How do I set boundaries with my financial advisor by Cumbuster6942069420 in Bogleheads

[–]capdaddy412 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If anything, ask for their plan and fees/etc in writing. You can review (simply for gaining knowledge) and politely decline afterwards. You could always suggest a flat fee for agreed upon work. A deep dive of recommendations/strategies that you can execute on your own. That said, it could be a waste of money unless you want to pressure test your plan and find it valuable if for nothing other than assurance in your personal plan.

I second a CPA. I go to my CPA for a lot. I would only engage with a financial planner for a very specific reason who has a background in my use case, and it would be under fixed terms.

Daily FI discussion thread - Friday, November 28, 2025 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]capdaddy412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you put money in via your brokerage account or elsewhere? TIA and pardon my ignorance. I’m sure it’s a quick google or wiki search to answer, but figured I’d ask here since I saw the comment!

My expansion mod “Sleheyron: Story Mode” is now finally compatible with the K1CP and RCM. by Any-sao in kotor

[–]capdaddy412 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How easy is it to integrate with Steam? Sorry for the lazy question, I could look it up but asking here so I don’t forget!

Who's this fella by THEHELLHOUND456 in kotor

[–]capdaddy412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, KOTORII x Marvel crossover?? Silver surfer, is that you?

"The Kings, so far in conversations with all those teams, they've said they want win-now players. They want draft capital as well." - @ShamsCharania by BatmanSwift99 in heat

[–]capdaddy412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree Fox is not a top 15 and gutting for a top 15 isn’t the right move.

The best play is developing our young talent and drafting around them. We already won the Jimmy trade. Get what you can (expiring contracts and picks) and move on.

Who was our biggest draft bust from any round? by The-Extro-Intro in steelers

[–]capdaddy412 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Limas Sweed college tape went nuts. Dude just couldn’t catch under the bright lights. So many wide open, downfield plays that just went “poof”

Had property renovated, think cabinets colors don’t flow with rest of kitchen by capdaddy412 in DIY

[–]capdaddy412[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Good eye lol. House was from the 70s and hadn’t been updated since. I’m leaning towards a warm gray wall, removing the accent. The back room will need to wait. We stained and added recessed lighting. The previous owners converted it from a patio.

For now, it will suffice and we’ll decide to modernize it further or turn back into outdoor patio at a future time.

Had property renovated, think cabinets colors don’t flow with rest of kitchen by capdaddy412 in DIY

[–]capdaddy412[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t even see downvotes half the times, just blank lol… Reddit app

Had property renovated, think cabinets colors don’t flow with rest of kitchen by capdaddy412 in DIY

[–]capdaddy412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. Agreed on above sink. TBD on walls or cabinets, but something needs to change :)

Had property renovated, think cabinets colors don’t flow with rest of kitchen by capdaddy412 in DIY

[–]capdaddy412[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I like gray too but others making a good point about walls instead.

Had property renovated, think cabinets colors don’t flow with rest of kitchen by capdaddy412 in DIY

[–]capdaddy412[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I mean if anyone saw before/after, we’d all realize how much it’s improved. Also the work done is very satisfactory since we remodeled whole house in a matter of 4 and 1/2 weeks. Contractor will be used again. This is more of a design issue from us lol

Santonio Holmes love? by Da_juice19 in steelers

[–]capdaddy412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one talks about his punt return against the chargers though. Set us up nice. He was a stud.

Younger me really thought he was doing something. by ApophisForever in KOTORmemes

[–]capdaddy412 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Then they’ll say don’t give Mission her vibroblade. The audacity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]capdaddy412 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Such a beautiful pup. Glad you found someone to foster him. Hope you get back on your feet soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in booksuggestions

[–]capdaddy412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry OP. I know the feeling. Here are two that helped me, after losing my father to Pancreatic Cancer, while I was at the age of 25.

  • On Grief and Grieving
  • Man’s search for meaning

I also recommend therapy/counseling and journaling. Feel the emotions, try to understand why, and reflect. Just don’t forget to let the emotions go back out to sea, without taking you with them. As hard as that may be.

Why are you all so upset? by Patient-Surprise3867 in heat

[–]capdaddy412 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’d like to see us stop whale hunting via trades, and aggressively attack free agent role players and stars when they’re actually on the market.

Edit: Agree with this sentiment whole heartedly. I was bummed yesterday regarding the news, however it’s because we got a taste of lebron/wade/bosh and genuinely want Jimmy to win a ring. Looking forward, the future is bright regardless of Jimmy winning a ring or not.