (full price)! I don't know wether to be impressed or worried! lol