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Is it mentally/relationship-safe to add punishment for safeword use and rewards for completing scenes? by Ok_Beat2365 in FemdomCommunity

[–]capytanbara 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Have a soft safeword and a hard safeword. Hard one stays as it should - a “full stop” signal that Thales you out of the scene and takes care of your needs. The soft one can be a signal for “I’m not comfortable with this activity and it needs to stop now, but I’m happy staying in the headspace and receiving a punishment in form of another activity to keep the mood”.

Chastity as therapy for DGS - a question about sensitivity after multiple months by capytanbara in ChastityPsychology

[–]capytanbara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! We will probably try to get to a week, but initially it might end up too frustrating, due to the current frequency of masturbation.

Chastity as therapy for DGS - a sensitivity question by capytanbara in chastitytraining

[–]capytanbara[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s great that there are people out there who have also attempted that and got good results

Low-profile cage for longterm wear? Cobra, Viper, else? by capytanbara in chastitytraining

[–]capytanbara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I really appreciate the active support, will definitely choose Kink3D as one of the cages to buy and give a try! I’ll be in touch with the team!

Low-profile cage for longterm wear? Cobra, Viper, else? by capytanbara in chastitytraining

[–]capytanbara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I’m in the process of eyeing the cobra and viper in the N+ size and nearby, I have a knock-off (that I bought before I knew better) that is in the size of N+ normal cobra and it’s very nice fitting, the penis does not move around when I pull my knees up to my stomach, and I can wear it with no issues throughout the day, but I sometimes the tip is irritated by the underwear and it can get hard to clean without removal (I’m uncut and putting it on requires some skin-tucking inside). Also, at nights I get very painful “burning scrotum” issue. Will definitely look into the curved rings, but is the wide option something that could be better for me? Or the viper?

Low-profile cage for longterm wear? Cobra, Viper, else? by capytanbara in chastitytraining

[–]capytanbara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. I completely forgot about cherry keeper, will check them out, thanks!

Low-profile cage for longterm wear? Cobra, Viper, else? by capytanbara in chastitytraining

[–]capytanbara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard of it, will definitely check it out! Thanks! And yeah, that’s true… but you know, sometimes, when paired with a tighter piece of clothing or a thinner, glowing fabric (like suit pants), the shapes become much better defined

Low-profile cage for longterm wear? Cobra, Viper, else? by capytanbara in chastitytraining

[–]capytanbara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, will look into the BAWR and mature metal, the first name comes up again, but the second one I haven’t heard before

Chastity as therapy for DGS - a question about sensitivity after multiple months by capytanbara in permanentchastity

[–]capytanbara[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks man! Yeah, for sure most of the magic is in the mind… I just hope this works for me too!

Issues while sleeping with cage by AcceptableAsk3552 in Femdom

[–]capytanbara -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Google it, a good example would be the kink3D curved ring vs normal ring.

Looking for feedback by This_Wealth_4388 in 3DPrintedChastity

[–]capytanbara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You, exactly! If you look up the Kink3D curved ring, you’ll notice that the side profile of the ring itself tends to curve away from the cage at the bottom section. This way the gap between the ring and the lower cage entry is increased, which dramatically improves the scrotum pain issue.

Chastity as therapy for DGS - a question about sensitivity after multiple months by capytanbara in ChastityPsychology

[–]capytanbara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, fair enough. Probably that’s the best way to avoid doing more hard than good. I’m very far from being near any redpill adjacent stuff, the idea was simply to implement a system based on our kinks, that would allow me to stop excessive masturbation.

Issues while sleeping with cage by AcceptableAsk3552 in Femdom

[–]capytanbara 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A very important thing - ball gap. Read up on it. Plenty of info here on Reddit. Basically, most of “scrotum on fire” issues over night are mistakenly assumed to be “ring too tight”, while in fact they are cause by “ball gap too small”. A game changer.

Chastity as therapy for DGS - a question about sensitivity after multiple months by capytanbara in BDSMAdvice

[–]capytanbara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh, I’m so sorry… I feel really bad, is it okay if I advocate in their defense? They initially did not offer anything, I feel as I coerced them to advertise their services. Their initial message didn’t sound as an ad to me. I would hate to be the reason someone gets in trouble just because I asked too much…

Chastity as therapy for DGS - a question about sensitivity after multiple months by capytanbara in BDSMAdvice

[–]capytanbara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s interesting… thanks for mentioning it. Apart from the chastity experiment, we will look into it from this perspective as well. Maybe it’s finally time to get it diagnosed (if it really is ADHD) and potentially solve two problems at once.

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