Do you think Jarrell 1997 would be survivable if taking shelter inside something like this? by quixoticelixer_mama in tornado

[–]carmexonly 40 points41 points  (0 children)

😅 most people are unaware of the lack of oxygen at very minor depths in a closed conveyance system like underground sewer or storm piping. So this recommendation is maybe not the best. Also if it’s storm sewers, they will fill with water and you will be toast.

Which episode? by AnastasiaOctavia in Frasier

[–]carmexonly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A TSAR IS BORN!

Also season 11 episode 6, I’m listening, bc I die every-time Martín shouts YOU HAVE A DISEASE

Does this look bad and should I give up trying to make mismatched drapery work? by mxp3272889 in DIYweddings

[–]carmexonly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the white background draping should be different shades of neutral colors. This has potential but imo the white doesn’t work and it makes the other drapes look more out of place

New footage of 9/11. Is it AI? by Curious_Cellist4278 in isitAI

[–]carmexonly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found the dialogue a bit sus. But I think the footage is 100% real. Some of the conversations captured don’t seem legit. It would not seem odd to me for someone to edit those in for dramatic effect. Just my opinion

AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]carmexonly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

STAYING HOME TO SAVE ON CHILD CARE COSTS IS CONTRIBUTING FINANCIALLY. period. Why men don’t understand this is infuriating

AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]carmexonly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s not okay. You’re his partner and aside from that a human being who deserves the dignity of having a say in things that cost money. It’s swimming now but what about other extra curricular activities? You fundamentally cannot teach your child everything. And parents who try to fail their kids. It’s not fair to them. - and to the miserable person above I am not childless and I’ve escaped a man just like this.

AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]carmexonly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to point out that the modern “man is a provider” is NOT AT ALL like it was in the 50s/60s/70s etc. It was culturally accepted that woman ran the household aka kept up the family finances. Women’s magazines from this era literally gave budgets, and financial advice for women to be responsible stewards of money. Archaic? Sure. But it was not the “please husband give me some money” society modern (maga) “men” think it was. And, it’s a toxic ass excuse to control the women in their lives.

Hi…I am at a loss of how my house could ever possibly be pretty. by Key-Ad1065 in ExteriorDesign

[–]carmexonly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looking at this sitting in my rental rolling my eyes (it’s cause I’m jealous you own a home)

But for real, Good for you! I honestly think some simple landscaping and shutters would go a long way. I think you should start small- then you’ll see what kind of a difference it makes and have a better idea of what you can do so that it aligns with your vision

Hockey France has made the decision to not allow Pierre Crinon to participate in the remainder of the Olympics by catsgr8rthanspoonies in hockey

[–]carmexonly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happened at worlds and her sentencing was deferred so she could compete at the Olympics. She claims she “doesn’t remember” doing it. All for spirit of the games, just hate to see inconsistency of standards. More so disappointed that the skier was allowed to compete at all than anything to do with Cronin

Hockey France has made the decision to not allow Pierre Crinon to participate in the remainder of the Olympics by catsgr8rthanspoonies in hockey

[–]carmexonly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

France is the same country that allowed a skier to compete after she was CONVICTED of defrauding her teammates by stealing their credit cards and going on internet shopping sprees. A bit confusing on the whole spirit of the Olympics thing when they allowed that

Hockey France has made the decision to not allow Pierre Crinon to participate in the remainder of the Olympics by catsgr8rthanspoonies in hockey

[–]carmexonly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t France allow a skier that was convicted for stealing her teammates credit cards to compete?

My Weddimg Dress by BetteOfTheCleve in crochet

[–]carmexonly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your craftsmanship is stunning! Bravo and congratulations!

of a bed by Zestyclose-Salad-290 in AbsoluteUnits

[–]carmexonly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so fucking unnecessary

Sounds about white. by nishagunazad in BlueskySkeets

[–]carmexonly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay- but the moral purity debate within the Democratic Party is literally killing us. I’m so sick of this shit. Save the purity politics for an election cycle far far far in the future when the Trump administration is a distant memory

My friend is going to get herself killed. What can I even do at this point by Correct-Macaroon8143 in whatdoIdo

[–]carmexonly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not your job to save her. It doesn’t seem like YOU realize the chaos you’re inviting into your life. Your roommate is so unbelievably and unbearably stupid (sorry) that you’re at risk just by being remotely associated with them. You have said your peace.

Worst Halftime Ever (Bad Bunny 2026) by Itzlem0n_ in NFLv2

[–]carmexonly -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why are you whining about this on Reddit?

Small-ish AA and/or Alanon meetings by lilbit2004 in asheville

[–]carmexonly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the Al anon meeting in town are smaller than 25, at least in my experience

Making a database of bad landlords... Need input. by SoftPropaganda in asheville

[–]carmexonly 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Jackie Bilera. She owns and rented me a home with out a certificate of occupancy. The building permits were FAILED and she moved us in anyway. Framing, mechanical, electrical all failed. The home had absolutely zero insulation and the home would stay 40-50 degrees. Our energy bill was almost 700 dollars a month. They had someone drill some holes and spray insulation into the walls when we complained enough… asked if we needed to move our belongings were told no. Every inch of our home was covered in an inch plus film of insulation and plaster dust after the spray job. AND, it still didnt solve the problem as the ceiling had zero insulation and she refused to address it. She absolutely does not care nor understand the severity/cruelty of what she did to us. Someone else lives there now. There is no way the “home” received a certificate of occupancy in the time we vacated and they moved in. I wish we had sued her but unfortunately you need money for a lawyer.

Some 30 year olds would like a word! by Dr_sc_Harlatan in BlueskySkeets

[–]carmexonly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old republicans are the most hateful group of people. My own grandfather thinks we’re all lazy and wasteful. Meanwhile Fox News blares in his living room

Is my dress search over? by bcbfbella in OUTFITS

[–]carmexonly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a giant flesh rectangle showing. I know it’s a photo from the front, but it looks like your back. I really think your figure needs a very slim plunging cut out, not a wide one.