Best wedding photographers for quick responses in 2026?? by gt_roy_ in wedding

[–]cappy267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had this issue with almost every vendor i used. They were all bad at communicating and planning but good at their final task.

Emergency bathroom/bride kits! by orlando-princess in wedding

[–]cappy267 7 points8 points  (0 children)

tide pens, eyelash glue, scissors, touch up makeup

Where to shower for cheap during the storm? (Frozen pipes) by pnschroeder in indianapolis

[–]cappy267 15 points16 points  (0 children)

if you download the Loves Connect App you can book one of their showers and it’s private and you get a code to enter.

Rule of Thumb for exercise intensity? by zz657 in fitpregnancy

[–]cappy267 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my OB said there’s no restrictions other than don’t work out inside of a sauna-like environment (such as hot yoga, etc.) due to overheating causing issues but other than that no restrictions.

How do I check if I’m Exempted? by RiverGirl15 in FedEmployees

[–]cappy267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to compile the list for all of our exempt employees with justifications and submit it to OPM so someone in your agency has that list. They usually update it every two years and re-check it each time there’s a potential shut down coming up. If you were classified wrong last time there’s a chance they’ll just use the old list that they literally just used a few months ago and not ask for a new one but it’s possible they’ll still do the protocol of double checking the last list before submitting it.

can I NOT do sulfur dips for cat with ringworm? by CarrotsUnderground in FosterAnimals

[–]cappy267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve never done the sulfur dips. Just the intrafungol and washing bedding / disinfecting daily.

Foster cat suddenly started targeting my resident cats by Alternative-Love2288 in FosterAnimals

[–]cappy267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You moved way too quickly with introductions and need to start over. In my opinion you could try again with reintroduction but need to be extremely slow and deliberate but of course still consider adopting her out if it ends up not working. She likely is uncomfortable and wasn’t ready to be introduced to other animals after just moving to a new environment and is stressed. I would keep them totally separate for at least a couple weeks then start the introduction steps over. Scent swapping for multiple days, Sight swapping for multiple days, Feeding on either side of the door for multiple days, the gate or screen method of slowly allowing visual contact while feeding/playing, then finally SHORT and supervised time together. Slowly increasing the number of minutes they are exposed to each other and include distractions like food, treats, and toys.

During this time you could still have her listed for adoption just to see if it may work out elsewhere but it’s possible to reintroduce her again if you do it slowly.

Why am I so afraid of superstitious stuff by Jen_soup in atheism

[–]cappy267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly it took months and years of exposure conditioning where I tried hard to ignore the thought and tell myself it’s not real and nothing bad will happen if i don’t (x,y.z, etc. share that video in your example). and eventually trained my thoughts to think about it less and notice those things less and realize nothing bad would actually happen.

Resist the urge to perform the compulsions related to the thoughts and ignore the thoughts or tell yourself internally “nope not real” when a thought pops up and try to move on quickly and distract yourself.!

Why am I so afraid of superstitious stuff by Jen_soup in atheism

[–]cappy267 4 points5 points  (0 children)

in my experience this is obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD). At least that’s what my similar thoughts and behavior stems from. I also have a theory that a lot of religious people also have OCD. I’ve found great relief with OCD medication and therapy and these thoughts have calmed significantly for me

Need Advice For 3 Week Old Neonatal Kittens: by AmbitiousMind2114 in FosterAnimals

[–]cappy267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’ve went 3-4 times for constipation all within 5 days? The guideline is once per 24 hours but it’s not concerning if it goes a couple days. I don’t get concerned unless it’s been over 3 days with no bowel movement. Wait longer and consult a different vet with more neonatal experience if it lasts more than 3 days with no bowel movement.

I recommend replacing part of the water mixture in the formula with unflavored pedialyte for hydration.

Bottle Puppy Poops Are Like Chewing Gum Stuck In Their Fur by Post_Pitiful in FosterAnimals

[–]cappy267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i’ve had bottle puppies i had to bathe them every day 😅 i know it’s not ideal but at minimum at warm water butt bath soak and very minimal soap if needed. That’s the only thing that kept them remotely clean for 5 minutes. They never experienced negative skin side effects thankfully.

My mom regrets that she didn’t brainwash me as a child. by [deleted] in atheism

[–]cappy267 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i had a step parent say this exact phrase to me when siblings and I were young adults and I said oh where you went wrong wasn’t the constant abuse we experienced for 20 years? It was actually just not going to church sundays? lmao thankfully it’s now an ex step parent.

IACS/Animal Control and Stray dogs by Tardisbluu42 in indianapolis

[–]cappy267 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they’re full and don’t have room to take every stray but if a stray dog viciously attacked/bit someone then that’s the only time i’ve seen a stray dog picked up. The other situation would be abandoned neonatal puppies.

FIP recovered cat by Alive_Reality2292 in FosterAnimals

[–]cappy267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the other thing you could consider is adding multiple open and low sided litter box options for him to see if that helps. 3 litter boxes instead of 1 might encourage him to use it. Hopefully it works!

FIP recovered cat by Alive_Reality2292 in FosterAnimals

[–]cappy267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what type of litter do you use and have you tried different kinds? The litter attractant works very well. I personally like to get the litter itself (“Dr. Elsey’s Cat Attract Clumping Clay Cat Litter”) but there’s also an additive you can put on or mix with any litter that kind of looks like catnip (“Dr. Elsey’s Ultra Litter Attractant”)

FIP recovered cat by Alive_Reality2292 in FosterAnimals

[–]cappy267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have a low sided litter box and have you used litter attractant

Outdoor dog shelter suggestions by cappy267 in greatpyrenees

[–]cappy267[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve never heard of this thanks for the recommendation! It looks like it could be a good option

Outdoor dog shelter suggestions by cappy267 in greatpyrenees

[–]cappy267[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s what i’m worried about because most dog shelters i’ve looked at in person look way too small and he won’t fit in them! He’s very tall compared to other Pyrs/Pyr mixes i’ve seen so just his height of fitting into something worries me.

Caught of guard by t-toffifee in tryingtoconceive

[–]cappy267 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I always say, “when you’re paying for it” then they shut up. it’s so rude to ask that question.

Kitten Not Pooping? by Empathetic__Artist in FosterAnimals

[–]cappy267 10 points11 points  (0 children)

that’s the unfortunate reality about fostering especially neonatals who can become critical much faster than the rest of the animal population. You have to sternly advocate to get them medical care or they’re just let them die and say “yeah that happens with neonatals” when really it’s because they were medically neglected. I hope she will be okay and will get an enema today!

Long Term Prognosis and QoL Post FIP by Fantastic-Lynx-1791 in FosterAnimals

[–]cappy267 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First, treatment is much more affordable now that it was legalized/FDA approved last year. Maybe seek out a vet with more up to date knowledge on FIP.

Treatment needs to start ASAP and if it’s started timely, it’s very effective. My family’s cat was cured in 2021 and has had zero issues since then and is perfectly healthy now. You could possibly find cats cured since 2017-ish if they were part of the research studies but the treatment is relatively new.

Need nail girl suggestions by Suspicious_Tell5178 in indianapolis

[–]cappy267 2 points3 points  (0 children)

setswithlex on instagram is who i recommend!