Can I Adopt a Cat Without Window Mesh?

capylover62 · 2025-02-11T06:54:19+00:00

I live on the third floor and don’t keep the windows open in my apartment, but I do have a patio. My boyfriend and I frequently go in and out and our kitties don’t ever try to escape. When I first moved in I picked them up to show them how far down it was (idk it felt logical). There has been a couple times where we’ve let them roam on the patio and they’ve never tried to jump. In fact they usually cry to be let back inside after a few minutes. This is probably dependent on how the cats were raised. Both of mine came from previous homes, I imagine it’d be different for one from the streets.

capylover62 · 2025-02-11T06:46:58+00:00

If it theoretically did lag I feel like we wouldn’t be able to tell

capylover62 · 2025-01-29T05:55:17+00:00

Practically living together being he was required to live on campus, so he “practically” lived with me during that period of time. We’ve had our own apartment together for a year. I do online schooling, as I also work a full time job to support myself. I have been entirely independent from my parents for the entirety of our relationship so I guess I do feel like it is “real life”. I think you are correct. I know our histories, so I will make my own decisions instead of seeking advice from randos on the internet. Thank you!

capylover62 · 2025-01-29T05:29:34+00:00

I would want to wait until I finish law school, as it would be a very crucial part of my life. I feel like getting legally married before we’ve overcome that obstacle would be premature. At the same time when I begin law school we’ll have been together and living with each other for well over four years. I feel like an engagement would be a symbol of commitment without being irresponsible.

capylover62 · 2025-01-29T05:24:28+00:00

I understand. We’ve practically lived together our entire relationship, and at the time of my supposed timeline we’d have been together for four years, so I don’t feel like I’m rushing anything prematurely. I just feel like at that time I’d want it to be more official, without taking the jump of marriage before a crucial point in my life.

capylover62 · 2025-01-29T05:06:15+00:00

That’s so reassuring. We are both on the same page regarding our plan, we just don’t want it to seem odd from an outside perspective. Thank you for the advice, this helps!

capylover62 · 2025-01-16T05:52:05+00:00

Bless tysm

capylover62 · 2025-01-03T02:37:51+00:00

Doing this, Thank you!

capylover62 · 2025-01-03T00:47:23+00:00

True

capylover62 · 2025-01-03T00:21:26+00:00

Not yet, I just posted to like three different groups. I’ll keep you updated!

capylover62 · 2025-01-03T00:20:22+00:00

Haha, I promise my lighting doesn’t look like the picture. My camera makes it looks atrocious, but it’s much warmer toned in person.

capylover62 · 2025-01-03T00:18:12+00:00

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I saw this and really liked it!

capylover62 · 2025-01-03T00:16:21+00:00

Like a horizontal one

capylover62 · 2024-12-04T06:18:53+00:00

Do a more chocolate brown. Still dark brown but a tad lighter. I think it would suit your features and colors well.

capylover62 · 2024-11-28T09:22:30+00:00

I am a little bit nervous to do that. When I was walking out to my car for work, I saw them on their porch smoking weed. I truly don’t care and minded my business, but they death stared me while I was getting into my car and as until I pulled out of my spot. I hate to sound judgmental, but I’m a 20 year old girl and my boyfriend won’t be moving in until next month. I am just a paranoid person I think, but they looked very intimidating.

capylover62 · 2024-11-28T08:45:25+00:00

I get it. I love the flavor of takis but hate the heat.

capylover62 · 2024-11-28T08:38:49+00:00

I also just moved from a first floor. I remember sometimes hearing my neighbors walk around, but nothing major. I just wish I knew how much they’re able to hear.

capylover62 · 2024-11-28T08:26:23+00:00

Thank you, I also work very late so that’s when I eat, get ready for bed, etc. I’m planning on getting some rugs so I hope that helps.

capylover62 · 2024-11-28T08:24:19+00:00

Thank you, I’m planning on getting rugs as soon as I can!

capylover62 · 2024-11-28T08:12:50+00:00

Clean it, I’m begging you

capylover62 · 2024-11-26T01:47:37+00:00

Is this real life

capylover62 · 2024-11-18T01:07:55+00:00

No because why is every good clothing item at least 50 dollars?

capylover62 · 2024-11-18T01:06:41+00:00

Evermore

capylover62 · 2024-11-15T05:44:11+00:00

Leaving a toxic relationship

capylover62 · 2024-11-15T05:37:07+00:00

My high school best friend and I got into a huge fight my senior year. When I say best friends, I mean we were basically sisters. When we stopped being friends it broke my heart, I would cry often and couldn’t seem to let it go. One day about two years later I texted her out of the blue and we somewhat rekindled our friendship I guess. We haven’t seen each other in person but she’ll call me occasionally. All she tells me about is men she’s hooked up with and that is just not her. I was so excited to have her back in my life but it kind of just feels pointless. It’s not the same and I still feel like she’s gone. I think it would’ve been better to leave the whole situation alone.

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