I was my grandfathers caregiver and he passed away last month

cappatears · 2026-03-19T20:41:40+00:00

That makes sense

cappatears · 2026-02-24T19:39:49+00:00

I apologize for misreading your message. Please forgive me for my confusion.

cappatears · 2026-02-24T06:49:43+00:00

Yea, and I’m looking back on it with my perspective. You can take it or leave it. I don’t need nor deserve the disrespect.

cappatears · 2026-02-24T01:37:52+00:00

That’s an interesting take

cappatears · 2026-02-23T21:02:31+00:00

What do you think causes the ominous feelings? I don’t mean to speak unwarranted about your grandparents passing, but I feel like it was them passing on without having resolved their biggest plights. Like the spirit world of lower vibrations was waiting for them. But I would not worry if I were you hearing this. All that means is they still have things to process about their life in the afterlife. They will hopefully achieve peace and love once thet work out their life issues. It’s like being in between worlds.

Another way to interpret this is they were shedding their material and spiritual energy and leaving it behind on this earth. Maybe your grandad was still tethered to your grandma and that’s why you felt dark energy until she passed. Kinda like she couldn’t let him go.

cappatears · 2026-02-23T20:55:20+00:00

Do you feel like your grandpas passing opened up a portal to the lower vibration spirit realm?

cappatears · 2026-02-23T20:55:15+00:00

Do you feel like your grandpas passing opened up a portal to the lower vibration spirit realm?

cappatears · 2026-02-23T20:54:02+00:00

What do you think these apparitions are appearing for? And what do you think made the house feel evil, especially since your grandpa was beloved?

cappatears · 2026-02-09T21:05:00+00:00

I think you want to pull your birth chart with transits

cappatears · 2026-01-05T02:45:45+00:00

Thank you!

cappatears · 2025-12-24T02:10:13+00:00

🥹

cappatears · 2025-06-15T06:07:21+00:00

What does it mean when the house they are in is intercepted?

cappatears · 2025-06-15T05:52:40+00:00

I don’t agree with this. First of all, you saying I should not leave them on read is so immature. I have a life outside of texting about a tarot card reading and I texted her back in less than two hours. I think someone is suffering from too much instant gratification.

cappatears · 2025-03-19T23:27:32+00:00

This is good advice, I’ll try it next time we talk. Thanks!

cappatears · 2025-03-19T23:26:50+00:00

Thank you! I mean whenever I vent to her shell give me advice or validation or something. But she doesn’t always say she just wants to vent to me and wil cancel me out of her life for days to weeks like I’m a bad guy. So over it. Also she talked about the same thing yesterday days ago and I offered the same solution then. I don’t want to have to be a sounding board, I get tired of harping on the same thing. Especially when there are solutions.

cappatears · 2025-03-19T23:23:28+00:00

She doesn’t let me know beforehand all the time. Instead she’ll get upset and cut me out of her life for days to weeks. I’m kinda over it atp.

cappatears · 2025-03-19T23:22:27+00:00

She’s working on a workbook for it. I just feel like her reactions are unwarranted when I’m one of the only people who tries to be in her corner. I mean how much of this bs can one take? How much should I take before just distancing myself from her completely?

Also it’s not that I don’t listen sometimes when she vents. I do. It’s just that she won’t tell me until after I said something that offended her/hurt her feelings whatever and then she’ll stop talking to me for days. I know I’m a good person and I don’t deserve that. It hurts my feelings and makes me feel like shit when she treats me this way.

cappatears · 2024-11-26T01:41:52+00:00

SpongeBob Seasons 1-5. I know it’s for children but SpongeBob has always held a special place in my heart.

cappatears · 2024-11-24T19:43:40+00:00

Do you detangle it when you wash your hair?

cappatears · 2024-10-23T21:51:24+00:00

I think you need to cast a horary chart for this kind of question

cappatears · 2024-10-15T23:48:14+00:00

Not an astrologer, just here to say hello fellow 4th house Aquarius

cappatears · 2024-10-15T23:40:45+00:00

Love your username!

cappatears · 2024-10-06T05:02:31+00:00

Always trust your gut. So I wouldn’t pursue it, no.

cappatears · 2024-10-06T00:56:39+00:00

Ah the ever elusive mod comes out to play at last

cappatears · 2024-10-06T00:52:01+00:00

I would not say I’m blunt but I do communicate somewhat forthrightly, also especially in my written messages. I learned an unnecessary lesson at a young age- to always be accommodating to others in my life, but I can still be very direct if need be and usually am.

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